my step mom hates me

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Thank you very much
 
damombomb

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TemporaryCircumstances said:
Yeah that's highly debatable
Many can and do hate me

The thing is, I can't keep doing what im doing.
I push myself to the breaking point and I'm done I've broken.
Congrats to her
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What does your Dad think about this? Can you talk to him about it? Could the three of you sit down and talk? Why do you think she hates you?
 
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damombomb said:
What does your Dad think about this? Can you talk to him about it? Could the three of you sit down and talk? Why do you think she hates you?
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Step dad* not dad
Sorry my dad or father is a complete different person not involved in this situation.

No I cannot talk to them because whenever I try to talk to her she tells me she doesn't want to talk and to go back inside.
Because of the way she treats me
 
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Your stepmom seems she should talk to you. (sounds like shes not to happy a person. God bless you and guide you. Sometimes it is impossible to please someone. Sometimes we have to make a stand and say i am not putting up with this another day.
 
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damombomb said:
Your stepmom seems she should talk to you. (sounds like shes not to happy a person. God bless you and guide you. Sometimes it is impossible to please someone. Sometimes we have to make a stand and say i am not putting up with this another day.
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But the problem is,
I can't say that because she will not talk to me.
Not one word.
 
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No she doesn't know I go to church
 
damombomb

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TemporaryCircumstances said:
No she doesn't know I go to church
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Our preacher preached this week on the promises of God. Sometimes we have to endure hardship but when the promise comes it is like you dont even remember the hardship. He used this scripture Hebrews 11:11
(KJV) Through faith also Sarah herself received strength to conceive seed, and was delivered of a child when she was past age, because she judged him faithful who had promised.
 
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damombomb said:
Our preacher preached this week on the promises of God. Sometimes we have to endure hardship but when the promise comes it is like you dont even remember the hardship. He used this scripture Hebrews 11:11
(KJV) Through faith also Sarah herself received strength to conceive seed, and was delivered of a child when she was past age, because she judged him faithful who had promised.
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Yes I know that I just have trouble looking forward when things aren't always going well in the present
 
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TemporaryCircumstances said:
Yes I know that I just have trouble looking forward when things aren't always going well in the present
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Don't give up. God hears your prayers. I know when i get like you are feeling now. I get away from people who are bringing me down(and they can drain you).
 
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damombomb said:
Don't give up. God hears your prayers. I know when i get like you are feeling now. I get away from people who are bringing me down(and they can drain you).
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Yeah, I am trying to do that.
There aren't many people who bring me down but I'm definitely trying to remove myself from the ones that do
 
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AuntieAnt,
I talked to someone on the Colorado Crisis service.
Just BTW I didn't ignore you >. <
 
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blue_ladybug said:
This is where you are wrong. Abuse in ANY form is wrong. So is neglect, and if it's YOU doing all the work at home, then step mom is neglecting all of you.
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I told you, she pays half the bills. It's not only me
 
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I told you, she pays half the bills. It's not only me
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She is the guardian to how many, 4 or 5 young kids? SHE should be paying ALL the bills. SHE should be cooking the meals, getting the kids to school, putting them to bed. SHE is the parent and SHE is a neglectful person. She's a lazy bum who is content to let YOU do ALL the work around the house.
 
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TemporaryCircumstances said:
Fine
I will eventually
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You're never promised tomorrow. Eventually never gets here. You just keep putting it off. This isn't like a homework assignment "ohh I'll get to it". This could really be life or death. For all you know, something could happen to you or your siblings. And if it was your siblings, you'dbe blaming yourself for not doing something sooner. So don't wait. Do it today.
 
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