Hello B1. These are interesting questions. I am curious about how having friends is seen as not being Christian. I mean, if I invite people over to my place to watch a movie (please understand this is completely hypothetical) there is only so much room in my living room to be able to reasonably or comfortably seat so many people, so it would be impossible for me to invite everyone. This is an issue for me because for most of my life I was incredibly co-dependent, trying to please too many people, people who often did not have my best interests at heart at all. So while I might want to invite everyone because hurting people's feelings is not something I would want to do, it is inevitable that someone or many people are always going to be left out. Is one not to have any close friends at all in order to spare the feelings of those without? Believe it or not, these are issues which I have thought about independently of your posting these questions, but your questions did provide a good platform for "bouncing them off of" so to speak. Thank you for your time.
Hello magenta...
I was not referring to ppl having close friends that they physically see and invite to their house or go bowling with.
I was referring to 'christians' in a public forum cyberspace and how they often exclusivise and ostracize others in a form of treating others as if they're not good-enough or welcome in their private club.
I see a big difference between physical contact/fellowship, and on-line public communication amongst ppl who claim to be one in Christ...
But that is not the point of my previous post,
(if ppl ... 'christians' ... want to treat others like that, that's their business, and it's probly not the kind of folks we'd want as friends, anyway, right?),
but my 'dilemma' point was what constitutes walk...
I was only laying out examples,
not calling anyone into a specific thing...
just laying out examples of how ppl interact or treat each other,
and the things we do on a daily basis,
eating sleeping bathroom,
and what, of those kinds of examples of things,
would constitute walking in the spirit or the flesh
and should we have a fear of being left out
if we're not 'walking' the right way at any given moment.
Also, well, I'll leave my next question for another time, but for now, does my explanation of my 'dilemma' question make sense? I hope?
The idea of ppl having friends sounds like a great thing, I would encourage it, and wish it was more of a reality in my own life, moreso than just some aquaintances, but that wasn't what I was referring to at all.
It was just a secondary example with regards to cyber-socializing amongst brothers/sisters in Christ, and how does this modern-day phenomenon fit in with the biblical idea of 'walking in the flesh/spirit.