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kaylagrl

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How audacious, for one to expect the other to understand, when one refuses to understand the other in the first place.
Quote " I am a bisexual Christian"

How is that hard to understand? Im not refusing to understand,Im going by what you told us.
 
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I love gays but hate the gay agenda. Here we have a person who joined CC TODAY!!!! and is promoting the gay agenda rather than posting in other threads about the glory of Jesus Christ. Nuff said.
 
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Quote " I am a bisexual Christian"

How is that hard to understand? Im not refusing to understand,Im going by what you told us.
It's difficult to understand when you assume you know what a statement means, but do not ask.
 
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kaylagrl

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I love gays but hate the gay agenda. Here we have a person who joined CC TODAY!!!! and is promoting the gay agenda rather than posting in other threads about the glory of Jesus Christ. Nuff said.

We've had a lot of that here lately. Had this person said "pray for me Im struggling" or "I could use encouragement" my response would be different. Im a Christian bisexual? No.
 
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kaylagrl

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It's difficult to understand when you assume you know what a statement means, but do not ask.
Bisexual- [FONT=arial, sans-serif-light, sans-serif]sexually attracted to both men and women. [/FONT]

[FONT=arial, sans-serif-light, sans-serif]No assumption, thats the definition according to the dictionary.[/FONT]
 
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I love gays but hate the gay agenda. Here we have a person who joined CC TODAY!!!! and is promoting the gay agenda rather than posting in other threads about the glory of Jesus Christ. Nuff said.
Had to look that phrase up:

"Homosexual agenda (or gay agenda) is a term introduced by sectors of the Christian right (primarily in the United States) as a disparaging way to describe the advocacy of cultural acceptance and normalization of non-heterosexual orientations and relationships." (Wikipedia)

I imagine some folks said similar regarding those who advocated for 'cultural acceptance and normalization' of the African American race in America. The phrase "nigger lovers" comes to mind. Both are equally disparaging.
 
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We've had a lot of that here lately. Had this person said "pray for me Im struggling" or "I could use encouragement" my response would be different. Im a Christian bisexual? No.
So your compassion towards other humans is conditional?
 

notuptome

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So your compassion towards other humans is conditional?
What greater compassion than to present the truth of scripture?

God is a God of mercy and compassion but God also demands righteousness. God will not withhold His terrible wrath and judgement toward those who reject His word and the atonement made by Christ on Calvary.

God is not going to compromise His word but His word will endure for all of eternity unchanged because God is unchanging.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 

NotmebutHim

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"A scoffer does not love one who corrects him,
Nor will he go to the wise"

-Proverbs 15:12
 

Ahwatukee

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I'm "gay" and married to a woman. I don't have physical sex with other people outside my marriage. I do watch gay porn.

I don't think of myself as any less "pure" "worthy" "christian" "insert spiritualized qualifier", than any average run of the mill straight christian, who is also physically faithful, but watches porn.

When straight people Christian or not, point the finger at whatever disability another Christian has and decides for them if they are Christian or not, based on the disability.... well, that person needs to read their bible more thoroughly. Last I checked, we were all sinners (who deserve DEATH, not just a harsh scolding).
Hello BenT,

Your argument above is not valid. Christ requires repentance (Metanoia), which means a change of mind, an after thought, a turning with God. A person can say that they are a Christian all they want, but if they have not repented, they haven't even begun. For example, those who are calling themselves Christian's, but are willfully living same-sex life styles and who have no intention of repenting. This is unacceptable to God. For He requires repentance. The equivalent of that would be someone who is a thief who says that he has received Christ, but has every intention of continuing to be a thief, or liar, or murder, etc.

We cannot justify and embrace the sins that we want to continue in. As far as what you are doing by watching gay porn, remember that Jesus said that even if you look upon a woman already having her in your heart you have already committed adultery. Apply that to what you are doing. If you are watching and entertaining those thoughts, you are committing sexual immorality.

And as far as judgment is concerned, this is one of the most misinterpreted words in scripture. As believers, we are most definitely required to make right judgments within the church and what is going on in the world. Please consider the following:

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It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that even pagans do not tolerate: A man is sleeping with his father’s wife. And you are proud! Shouldn’t you rather have gone into mourning and have put out of your fellowship the man who has been doing this? For my part, even though I am not physically present, I am with you in spirit. As one who is present with you in this way, I have already passed judgment in the name of our Lord Jesus on the one who has been doing this. So when you are assembled and I am with you in spirit, and the power of our Lord Jesus is present, hand this man over to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord.

Your boasting is not good. Don’t you know that a little yeast leavens the whole batch of dough? Get rid of the old yeast, so that you may be a new unleavened batch—as you really are. For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed. Therefore let us keep the Festival, not with the old bread leavened with malice and wickedness, but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.

I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people— not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sisterbut is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.

What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked person from among you.”

If any of you has a dispute with another, do you dare to take it before the ungodly for judgment instead of before the Lord’s people? Or do you not know that the Lord’s people will judge the world? And if you are to judge the world, are you not competent to judge trivial cases? Do you not know that we will judge angels? How much more the things of this life!

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If you think that you can continue to do what you are doing and call yourself a Christian, you are only deceiving yourself. I hope that you will greatly consider what I am saying.
 

PennEd

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Had to look that phrase up:

"Homosexual agenda (or gay agenda) is a term introduced by sectors of the Christian right (primarily in the United States) as a disparaging way to describe the advocacy of cultural acceptance and normalization of non-heterosexual orientations and relationships." (Wikipedia)

I imagine some folks said similar regarding those who advocated for 'cultural acceptance and normalization' of the African American race in America. The phrase "nigger lovers" comes to mind. Both are equally disparaging.
To compare being black to committing sexual acts, and yes, if you are watching homosexual (or heterosexual) acts that IS sin, is HIGHLY offensive to black people.

Not to mention, you using the phrase you used, is completely unnecessary and inflammatory. Wouldn't be surprised if it elicited a ban.
 
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Had to look that phrase up:

"Homosexual agenda (or gay agenda) is a term introduced by sectors of the Christian right (primarily in the United States) as a disparaging way to describe the advocacy of cultural acceptance and normalization of non-heterosexual orientations and relationships." (Wikipedia)

I imagine some folks said similar regarding those who advocated for 'cultural acceptance and normalization' of the African American race in America. The phrase "nigger lovers" comes to mind. Both are equally disparaging.
Did you also look up the phrase, "I love gays"? No you didn't.

You'll find it paraphrased as, "Love your neighbors as yourself."

Don't give me you sanctimonious garbage. I love people, not agendas.
 
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What greater compassion than to present the truth of scripture?

God is a God of mercy and compassion but God also demands righteousness. God will not withhold His terrible wrath and judgement toward those who reject His word and the atonement made by Christ on Calvary.

God is not going to compromise His word but His word will endure for all of eternity unchanged because God is unchanging.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
You are defending a woman who claims that if someone posts: "I am a bisexual Christian." on a Christian Family Forum, that it is justified to respond: "You are not a Christian."

That's not Christ's cause.
 
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kaylagrl

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So your compassion towards other humans is conditional?
Nope. If someone says their sin is right or ok Im going to tell them the truth according to the Bible. If someone here said "Im a compulsive liar Id give them Scripture on lying. Its your attitude. If you are saying God is ok with you being bisexual and He accepts that Im going to use the Word and tell you its wrong. That is truth. So apparently its God thats not compassionate.
 
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To compare being black to committing sexual acts, and yes, if you are watching homosexual (or heterosexual) acts that IS sin, is HIGHLY offensive to black people.

Not to mention, you using the phrase you used, is completely unnecessary and inflammatory. Wouldn't be surprised if it elicited a ban.
Homosexuality is definitely a pseudo-intellectual, White, bourgeois agenda pushed, in part, as an attempt to destroy the Word of God. Thankfully we know who wins that fight.
 
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kaylagrl

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You didn't say that in your first post. You said you were a bisexual Christian. If you don't act on that desire that is one thing. But the desire/attraction for the same sex is unnatural according to what the Bible says.
 
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You are defending a woman who claims that if someone posts: "I am a bisexual Christian." on a Christian Family Forum, that it is justified to respond: "You are not a Christian."

That's not Christ's cause.
What is it about Christ and His Word that you love?

What is it about Leviticus 20 and Romans 1 that you love?
 
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To compare being black to committing sexual acts, and yes, if you are watching homosexual (or heterosexual) acts that IS sin, is HIGHLY offensive to black people.

Not to mention, you using the phrase you used, is completely unnecessary and inflammatory. Wouldn't be surprised if it elicited a ban.
I strongly disagree.

1. For the third time, attraction does not equal desire and neither include action.
2. The phrase "gay agenda" is no more "inflammatory" than the phrase " removed inappropriate language "
My point being, that people were just as disparaging towards advocates of 'equal rights for blacks' as they now are toward people who have views of sexuality which differ from their own.

I have not directed any derogatory phrase towards anyone, nor have I been profane with my speech. If think that using the phrase "gay agenda" is acceptable, but "nigger lover" (in this specific context) is not, then we obviously disagree.

Sort of makes me wonder if have any idea what they're making kids read in high school these days.
 
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Did you also look up the phrase, "I love gays"? No you didn't.

You'll find it paraphrased as, "Love your neighbors as yourself."

Don't give me you sanctimonious garbage. I love people, not agendas.
Why do you assume?
Actually, yeah, I looked up the word "gay" because I wasn't sure if it was still considered 'derogatory and offensive' or not.

It hurts to hear that you think I'm putting on a "morally superior" show here.
Almost feels as if your condemning critical thinking.

Do you hold yourself to the same standard as you hold others?
I've yet to see you post something which can be understood as the 'glory of Jesus Christ' here.