This is really nice and it was obviously from the heart, so I'm at risk of being misunderstood and beat up for what I'm about to say, but I will risk it in defense of others.
I wish everything you said here was true, meaning I wish it applied across the board for everyone that comes here and is a sister or brother in Christ.
But there have been many who have never been called 'our dear brother Y-I-G' or 'our beloved sister AA'. Many who might have benefitted immensely by just hearing that said, who knows.
Many who's offenses were similar-type sarcasms or arguements, that are considered so cute and endearing when done by some here, but yet they got a bit bullied, or criticised, ostracised, ignored, neglected, 'reported', condemned, and either banned or were 'forced' to leave in sadness or bitterness to avoid further misunderstanding and mistreatment.
I know some close and personal, others through different means of communicating/sites, etc., friend of a friend of a contact, things like that, so there's some knowledge of people and places ahead of time, plus anyone can read along before making a decision to register/join this site, so not everyone has to come here totally foreign to how things can go.
I also don't know the rules of computer sharing, (lots of us do that) but I guess not everyone have to have their own account. I know there are some married people or bf/gf who occupy the same space, and there's friends and family members, through marriage, parent child, siblings, etc., (whether they have their own name or share, who knows), but there's a natural tendency to support/defend people you know over strangers, and overlook their 'defects' of character, while harshly judging another with similar 'faults'.
I understand that, it's a part of life.
And being forgiving and loving towards some happens, for a variety of reasons, while being cold towards others, and it's usually over a misunderstanding of communication, not any horrible, unforgiveable crime.
I could name at least 4 people right now that were treated like outcasts, before either leaving or being banned, but I won't mention their names now, but people that were solid believers in Jesus, not atheists or catholics or some others that just wanted to antagonize for the sake of arguement, or no desire for sisterly/brotherly love.
Though most all of us have a tendency to play favorites, it's a shame that the damage is done for many, with little to no chance for redemption or reconciliation within the body here, and I wonder if any of that damage has a trickle-down effect toward others outside this site due to rejection/ridicule, or bitterness.
I'm sorry, I don't mean to pass a general indictment, there are many wonderful people and opportunities on this site, prayer/praise/proclamation of Jesus, fellowship, scripture study/discussion/debate, humor, flirting, romance even, friendships that will last forever, growth in grace and knowledge of our God and Savior, ALL that and more.
I just think that there's some out there that deserved or still do deserve better, and I don't know how it could ever happen in this life, or in eternity, but there still seems to be some apologies/forgiveness due amongst the professing body of Christ, and much of it could have been avoided if those things that AuntieAnt talked about in her post regarding Y-I-G or others were more of a working reality.
Sorry for the lengthy post. May we all continue in love to grow and learn of Jesus.
Have a great weekend.