many wives is this a sin?

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lv2ski

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Tell that to the patriarch. Almost all of them have multiple wives,
Abraham,
Jacob,
David
Solomon

and God didnt call them perverse or twisted but instead G od loved them
You're right, they had multiple wives, all had terrible consequences. It was a cultural norm back then. If you notice with the patriarchs, God only brought then their first one. THEY AND THEIR WIVES came up with thr bright idea to add. All had terrible consequences. Abraham didn't take Katurah until after Sarah died and he was never married to Haggar. He fathered Ismael which was and is a terrible consequence that WE ALL live with today.
Jacob only had 2 because he was tricked, the other two weren't his wives,but rather the sad consequence of a competiton for his love between the two.
David lost his first two sons because of sexual sins between his 2nd born and daughter by another wife, not to mention Bathsheba gate, who 5 produced his successor after God judged them by killing the child of their sin. Notice only Solomon, of all his sons ever did anything noted in the Bible.
Solomon went off into idolatry for a lot of his life because of them. And the nation of Israel was divided after his because of question to successor.

The Law stated in Deuteronomy 17 specifically, DO NOT multiply wives, gold or horses. Lest they turn your heart away from Me. Solomon was the Poster Boy for that one.
Proverbs--wisdom is known by her children... judging by the fruit, it is NO wisdom.
Plus it ruins the picture of our relationship with God that's in the NT. Moses did that when he smote the rock, misrepresenting the picture of Christ. God punished him, by not allowing him into the promise land. Messing with the pictures of Christ and His bride bring negative consequences at all times. When we sin God still loves us but we and He have to live with the consequences of it.

For every NT principle there is an OT picture. In this case,there's nothing in the affirmative.

I live in SE Idaho, we live close to LDS polygamists, it's a very sad situation.
 

lv2ski

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When your theology /opinion /view point is not in agreement with God's Word.
1 John 1:9...declares when we confess our sins HE forgives us.
confession is just coming in agreement with. Which in the case of God's means we change our thinking .
 
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When your theology /opinion /view point is not in agreement with God's Word.
1 John 1:9...declares when we confess our sins HE forgives us.
confession is just coming in agreement with. Which in the case of God's means we change our thinking .
How do you know when your theology /opinion /view point is not in agreement with God's Word?
 

lv2ski

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By reading and comparing/measuring the two.

You should try it.
 
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By reading and comparing/measuring the two.

You should try it.
How do you know that by reading and comparing/measuring the two
you will not make an error in your comprehension of the text?
 

Magenta

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How do you know that by reading and comparing/measuring the two
you will not make an error in your comprehension of the text?
You have to stop inserting what you want to see into the texts when it is simply not there. That would be be a very good place to start. Pretending that protecting the offspring of multiple wives is an endorsement of polygamy, for instance. Or treating the instruction of one man to wed his deceased brother's wife if they were cohabiting, as an endorsement to polygamy, when the marital status of the surviving brother is not even brought into the equation. Here is the proof of your error, which you stubbornly refuse to acknowledge:

If brothers are living together and one of them dies without a son, his widow must not marry outside the family. Her husband's brother shall take her and marry her and fulfill the duty of a brother-in-law to her.

See? Nothing about polygamy despite your pretense to the contrary.
 
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You have to stop inserting what you want to see into the texts when it is simply not there. That would be be a very good place to start. Pretending that protecting the offspring of multiple wives is an endorsement of polygamy, for instance. Or treating the instruction of one man to wed his deceased brother's wife if they were cohabiting, as an endorsement to polygamy, when the marital status of the surviving brother is not even brought into the equation. Here is the proof of your error, which you stubbornly refuse to acknowledge:

If brothers are living together and one of them dies without a son, his widow must not marry outside the family. Her husband's brother shall take her and marry her and fulfill the duty of a brother-in-law to her.

See? Nothing about polygamy despite your pretense to the contrary.
I take it you are not going to approve of me. Oh well. I will just have to do with it
 
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This is where truth becomes false. When you cannot find biblical answer and add ur opinion
Since Magenta DID give you a biblical answer but you didn't like it, I see your problem. Don't think it's anyone else's problem. It's just yours.
 

Magenta

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I take it you are not going to approve of me. Oh well. I will just have to do with it
It is your stubborn refusal to accept what is plainly written while you pretend it says something it doesn't that is the problem. You have obviously made up your mind regardless of what the texts actually say. Then you pretend to seek correction and direction? Your whole stance is a ruse. Who do you think you are fooling? Not me. Not any of the many who have attempted to set you straight. Not God. Only yourself, and those who have a similar bent to see what they want to see in this regard.
 
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How many women do you wish to lust after and make your wife all the while pretending it is okayed in Scripture when you have absolutely nothing to support your view but the recorded accounts of sinful men?
Actually, the humor is how many women want a husband who is going to keep adding onto wives?

The proposal: I've checked with my other five wives and they are fine if you join us, so, would you marry me?


 
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Since Magenta DID give you a biblical answer but you didn't like it, I see your problem. Don't think it's anyone else's problem. It's just yours.
Just because someone cuts and paste some verses from the bible to here and then claims it is biblical answers that makes them right in a debate does not mean anything is proven except that they can cut and paste verses from the bible to here and claim it makes them biblically right in a debate.
 
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It is your stubborn refusal to accept what is plainly written while you pretend it says something it doesn't that is the problem. You have obviously made up your mind regardless of what the texts actually say. Then you pretend to seek correction and direction? Your whole stance is a ruse. Who do you think you are fooling? Not me. Not any of the many who have attempted to set you straight. Not God. Only yourself, and those who have a similar bent to see what they want to see in this regard.
Have you noticed I have not spoken one word of evil about you. I am setting the example for you.
After all you are the weaker vessel.
 

Magenta

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Just because someone cuts and paste some verses from the bible to here and then claims it is biblical answers that makes them right in a debate does not mean anything is proven except that they can cut and paste verses from the bible to here and claim it makes them biblically right in a debate.
So you are not looking for Biblical answers? More of your deception.
 

Magenta

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Have you noticed I have not spoken one word of evil about you. I am setting the example for you.
After all you are the weaker vessel.
You have lied since you got here. Not a good example, thanks just the same.
 
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You have lied since you got here. Not a good example, thanks just the same.
So you have accused me. How many times are you going to make the same accusation to me? I read it the first time you posted it to me.
 
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Living with one I've heard is tough enough why the L ;) would you want more? To go insane? Think of how many mouths to feed sheesh....no way man....plus you got to have a tractor trailer to load them all up to take them to church..... polygamists take the verse be fruitful and multiply to seriously imo......
 
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Living with one I've heard is tough enough why the L ;) would you want more? To go insane? Think of how many mouths to feed sheesh....no way man....plus you got to have a tractor trailer to load them all up to take them to church..... polygamists take the verse be fruitful and multiply to seriously imo......
I guess that is why they say you should mind your own business and not worry about how others walk in their own shoes..
I learned that from Jesus.