i find it interesting that those who start threads like these talk about the "responsibilities" of a wife and the "rights" of the husband,
but they never talk about the opposite.
I agree with you, although "interesting" is not the word I would use. Countless threads have been created on CC and other forums designed to rebuke rebellious modern women and admonish them to submit to (OBEY) their husbands.
Some people express a lot of vitriol for rebellious modern women, but where is their vitriol for the many rebellious husbands in our modern society who fail to love their wives like Christ loved the church, honor, dwell with them in an understanding way, be a role model for them and serve them? It is noticeably absent.
It's very reminiscent of the woman caught in adultery. The religious leaders had no problem accusing the adulterous woman, and letting the adulterous man go unpunished. Likewise, many of the folks who endorse the "men have a God-given right to rule, master, dominate, punish women belief system" are extremely eager to let the sin and disobedience committed by countless men go without mention, notice or accountability, and that's hypocrisy.