Different Levels of Singleness...

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GodIsSalvation

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AbigailZeke said:
That was far worse than what I expected from you, GiS.
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Then I am sorry that I am held so lowly in your sight and expectations that you wish many ills upon me even right here and that you despise me so.

May God always shower love upon Abigail Zeke. Most tender and fair of all the flowers may you always be rejoiced over and praised all the days of your life.
 
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coby

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GodIsSalvation said:
Then I am sorry that I am held so lowly in your sight and expectations that you wish many ills upon me even right here and that you despise me so.

May God always shower love upon Abigail Zeke. Most tender and fair of all the flowers may you always be rejoiced over and praised all the days of your life.
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You're the one who wants girls to end up with creeps and despise those. What else can they do if the nice Godly men don't show a sign of interest and they're not holy enough to wait on God? I get the idea girls said no to you.
A collegue didn't want me. So what? He's a real nice guy. He's just a backpacker and wants to walk to China. Doesn't mean he rejects me as a person.
 
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JeniBean

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I am going with LEVEL - I HAVE NO TIME!!!!!
 
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Born_Again said:
Perfect!! Then I shall change my answer to "I HAVE NO TIME!!!" :D
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I like that answer better than your original one and I like Tinks too...accept I know there are some good ones out there where you're not wasting time. Plus I am one who Loves people and every person has a story that makes them who they are and it's awesome to discover who they are!
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
Then I am sorry that I am held so lowly in your sight and expectations that you wish many ills upon me even right here and that you despise me so.

May God always shower love upon Abigail Zeke. Most tender and fair of all the flowers may you always be rejoiced over and praised all the days of your life.
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Desperation, delusion, now, false accusation? What else?

Be thankful that the people here were trying to help you. As I read through, it was actually all for your benefit. To open your eyes to the truth that would eventually set you free (and keep you from far worse heartaches in the future). But then, again, we're all wrong, aren't we?

Well, you can always learn the hard way.

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Anyway, off to wonderland!
 
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Ultimatum77

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I come into the thread and found an implosion due to the anger explosion betwixt two forum members...

and now for my biblical diss....

James 4

4 What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. 3 When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

Just kidding thought it would be a funny verse to throw into this mash of a thread! Jimminy cricket crosstweed and GodisSalvation I have read both of thine posts....it is truly astounding but a fascinating discussion....I love both you guys :)

GIS as your fellow brother in Christ, I detect you are very bitter that no "Christian" women has shown you interest lets say and that when you try to open up to them, they may have rejected you. I understand it is frustrating, but don't lose hope! :) .....I don't know about the 2 Tim 3 verse referring to Christian women, b/c if a Christian woman were truly grounded in Christ they wouldn't follow that sort of sinful fellow described therein....so in other words they aren't Christian women to begin with but sort of "religious women" of which there is a difference of going thru the motions vs true Christian women always obeying Christ and firmly grounded in Him... So I have to agree with crosstweed that the passage was not talking about "true Christian women" but "religious Christian women" who say/do the right things but when push comes to shove, cave to sinfulness....b/c all they had was religious show and not true conviction....we need to pray for God's will for our lives and also pray for these 2 Tim 3 type women to truly come to Christ and not wish upon them to meet some weird guy.... :)

I have learned that desperate men give off a negative vibe of immaturity and instability in their lives....the key is to remain calm, collected, and know one's self so that you have healthy pride in yourself and are not like some men groveling to women in desperation saying "love me! please I'm desperate" women get freaked out by that b/c the #1 thing they want in a man is calm assertiveness b/c they want protection/stability. By calm assertiveness I mean that they are not a bully but are comfortable with their self that they don't have to prove anything but know who they are and are internally/character wise strong but willing to stand up for their beliefs/significant other if called to action at a moments notice...
 
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AbigailZeke said:
Desperation, delusion, now, false accusation? What else?

Be thankful that the people here were trying to help you. As I read through, it was actually all for your benefit. To open your eyes to the truth that would eventually set you free (and keep you from far worse heartaches in the future). But then, again, we're all wrong, aren't we?




Well, you can always learn the hard way.

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Anyway, off to wonderland!
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See, I get to avoid all of this mess! :D Go me!!!!
 
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JeniBean said:
I like that answer better than your original one and I like Tinks too...accept I know there are some good ones out there where you're not wasting time. Plus I am one who Loves people and every person has a story that makes them who they are and it's awesome to discover who they are!
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JeniBean said:
I like that answer better than your original one and I like Tinks too...accept I know there are some good ones out there where you're not wasting time. Plus I am one who Loves people and every person has a story that makes them who they are and it's awesome to discover who they are!
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Yeah anticipating for that special one. Met a few for a short while, didnt work but it was not wasted time because I chose to get to know them. We are entitled to a few mistakes in life. And besides bad choices are not that bad, they become lessons and good stories to tell.
 
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coby

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Forgive the people that rejected you. Makes you more happy and the one that does like you won't be put off by negative talk about women.
Lol my brother dated a woman. His former boss wanted him to marry his daughter who's my age, very good looking and still single. He said: the whole time she complained about the guy she went on a date with before me and she said it was my task to find her a good christian man.
Wahahahahaha his task, that was funny. She was a bit too bossy for him. He didn't like her. He didn't even want to go on a date but he couldn't say no.
 
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aaaaaaaaaaaand i finally caught up with this thread.
 
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coby

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Ultimatum77 said:
Yea it mutated by 3-4 pages in just 2 hours lol
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Is that all? The paster women thread had 90 pages and I read every single post. Talk about wasting your time. It's all Zacheus' fault who's still stuck in a tree somewhere.
 
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Ultimatum77

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coby said:
Is that all? The paster women thread had 90 pages and I read every single post. Talk about wasting your time. It's all Zacheus' fault who's still stuck in a tree somewhere.
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Yea that sunday school song about Zachaeus being a wee little man sounds insulting to those of short stature I always thought as a kid.....what if short people started calling tall people "hey look its a walking telephone pole" they wouldn't like it either all im saying....
 
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skylove7

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I don't know about 'levels'
But I do know, that there isn't generally a 'middle' level with people that know me
I never hear someone say " ummm...you're meh"
People rather love me whole heartedly or despise me. lolol
 
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crosstweed

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Ultimatum77 said:
I come into the thread and found an implosion due to the anger explosion betwixt two forum members...

and now for my biblical diss....

James 4

4 What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God.3 When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

Just kidding thought it would be a funny verse to throw into this mash of a thread! Jimminy cricket crosstweed and GodisSalvation I have read both of thine posts....it is truly astounding but a fascinating discussion....I love both you guys :)
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:rolleyes: Ya instigator...
Love ya, too, bro!
GIS as your fellow brother in Christ, I detect you are very bitter that no "Christian" women has shown you interest lets say and that when you try to open up to them, they may have rejected you. I understand it is frustrating, but don't lose hope! :) .....I don't know about the 2 Tim 3 verse referring to Christian women, b/c if a Christian woman were truly grounded in Christ they wouldn't follow that sort of sinful fellow described therein....so in other words they aren't Christian women to begin with but sort of "religious women" of which there is a difference of going thru the motions vs true Christian women always obeying Christ and firmly grounded in Him... So I have to agree with crosstweed that the passage was not talking about "true Christian women" but "religious Christian women" who say/do the right things but when push comes to shove, cave to sinfulness....b/c all they had was religious show and not true conviction....we need to pray for God's will for our lives and also pray for these 2 Tim 3 type women to truly come to Christ and not wish upon them to meet some weird guy.... :)
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:eek: What? Pray for those who despitefully use you [even when it's an imaginary slight]? You gone cray-cray?

I have learned that desperate men give off a negative vibe of immaturity and instability in their lives....the key is to remain calm, collected, and know one's self so that you have healthy pride in yourself and are not like some men groveling to women in desperation saying "love me! please I'm desperate" women get freaked out by that b/c the #1 thing they want in a man is calm assertiveness b/c they want protection/stability. By calm assertiveness I mean that they are not a bully but are comfortable with their self that they don't have to prove anything but know who they are and are internally/character wise strong but willing to stand up for their beliefs/significant other if called to action at a moments notice...
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This... ^^^
 
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