How did u kick the habit? While addicted to porn did u notice any anxiety issues?
My response in another porn thread:
Maybe it will help you...caution it's long conglomerate of posts here/there....
No Christian man who calls himself one should be watching porn. Do men fail? Yes but there is no excuse.....especially when you're married to a woman you committed to. Men will use excuse of "it's my relaxation technique/hobby/ "I have needs" blah blah...its sin. Jesus said to look at a woman with lust is to commit adultery with her in your heart.
Porn reduces a woman to meat / very superficially. It degrades those who are married (the spouse/woman) by saying in effect that they are not enough to satisfy the man.
It is a spirit of lust/demon that needs to be cast out by prayer on your part. You need to actively pray for your husband to renew his mind and soul. Try putting a cross next to the computer so when he's watching whatever filth he sees the cross and is reminded that his sins nailed Jesus to the cross and that he is in effect driving the nails deeper. ( I know it's not Biblical per se but the thought that you are killing Jesus willingly/driving the nails in may convict some of sin sometimes.)
Get a tech savy person to install an adblocker/ website blocker on your computers to dissuade him from watching crap.
Point out that his behavior is very childish for a grown married man with a family to be looking at another person's genitals....it is very immature and shows a lack of self-control/restraint.
The best you can do is pray....ultimately it is up to the person to want/desire deliverance from this bondage....if he doesn't he will be trapped in this sin until either God breaks him via some circumstance or he comes to his senses and realizes his error.
You shouldn't tolerate it and ask him if he loves porn more than you.....if he does then maybe you should seek for divorce if you've put up with it for several years with no change....if he says he loves you tell him he needs to commit to you and stop watching porn b/c you don't deserve to be 2nd in his heart to porn.
Maybe also post some Bible verses around your computer/even desktop wallpaper....
Psalm 101:3King James Version (KJV)
3 I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me.
The only way to clean up his mind is the word of God and casting down his vain imaginations/dirty thoughts.....the Bible is good at bleaching the mind and soul! May the Lord restore your marriage and your man to a vessel of honour in God's hands.
Then what is "lust of the eyes?" its technically looking/leering which is a sin.....Jesus said to avoid the lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and pride of life. These areas are what causes sin....
I agree, porn has no place in any marriage relationship. Any form of pornography should not be excused, If people need porn to get aroused there is seriously something wrong with their marriage and possibly even their spiritual life. There is verse after verse in the Bible about controlling your eyes for a reason. When you entertain yourself by "indulging" your eyes you are giving roots to the weeds of lust in your soul and pretty soon you will be completely wrapped in lust like poison ivy on a pillar to the point it chokes out your spiritual light from the Holy Spirit. Whether men decide to control their eyes or not is between them and God. But God commands us to use self-control and control our eyes. If you give satan an inch he will take you for miles and miles until you are completely lost and away from God.