Discomfort around the other sex

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GrumpyCrumpet

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I had to go to meet with my supervisor this afternoon to go over a report I have been working on for the past few months. We got our details sorted out and after I left, I had to go over to another building to another department and get something sorted out with some administrative paperwork.

Okay, that's the back story. Now, when I got into the office with the woman who was working there, I immediately became very uncomfortable and could not wait to get out of her office. There felt like something just wrong in the air or something and as she seemed to drag her feet about getting my questions answered, I got more and more and more uncomfortable. By the end of the few minutes I spent there, I wasn't able to make eye contact with her and I could feel my leg muscles tensing up like I was needing to sprint for my life.

I've never felt anything like this in my life and it was very disturbing to me. It still has me confused and I know it's going to be a topic of discussion tonight when I kneel before God tonight to speak to Him, bu I'm wondering if anyone else here has had a similar feeling at some point? What do you think it was?
 
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May have been anxiety unrelated to the person.
 
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GrumpyCrumpet said:
I had to go to meet with my supervisor this afternoon to go over a report I have been working on for the past few months. We got our details sorted out and after I left, I had to go over to another building to another department and get something sorted out with some administrative paperwork.

Okay, that's the back story. Now, when I got into the office with the woman who was working there, I immediately became very uncomfortable and could not wait to get out of her office. There felt like something just wrong in the air or something and as she seemed to drag her feet about getting my questions answered, I got more and more and more uncomfortable. By the end of the few minutes I spent there, I wasn't able to make eye contact with her and I could feel my leg muscles tensing up like I was needing to sprint for my life.

I've never felt anything like this in my life and it was very disturbing to me. It still has me confused and I know it's going to be a topic of discussion tonight when I kneel before God tonight to speak to Him, bu I'm wondering if anyone else here has had a similar feeling at some point? What do you think it was?
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I get that feeling when I go into many Bible Discussion Forum or Christian News Forum threads. No joke. :p
 
GrumpyCrumpet

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It was a bizarre feeling. I've felt it before, but that was years and years ago under much different circumstances I'd rather not share, but this today was almost like I was in the presence of something evil.
 
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GrumpyCrumpet said:
By the end of the few minutes I spent there, I wasn't able to make eye contact with her and I could feel my leg muscles tensing up like I was needing to sprint for my life.
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Sounds like she may have been a real fox? Sometimes guys get intimidated by beautiful women.
 
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GrumpyCrumpet said:
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I've never felt anything like this in my life and it was very disturbing to me. It still has me confused and I know it's going to be a topic of discussion tonight when I kneel before God tonight to speak to Him, bu I'm wondering if anyone else here has had a similar feeling at some point? What do you think it was?
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It sounds like it was something evil specifically, rather than something related to 'the other sex' (unless that is a common thing for you, and I'm not asking if it is). Either way, it's a good reminder to put your armour on (Eph. 6:10-18). Another thought though, don't discuss it with your co-workers; it could be misunderstood. :)
 
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Dan58 said:
Sounds like she may have been a real fox? Sometimes guys get intimidated by beautiful women.
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LOL...no. At best I'd say she was rather plain. Although my experience with women is extremely limited, I have never frozen up around one like a shy schoolboy. Women are people that put their pants on one leg at a time just like you and me.
 
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Dino246 said:
It sounds like it was something evil specifically, rather than something related to 'the other sex' (unless that is a common thing for you, and I'm not asking if it is). Either way, it's a good reminder to put your armour on (Eph. 6:10-18). Another thought though, don't discuss it with your co-workers; it could be misunderstood. :)
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I've had this feeling of being in the presence of evil around other males, but never in the presence of a woman, and not for many years. Certainly I'm going to get the Lord's input about the situation, but I'm curious whether I was in the presence of a spirit or something.
 
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My curiosity has the best of me, so I'm just Googling my little fingers off, and I'm not seeing much aside from a bunch of New Age babble about spirits.

I don't like when I have brand new experiences because I don't have a reference for them. When I speak of feeling this before, what I felt before is 1% of what I felt today. I think I honestly felt terror for the very first time in my life. Not "GAH a spider!", but way more touchable, sensable, uh I can't put words to it.
 
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GrumpyCrumpet said:
I've had this feeling of being in the presence of evil around other males, but never in the presence of a woman, and not for many years. Certainly I'm going to get the Lord's input about the situation, but I'm curious whether I was in the presence of a spirit or something.
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We're in the presence of the spiritual all the time. This world is operating in the spiritual realm. Of course, the spirit of life in Christ Jesus rules & reigns within you. Any spirit contrary to Christ would recoil from Him. Often times a person in spiritual bondage isn't aware that they are bound. They'll find you intimidating because of Christ within you and try to overcompensate for that fear by trying to deceive you with sensational lies. Ya know, like in the Wizard of Oz, "Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain!"

But please don't take my word for it. God will clear it up for you, I'm certain of that. He's faithful.
 
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We're in the presence of the spiritual all the time. This world is operating in the spiritual realm. Of course, the spirit of life in Christ Jesus rules & reigns within you. Any spirit contrary to Christ would recoil from Him. Often times a person in spiritual bondage isn't aware that they are bound. They'll find you intimidating because of Christ within you and try to overcompensate for that fear by trying to deceive you with sensational lies. Ya know, like in the Wizard of Oz, "Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain!"

But please don't take my word for it. God will clear it up for you, I'm certain of that. He's faithful.
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That is interesting. Thank you for that. I'm hopeful that the experience was a lesson to be learned and that through prayer and meditation about the experience, He will let me know what the lesson was about. So far, He likes to use dreams to communicate to me, and I get the message.
 
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A little bit off subject, reminds of the a time I was delivering a auto part. So my delivery guy was not around, and a body shop had left a deposit on a fender earlier in the day, but the shop got busy and could not come and pick it up. I wasn't really to busy myself, and it was not far off, so I delivered it.
I got to the place, handed the guy by the entrance the part and the bill with the balance due. So he says the boss lady handles all the money, He will be right down. After about a minute, I hear her screech, and then she says something loud to him that lasted for about 15 seconds, but I was about maybe 40 feet away from where they were, the distance to the back of the shop and up the stairs, so I could not hear exactly what she was saying, but it sounded almost violent in its pitch and intonation. So after about another 2 or 3 minutes he comes down without the money. He says take the fender and go. I ask what is going on? I say that they said they needed the fender asap, they left a deposit they were going to lose, and I made a unscheduled trip to deliver it.
He said look, I tried to tell her basically what you just told me. But she said that as soon as you walked in she felt very uneasy. He said that she even asked him when he came up into her office if someone had just entered the shop. The guy that worked there said he told her I had entered, and she asked who I was, and what did I look like. He told me he thought it was a odd question, but he answered her. He said that she said that her essence told her I did not belong there, and that I had to go right away, and never come back. And that she could not do business with me.
So I left, wondering what it was all about. I did not think about it much as first, I just thought another NY weirdo, but a few days later I started asking around. So the people i ask tell me, man, you don't know, shes a voodoo woman.
 
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GrumpyCrumpet said:
That is interesting. Thank you for that. I'm hopeful that the experience was a lesson to be learned and that through prayer and meditation about the experience, He will let me know what the lesson was about. So far, He likes to use dreams to communicate to me, and I get the message.
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Me too about the dreams...
 
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One answer only.Just pray in your spirit in the Jesus name against the evil invasion in your soul.This people use a spiritual violence to stay attractive to other sex.They're know how to take your body energy in same way.If you stay protected,Its doesn't matter who you work with.
 
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I'm going to be sort of vague about my past. If you'd like to know why I know what I do, PM me.


Spiritually speaking, I've played for both sides. I can tell you exactly why you recoiled, and why she took her time with you. However, she may not know why. I'd have to be in her presence, or you'd have to ask her some questions in order to truly know.


I like being direct, so that's what I'm going to do. That was flat out spiritual. Demonic, to be specific. She had some "friends" who were hanging out with her, and they had fun messing with you. God, being wonderful and merciful, is always with us, so you had the holy spirit telling you to get out. It's very possible, and very likely, the woman had no clue what was going on. To be cognitive or such things, on that side of things, you had to be someone like me. Or shall I say, someone like who I was. The vast majority of people don't know the real world we're living in. They play with such powerful fire...


Anyway, next time you have to see her, pray up. Ask for angels. Put on armor. Text friends and ask them to pray if you're prompted. This was a big deal and a big set up. I would know. I used to set people up all the time.


And pray about my words. God's my ultimate reference.
 
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GrumpyCrumpet said:
I had to go to meet with my supervisor this afternoon to go over a report I have been working on for the past few months. We got our details sorted out and after I left, I had to go over to another building to another department and get something sorted out with some administrative paperwork.

Okay, that's the back story. Now, when I got into the office with the woman who was working there, I immediately became very uncomfortable and could not wait to get out of her office. There felt like something just wrong in the air or something and as she seemed to drag her feet about getting my questions answered, I got more and more and more uncomfortable. By the end of the few minutes I spent there, I wasn't able to make eye contact with her and I could feel my leg muscles tensing up like I was needing to sprint for my life.

I've never felt anything like this in my life and it was very disturbing to me. It still has me confused and I know it's going to be a topic of discussion tonight when I kneel before God tonight to speak to Him, bu I'm wondering if anyone else here has had a similar feeling at some point? What do you think it was?
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I would not wait until tonight. Why not pray NOW? Even if it's a quick prayer.
 
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CatHerder said:
I would not wait until tonight. Why not pray NOW? Even if it's a quick prayer.
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I posted yesterday, and I spent a long time last night in prayer. In fact, I woke up this morning on my knees with my fingers laced in prayer. I had a long discussion with the Lord last night and told Him about how I felt and asked Him to tell me what the situation meant. I wait patiently for His answer, but I know it will come. He always answers my prayers, even if sometimes the answer is "NO" and sometimes He answers me in ways I need to pay close attention to.
 
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I posted yesterday, and I spent a long time last night in prayer. In fact, I woke up this morning on my knees with my fingers laced in prayer. I had a long discussion with the Lord last night and told Him about how I felt and asked Him to tell me what the situation meant. I wait patiently for His answer, but I know it will come. He always answers my prayers, even if sometimes the answer is "NO" and sometimes He answers me in ways I need to pay close attention to.
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The fellow posters have given some great advice....you may be dealing with something demonic about that women (maybe a spirit of jezebel or other demonic spirit) that is trying to attack you b/c the Holy Spirit living inside of you is a threat to that spirit's domain so to speak....while the Holy Spirit resides in our spirit, our soul/emotions are vulnerable to attack....you have done good by praying up but before you enter your work place plead the Blood of Jesus or worship God on the way to work.....your spirit will have teflon coating so no negative spirits/things stick to you....the blood of Jesus works wonders!
 
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