I did. Sociology 101. Can't help that I took the course in 1974. And, honest? You trust wiki?
God bless you.
Here are the facts. In America:
Who runs the family? Mom.
Who decides when it's time to buy a big-ticket item? (Car, appliances, house.) The wife. (The husband makes sure it's structurally sound, and then takes off on what he considers makes it worth the price, but that doesn't happen until the wife says it's time.)
Who talks the man into the power plays? The wife. ("You know, you'd be better in that job than what's-his-name. You've got such-and-such experience, you can do blahblahblah better, and if you get that raise, we could afford that whatever you have been wanting." "You know, BillyBob borrowed your lawn mower last year and never returned it. Don't you think our lawn is looking shabby?" "The mayor isn't helping children in this town. If you were elected, we could have a playground on Whatever Street, which would really benefit our kids...blahblahblah." "You know, the governor of our state isn't helping kids. You're the mayor of an important town and you have the connections. Add to those, I'm the head of the PTA and blahblahblah, so I have connections. I bet we could run for governor." "You know, as the governor of such an important state, the President isn't....")
Seriously? Who do you think talked each President into running for that job? Who do you think guided them along the way? Who do you think talked each CEO into getting that job? We're no slouches! We know how to run stuff and we know how to motivate guys. We've been doing it ever since Abigail Adams said, "You know, John, those slaves really aren't merely property but they're being treated that way."
We may not have the titles, but we have the ears of the men with the titles, and we've been running their houses and families for years. We also guide them in important decisions. And we've been teaching our daughters how for years too.
We don't even need daughters to teach other women who wears the pants. (Still laughing at the last "pants" thread. I can't help it. lol)
I do get what a matriarchal society is. I was raised in one. I strongly suspect most English-speaking countries are matriarchal too.