Love/Grace and law go together ! They help us to walk correctly with God in tandem....
not jump or hobble along on one leg like a handicapped/injured person. Remember we are a sick,suffering Creature that needs to be HEALED. Let GOD/Christ do it THEIR way !
I Struggled for a while trying to work out how the Law and obedience can balance with faith and grace. It wasn't until i realised that it isn't about balance or that one was against the other. By faith in Jesus alone we are saved and this results in Love which results in obedience. The law is a delight because you love Jesus.