Suicide Unpardonable ? or RCC Nonsense?

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Monnkai

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Hard to believe anymore, but this is a BIBLE DISCUSSION forum, not a RCC bashing forum, a conspiracy theory forum, (and strangely enough this site has one of those too) or a debate useless things ad infiniti forum.

You're young. You're still adaptable. May I make a request directly to you? (And, of course I can and you can just as easily ignore the request.) How about becoming a part of the solution instead of continuing the problem? Most of your questions seem to be to see if you can get a tomato throwing contest going and then you walk away. You're 27 years old and I'm going to assume you do study the Bible sometimes. Surely you have questions about what you read. I still do. How about asking those instead of this kind of question?

And, please, take this in the spirit it is given. You're young. They keep saying you can't teach an old dog. I'm asking this of you specifically because you're not old. :)
You are absolutely right I do start a lot with Catholics. I apologize I will try to refrain from it in the future I know that's not what Christ had called me to do. Thanks for pointing that out :)
 

notmyown

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You are absolutely right I do start a lot with Catholics. I apologize I will try to refrain from it in the future I know that's not what Christ had called me to do. Thanks for pointing that out :)
i love you, child. :)
 
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AuntieAnt

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You are absolutely right I do start a lot with Catholics. I apologize I will try to refrain from it in the future I know that's not what Christ had called me to do. Thanks for pointing that out :)
Wow, you may be young but you certainly exhibit spiritual maturity and the humility of Christ that many older members here lack. Well done, brother! ;)
 

notmyown

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:) Thank you, I love you too :) I got a bad habit of putting my foot in my mouth. I'm trying to get rid of that problem.
when you get it figured out, clue me in, would you? ;)
 

lastofall

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[for me anyway] the sin which shall not be forgiven is unbelief, and as for self-murder, it is evident that the person gave up hope in God which is unbelief. By the way the sin is self-murder; the invented word "suicide" was invented for the very purpose that general society would think it less wrong that it is, because saying self-murder seems so harsh, though that is exactly what it is. We as Christians ought not to go along with the secular world and diminish sin as somehow not sin: we see the results of that mind set in this present evil world; for they make evil good and good evil; and make darkness light and light darkness; and also they pass off sin as if it were righteousness, while calling righteousness sin; why then as professing Christians would we practice and follow the unbelieving world's ways? Notwithstanding concerning self-murder for me it is a matter between God and that person in what state of mind they were in at that moment, whether they knew what they were doing was sin, or it may be that they were in a state of confusion; but again, that is between that person and God
 
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:) Thank you, I love you too :) I got a bad habit of putting my foot in my mouth. I'm trying to get rid of that problem.
Yeah. As an expert on foot-in-mouth, I can tell you adding mustard to the foot doesn't get rid of the toe jam taste. lol
 

Magenta

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We all live in sin until we are born again of the Holy Spirit of God.
Even then we still live in a sinful world and are susceptible to the
desires of corruptible flesh, which oppose the will of God.

All words are invented.

Anyone who commits suicide is in a lot of pain.
Guilt, fear, shame, pain, exhaustion overwhelms.
Saying they do not trust God seems superfluous.
Calling it a selfish act seems unkind, even if true.

Better to exhibit an attitude of compassion and understanding toward those
whose sense of self is so eroded they can barely stand to carry on in life.

For God so loved the world... and so should we try to better love those who
would carry out such an act, the permanent solution for a temporary problem.
 
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The title pretty much says it all. Will you go to hell for suicide or is it just the Catholics blowing hot air again?
Hi Monnkai,

Can you please show me where the Catholic Church teaches that somebody who commits suicide will go to hell and that it is an unpardonable sin?

You've stated that and others seem to agree...but I would like some proof of that from you please.

I look forward to your response on that.

In the meantime, I looked through the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Paragraphs 2280-2283 address the topic of suicide.

Here's what paragraph 2283 says:

"We should not despair of the eternal salvation of persons who have taken their own lives. By ways known to Him alone, God can provide the opportunity for salutary repentance. The Church prays for persons who have taken their own lives." (Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 2283, pg. 550)

I've heard it put this way. People who commit suicide may very well have a sincere repentance after they have committed an act that will take their life even though they are still going to die. So they could very well die in a state of repentance. For example, someone who jumps off a building could repent during the fall thinking, "Omigosh...what have I done....God, I am sorry."

Since we do not know what is in people's minds, only God does, only God knows the state of that person at the moment of their death.

The Church also acknowledges and lists the following conditions which can "diminish the responsibility" of the person who committed suicide: "grave psychological disturbances, anguish, grave fear of hardship, suffering, or torture". (CCC paragraph 2282)

So the Church will not say that anyone has gone to hell. It will say that someone may be in danger of going to hell. Just like we may say that those who do not accept Christ are in danger of going to hell....but only God knows for sure.

Again, could you please tell me where the Church teaches that suicide is unpardonable and that the person goes to hell? I'm really curious as to where you got that from.

Thanks.

Peace.
 
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RCC nonsense.

1 John 1:7
[SUP]7 [/SUP]but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin.

When Jesus died on the Cross His Blood washed everyone clean of ALL their sins.

If a person kills himself, this sin has already been forgiven.

No you will not end up in Hell like the Corrupted Catholic Church teaches. But there is a good chance you might lose some of your Rewards in Heaven.
Hi Vdp,

Paragraph 2283 of the Catechism of the Catholic Church states: "We should not despair of the eternal salvation of persons who have taken their own lives."

I bolded the second to the last sentence in your post above.

Could you please respond by showing me where the Catholic Church teaches that if you commit suicide you go to hell? I am curious where you got that from.

Thanks.

God Bless.
 
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I can show you the answer Bestil_Andno.

The whole point of CC2283 is about Salvation.

The Catholic Church believes one can lose their Salvation if they commit a Mortal sin. Interestingly enough Suicide is listed as a Mortal sin.

Therefore if a person commits Suicide they have committed a Mortal sin which removes from them their Salvation which then puts them in Hell because they being dead cannot repent of this Mortal sin.

Therefore by the very words of the Catholic Church a person will end up in Hell for killing themselves!
 

miknik5

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The title pretty much says it all. Will you go to hell for suicide or is it just the Catholics blowing hot air again?
Why?
Are we to test GOD?
 
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I can show you the answer Bestil_Andno.

The whole point of CC2283 is about Salvation.
No it isn't. Where did you get that idea?

2283 falls under a discussion of the commandment "Thou shall not kill."

It also falls under the sub-category of "Respect for Human Life".

The Catholic Church believes one can lose their Salvation if they commit a Mortal sin
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True....with the condition added that the sin is unrepented of. Repented of mortal sins are forgiven by God.

Interestingly enough Suicide is listed as a Mortal sin.
Listed where?

Also, some suicides may be mortal sins.....some may not. Only God knows. The conditions for the sin being mortal must be met.

Therefore if a person commits Suicide they have committed a Mortal sin which removes from them their Salvation which then puts them in Hell because they being dead cannot repent of this Mortal sin.
Not true. A person can commit suicide and not have committed a mortal sin. You are assuming that all suicides are mortal sins. The Church doesn't teach that or assume that.

Therefore by the very words of the Catholic Church a person will end up in Hell for killing themselves!
Nope. I see several errors in your thinking above.

1. You failed to distinguish between unrepented of mortal sin and repented of mortal sin. There is a difference.
2. You assume that all suicides are mortal sins.
3. You assume that the Church believes that all suicides are mortal sins. It doesn't.
4. You are not accurately representing the words of the Church.

So your conclusion is simply wrong.

Paragraph 2283 explicitly tells us the words of the Church about the salvation of those who commit suicide. Again, it says, "We should not despair of the eternal salvation of persons who have taken their own lives. "

Those are the words of the Church on the subject.

There are too many errors in your thinking above to call what you said the words of the Church.

Thanks for your thoughts.

Peace.
 

jsr1221

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If we got sick in our body and died - we go to heaven to be with the Lord. It's the same thing if we get sick in our mind too.

Suicide is a sickness of the mind where people are attacked with thoughts and impulses to end their lives because of depression and despair. The preaching of the gospel of the grace of Christ will put an end to all that.
I agree with you, brother. But with the last sentence, it doesn't make those thoughts go away completely. I still have days in which it is a struggle to just do the basic of things. Days where it's a struggle to get out of bed. And I've had those prayers, and read the Bible when such things have happened. If preaching the gospel essentially ended all of that, God wouldn't have invented psychological science to help with mental illness.
 
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How can some suicides be a mortal sin and others not? This is nothing more than double talk by the Corrupted Catholics.

There is no difference in sins. The sin of lying is just as great as the sin of murder. Its the Corrupted Catholics who teach there is a difference in sins.

Could it be Bestil_Andno you are a Catholic who wants to deceive us with the lies of the Catholic Church? If so we really do not need you here on this site.

Tell us Bestil_Andno, do you pray the Hail Mary? Do you pray the Rosary? Do you have pictures and statues of Mary? Does the Church you attend have pictures and statues of Mary?

How can one lose their Salvation by sinning when we never received our Salvation by not sinning?

Ephesians 2:8
[SUP]8 [/SUP]For by grace you have been saved

By Grace from God we have been Saved. We have not received our Salvation by not sinning. Also since its by the Grace of God we have been saved we therefore cannot lose our Salvation by any sin we do.

1 John 1:7
[SUP]7 [/SUP]but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin.
The Blood of Jesus HAS ALREADY cleansed us from ALL sins. Therefore any sin we do has already been cleansed. Which means we cannot sin!

The whole point is the Catholics are corrupting the Scriptures to justify their believe we can lose our Salvation.

So why are you listening to the Corrupted Catholic Church that see's nothing wrong with teaching lies?

Why are you even quoting anything from the Catholic Church? God Himself removed His Children from the Catholic Church with Martian Luther, John Calvin and others who walked away from the evil Church to follow and Worship God.

Again i ask. If you are a Catholic why are you here? To cause problems? To deceive others with the false teachings of the Catholic Church?

If you are not a Catholic, then why are to listening to what the Catholics teach? The Truth is only in the Scriptures, not in the Catholic Church.
 
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How can some suicides be a mortal sin and others not? This is nothing more than double talk by the Corrupted Catholics.
Hey PaulMack,

No. It is not double talk. You are wrong about that.

In order for a sin to be mortal 3 conditions have to be met. They are:

1. It must be grave matter (serious),
2. It must be committed with full knowledge, (the person is aware of what they are doing)
3. It must be done deliberately with full and free consent (They do it on purpose knowing that it is serious)

Some suicides could meet those three conditions, but many probably don't. As others have already mentioned on this thread and the Church agrees, there are situations that can prevent a person from realizing what they are actually doing. So they may not meet conditions 2 and 3 above. That could include things like, grave psychological disturbances, anguish, fear of hardship, suffering or torture. People who are going through those kind of things may not be acting in a way where they fully realize what they are doing. So the above 3 conditions are not met and it isn't a mortal sin. That is what the Church teaches. (CCC paragraph 2382)

Also, somebody could take an overdose of pills or something....but then repent of doing so before they die. To us that looks like clear cut suicide. It looks like a mortal sin. But to God (who alone knows that person's thoughts and heart at the moment of their death and is aware of their repentance), it isn't an unrepented of mortal sin. It is repented of before the person dies. And God forgives sins when people repent. Also, such a person is probably dealing with conditions stated above which also could make their suicide not a mortal sin.

So yes, some suicides could be mortal. And some could not.

There is no difference in sins. The sin of lying is just as great as the sin of murder. Its the Corrupted Catholics who teach there is a difference in sins.
Jesus thought there was.

He said this in John 19:11: "Jesus answered, Thou couldest have no power at all against me, except it were given thee from above: therefore he that delivered me unto thee hath the greater sin."

How can He speak of a greater sin unless there exists lesser sins?

Also, 1 John 5:16-17 shows two types of sins. Those that are "unto death" and those that are "not unto death". Pick any translation you want it is there. Here is the KJV:

"If any man see his brother sin a sin which is not unto death, he shall ask, and he shall give him life for them that sin not unto death. There is a sin unto death: I do not say that he shall pray for it. All unrighteousness is sin: and there is a sin not unto death."

So yes, there are greater and lesser sins.


Could it be Bestil_Andno you are a Catholic who wants to deceive us with the lies of the Catholic Church? If so we really do not need you here on this site.
I am not ashamed to admit that I am Catholic. I think you can see that in my profile. I know that is what I put. I'm not very techy so I'm not sure who all can see that, though.

No. I am not here to deceive anyone with lies. I actually do not hang out here too much as you can tell by my low post count.
However, one of the reasons that I do jump in is because some people on this site make claims about the Catholic Church that are just not true. Truth matters so when that happens, I don't mind trying to clarify what it is that the Church actually teaches.

This idea that the Church teaches that people who commit suicide go to hell is a perfect example. A statement like that isn't true just because somebody said it is. So if the Church really teaches that...I've simply asked the people who said that to show me where. What is the harm in that? If the Church really teaches that, it should be able to be found. But if it doesn't really teach that, then that accusation should be recognized for what it is. An untrue statement.

Tell us Bestil_Andno, do you pray the Hail Mary? Do you pray the Rosary? Do you have pictures and statues of Mary? Does the Church you attend have pictures and statues of Mary?
So I guess at this point you are going to give up on showing me where the Catholic Church teaches that people who commit suicide go to hell?

With all due respect to you, I'd like to stick to the topic at hand for now.

How can one lose their Salvation by sinning when we never received our Salvation by not sinning?
Loss of salvation for the topic now? Sorry, I'd like to stick with one topic at a time.

All I did was ask where the Church taught that people who commit suicide go to hell. That was a claim that was put forth and I just wanted to know where the Church taught that.

I apologize if I have offended you....it is hard to tell in text but you seem a little upset. I do not see where the harm is in the question that I asked.

Ephesians 2:8
[SUP]8 [/SUP]For by grace you have been saved

By Grace from God we have been Saved. We have not received our Salvation by not sinning. Also since its by the Grace of God we have been saved we therefore cannot lose our Salvation by any sin we do.
Great verse. The Catholic Church agrees 100%. We are saved by God's grace. Amen.

Loss of salvation is not the topic I asked about, though.

1 John 1:7
[SUP]7 [/SUP]but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin.
The Blood of Jesus HAS ALREADY cleansed us from ALL sins. Therefore any sin we do has already been cleansed. Which means we cannot sin!
Ooh. You almost got me. That last sentence you wrote is very tempting to talk about.

But I am serious about trying to stick to one topic. I get so confused and it just feels like wheel-spinning to try to get into too many topics at once.

So I'm still at: Can you show me where the Catholic Church teaches that those who commit suicide go to hell?

If you can, I would like to see that. Seriously.

If you can't. You know, it's really no big deal to just say "Oops. I guess the Catholic Church doesn't really teach that after all and I was misinformed by somebody."

The whole point is the Catholics are corrupting the Scriptures to justify their believe we can lose our Salvation.
Off topic.

So why are you listening to the Corrupted Catholic Church that see's nothing wrong with teaching lies?
Well, why don't we start with the question at hand? Does the Church teach that people who commit suicide go to hell or not?

I won't accuse anyone who said that of lying....they probably are just misinformed. What I am saying is if that is true....prove it. If it is untrue, it should be shown to be untrue or people will be misled into believing lies.

Why are you even quoting anything from the Catholic Church? God Himself removed His Children from the Catholic Church with Martian Luther, John Calvin and others who walked away from the evil Church to follow and Worship God.
Another interesting topic, for sure. But off topic for now.

Again i ask. If you are a Catholic why are you here? To cause problems? To deceive others with the false teachings of the Catholic Church?
I am not ashamed to admit I am Catholic.

I come here for a couple of different reasons. One of them is not to cause problems, though. I assure you. Nor to deceive anyone.

1. To be honest, there is quite a few statements made on this site that misrepresent the Catholic Church and what it teaches.That isn't ok. That means people are being misled into believing something that isn't true. I occasionally will jump in to try to clarify some stuff. I understand nobody is going to convert to Catholicism...but, I figure, people will at least have a chance to understand what the Church really teaches about something versus what somebody mistakenly says it teaches.

I kindof feel like if I want to know what a Lutheran believes about something...I should talk to a Lutheran. Or if I want to know what a Baptist believes about something....I should talk to a Baptist. Or something about the LDS....I should talk to a LDS member. I figure it should be the same for Catholics. If someone wants to know what the Catholic Church teaches about something...they should probably be getting that info from a Catholic.

2. I have lots of non-Catholic friends and I enjoy discussing the Faith with them. I have some people even on this site I would consider to be friends, in a sense. People I enjoy discussing things with. I also find I can learn alot when talking with others whose Faith is a little different than mine.

3. I kindof believe in the "iron sharpens iron" thing. You know how when you get into a discussion it forces you to stick your nose into the Bible and reflect and study and pray? I think that is a good thing.

4. I want to know that what I believe is true. You know. Is it defensible, is it logical, does it hold water and all that. You can see different ideas from people on a non-Catholic site than you can on a Catholic site.

5. I like to talk about Jesus, God, the Bible, the Faith. Things that are important in life. It doesn't really matter to me with who.

If you are not a Catholic, then why are to listening to what the Catholics teach? The Truth is only in the Scriptures, not in the Catholic Church.
So yeah. I'm starting to feel that "I'm-wearing-out-my-welcome" thing again. That's why I don't hang out here too long.

With all due respect and I don't mean to offend you at all...but I wonder why you seem so frustrated with me? All I asked for was where the Catholic Church teaches that people go to hell who commit suicide.

It makes me wonder if you are frustrated just because I am Catholic and was sounding way too Catholic.....
....or are you frustrated because you want to believe the Church teaches that about suicide even though it hasn't been (or maybe cannot be) shown where it does?

At any rate, I have no hard feelings to you. I wish you peace.

Perhaps I'll check back here to see if somebody has found where the Church teaches what was originally claimed. Or perhaps I'll just take a break.

God Bless.
 
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TonyJay

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In order for a sin to be mortal 3 conditions have to be met. They are:

1. It must be grave matter (serious),
2. It must be committed with full knowledge, (the person is aware of what they are doing)
3. It must be done deliberately with full and free consent (They do it on purpose knowing that it is serious)

Some suicides could meet those three conditions, but many probably don't. ...
Have you ever actually dealt with suicidal individuals?
I have.
Thousands of them.

The whole point about suicide is that it is not normal and normal people do not consider suicide.
Points #2 and #3 cannot apply to people with suicidal ideation - by definition what they are thinking is pathological.

Your argument may be theoretically plausible but it does not stand up to any test - theological, legal, or medical/psychiatric.
 

hornetguy

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Have you ever actually dealt with suicidal individuals?
I have.
Thousands of them.

The whole point about suicide is that it is not normal and normal people do not consider suicide.
Points #2 and #3 cannot apply to people with suicidal ideation - by definition what they are thinking is pathological.

Your argument may be theoretically plausible but it does not stand up to any test - theological, legal, or medical/psychiatric.
Thousands? What do you do for a living?