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No, it is their looks and their attitudes, that are their primary characteristics that attract or repulse most women. You tell me how many of these famous, rich guys have you seen with a bunch of women chasing them. These three are famous and rich, but that does not seem to make them attractive to women.
Obviously, he never heard the expression, "Looks like somebody wants to be alone."
Quote: Dennis Avner (Cat Man) spent his life trying to look like a stalking cat!
He spent tons of money on operations, injections, tattoos, etc. for that
and apparently had found his life so intolerable at age 54 that he committed suicide!
I know that is an extreme example, but it makes the point, that if you want a mate, you will strive to make your appearance as nice as possible. That includes clothing, hairstyle, hygiene, fingernails, deodorant, attitude, and conversation. In other words, that permanent change is just using plain common sense.
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Sounds to me like your problem is you have failed to trust the LORD totally to run your life.
The following verses are describing ongoing sinful lifestyle characteristics, that develop because of an addiction to sin. IT IS NOT, "GOD MADE ME THIS WAY", it is I gave in to a temptation to sin, and became addicted to it. There is NO SIN worse than others, (except Blaspheming the work of the Holy Spirit by permanently rejecting Christ); the rest of mankind's sins are all equally BAD.
James 2:10 (NIV)
[SUP]10 [/SUP] For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.
1 Corinthians 6:9-11 (ESV)
[SUP]9 [/SUP] Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
[SUP]10 [/SUP] nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
[SUP]11 [/SUP] And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
The following verses are describing ongoing sinful lifestyle characteristics, that develop because of an addiction to sin. IT IS NOT, "GOD MADE ME THIS WAY", it is I gave in to a temptation to sin, and became addicted to it. There is NO SIN worse than others, (except Blaspheming the work of the Holy Spirit by permanently rejecting Christ); the rest of mankind's sins are all equally BAD.
James 2:10 (NIV)
[SUP]10 [/SUP] For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.
1 Corinthians 6:9-11 (ESV)
[SUP]9 [/SUP] Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
[SUP]10 [/SUP] nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
[SUP]11 [/SUP] And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
a holiday favorite in NY:
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I struggle to find an opportunity to meet Christian women. Women abound, but finding a lady that has devoted herself to Christ is hard. And second, I am a single father of two children and finding a woman who doesn't resent me for having this "baggage" (I dislike the term very much, but its used often) is hard to do. My children are second to me after Christ, so these are two things that are hard to surpass. Beyond that, friends of the opposite sex tell me I'm attractive as being tall, dark and handsome, and I'm very polite, a true gentleman, and love a classy lady. And I find inner beauty so much more attractive and intriguing than outer beauty! So I don't know why I can't find a great Christian lady?!
Hey Germany, that's closer.
Oh darn, classy. I'm very classy. Yesterday I wore a skirt for the first time since last summer. It was so hot. I said to the boys: hey this looks like a bag you use for potatoes. You can go bag jump with it. Do you like rabbits who jump through the house?
How old are you? Oh who cares, I can always take a face lift.
My dad was a German teacher and I have a niece in Germany.
Oh maybe I know someone for you. She's really classy, lives in Austria, travels the world, has a ministry and she looks fabulous. My brother didn't want her because he wants to stay single and she's too classy for him. She also has some single sisters. She's a bit bossy though. She told my brother it was his task to find her someone if he didn't want to date her.
Oh darn, classy. I'm very classy. Yesterday I wore a skirt for the first time since last summer. It was so hot. I said to the boys: hey this looks like a bag you use for potatoes. You can go bag jump with it. Do you like rabbits who jump through the house?
How old are you? Oh who cares, I can always take a face lift.
My dad was a German teacher and I have a niece in Germany.
Oh maybe I know someone for you. She's really classy, lives in Austria, travels the world, has a ministry and she looks fabulous. My brother didn't want her because he wants to stay single and she's too classy for him. She also has some single sisters. She's a bit bossy though. She told my brother it was his task to find her someone if he didn't want to date her.
I think some people are 'single for a reason' and that reason is not always 100% from God. For example: We sin, we are prideful, we have issues that turn into obsessions or hoarding or BIG personality quirks - the kinds of things that (at least a healthy person) drive people away. We let our sin take control of our lives (either privately or publicly) and it makes us 'single for a reason'.
I know I am going to get pushback from some on this.
Sometimes WE choose to be single (in obedience??? ) and sometimes God wants us to be...and if the latter is the case and we obey Him then we are living out our life the way God wants us to.
I know I am going to get pushback from some on this.
Sometimes WE choose to be single (in obedience??? ) and sometimes God wants us to be...and if the latter is the case and we obey Him then we are living out our life the way God wants us to.