If I gave you a quarter and you dropped it along the way to the store, were you not in possession of it? and did you not, yet, lose it? God helps us even keep the quarter, in this analogy, but we can never forget the power of man's will to be able to serve whomever he chooses; That if a man wants he can slam (not the the quarter to the ground) but slam Jesus Himself denying Him the right to secure the quarter to our person.. To that end God and Jesus are powerless to help, for by way of the power of our will we have a love relationship with God (empowered by Jesus Christ on the Cross and resurrection ) or we do not.