I missed the post that said the Lords' prayer is not for us. If I had seen that post, I would have disagreed.
In your last paragraph you say what we have been saying in this whole thread...
Well then there is no difference between us in reality.
Unfortunately there are people in the "hyper-grace" camp who do say the Lords prayer is not for us.
Grace7x77 is one of them, and was the reason I came to be aware of this position.
A lot of the ideas certain teachers have is they have the secret truth or right perspective and people just react against it because they have been brainwashed into accepting religion instead of revelation from Jesus. Now it is always possible everyone is mad and only the few are sane, but more likely it is the other way around.
To get a perspective on these issues, think about how people fall in love. Strangers get so wrapped up in each other they would literally die to establish and keep what they have, throw over other important loyalties and relationships to establish this new one. Now in reality this is how pair bonding works, but talking to the people the words will sound very sensible, but they are grounded only in how they feel. Over time they get a perspective on where they have gone and how things have worked out.
Equally when people come out with strange insights into things, it is often just an expression of some deep emotional need they have to resolve by making the world different, or a massive conspiracy, or only possible to see by this unusual lens etc.
Now Jesus offers us a similar experience, except he is talking about being free from sin, and having our lives based on love.
This is very powerful stuff, talking about the fundamentals of our experience and life. It is therefore not surprising those who get the wrong perspective desire to change the meanings of simple ideas, straight forward commands, into another reality. It is the biggest red flag they are completely off the point. This is why I continually am amazed at the invention of others, painting into me things that do not exist.