1) It is your actions and how you spread your message that shows you do in fact hate the opposition, whether you say it outright or not. Actions speak louder than words.
2) That's actually hilarious that you'd chock it up to me not wanting to obey G-d's Word, considering I follow the entirety of the Tanakh and all the teachings of Yeshua, whereas you pretty much throw out the Tanakh like dirty dishwater. The part I follow is significantly larger than the part you follow. I don't say this to brag, I say it to point out the irony in you saying I reject Paul to avoid obeying G-d, which is also a judgment made without knowing anything about me, some Yeshua forbids