Yes my ex just called me all the time with excuses and then asked if I wanted to go evangelizing with a group. Then asked if another guy and me wanted to come over, later if I wanted to go on a date. He asked a few others from church out before me and didn't want to get rejected again so he played it cool, but he did effort. If this guy liked me he could just take the same bus and talk for an hour but he takes his bike. The first time when he just worked there I walked up to him in the train, he lives around the corner, and we had a great talk. Next day he walked with me to the bus and we had a great talk again. But then his bike functioned again so he bikes to the train station so he has another train always. I thought: oh well not interested and let it go. Then no response with the Facebook message but now it turned out he didn't see it. It was weird though. I was chatting with another guy, already thought oh well he's not interested, but then I said: Lord if this is not the one can You please tell me now. And then all of a sudden he started to Facebook chat that he had never seen it and he has real personal stuff on Facebook, me too. So there was a slight chance. I don't know. I think he's just not interested but well if I'm wrong God can tell me.