1. Go to the ladies forum or craigslist there are tons of women making lists of how real men should be.
2. How many women dont have a choice between career and children because they are either divorced or just got pregnant and the guy left. Good choice in a guy I say =)
3. Usually if you dont need a man they wont show up either, Im proof of that. When I met my man I started to notice that I actually DO need him. Love is also something you need, if he said to you he married you cause he loved you he needed love in his life, which most ppl do. If he didnt need you he wouldnt have married you.
4. Cleaning for me takes 1-2 hours. Idk where you live for it to be sooo hard... and I dont eat fast food...
5. Shawn was talking bout flowers, not opening doors. In Finland women open door for men too. how bout that? Have you ever opened a door for someone than yourself or are you the type of girl that stands around waiting for a man to open it for you... *rolls eyes*
I agree that we need to respect and communicate with eachother but Why do I keep seeing men on here getting crap for speaking out? It makes me really mad... I thought this was a christian site. I guess christianity is different where I live...
Quote "1. Go to the ladies forum or craigslist there are tons of women making lists of how real men should be"
I don't doubt that.We're talking Christian women. Women outside the church live how they like, this is a Christian forum and you're criticizing Christian women.
Quote "How many women dont have a choice between career and children because they are either divorced or just got pregnant and the guy left."
So now you're the judge of women? Every woman that divorces its their fault? Yes,some women have made a mistake and fallen. God forgives them if they ask, he didn't ask your opinion on the subject. My grandmother made that mistake but she came to God and was the most beautiful Christian lady you'd ever meet. She's in heaven today. So watch who you are insulting!! Last time I checked God didn't die and leave you boss!
Quote "When I met my man I started to notice that I actually DO need him."
No disagreement with that comment at all. But he didn't need a housewife. That was my point.He loved me as I was.
Quote "4. Cleaning for me takes 1-2 hours. Idk where you live for it to be sooo hard... and I dont eat fast food... "
YOU don't eat fast food or
SHAWN doesn't eat fast food?!!!!! Gotcha! I didn't say cleaning is soooooooooooooo hard,I said its work. If you don't think so call Merry Maid and tell them to come clean your house for free.Get back to me about what they say. I clean different things each day. I have a two story home with four bedrooms and two baths. Each day has different work to be done.And if I let that work undone for 2 weeks the house would be a mess. Anyone who actually cleans a house knows that. And my house is spotless,so much so that my mother in law asks me for tips on keeping her house clean.
Quote "5. Shawn was talking bout flowers, not opening doors. In Finland women open door for men too. how bout that? Have you ever opened a door for someone than yourself or are you the type of girl that stands around waiting for a man to open it for you... *rolls eyes*
Yes,I talked about flowers too,read back. This is the south where men are real men and open doors for women. Women don't get a chance to open a door for them, southern men are gentleman and open doors for women. Im sure many men here do the same. See that's an old fashioned traditional thing men use to do for women.It was womens lib who started saying "I can open my own door. You'd think someone like you would know that. {rolls eyes right back}
Quote "I agree that we need to respect and communicate with eachother but Why do I keep seeing men on here getting crap for speaking out? It makes me really mad... I thought this was a christian site. I guess christianity is different where I live...
I can only speak for myself. My husband and I respect each other and share duties and responsibilities and that's how a mature relationship should be.