Divorce
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God is the only answer I can give. Without God we are nothing with no purpose. Does she seek forgiveness? Are you willing to forgive? If not well your wife had broken the covenant between God by cheating in the first place. You are no longer held to that covenant. But in rare cases forgiveness can heal the marriage after awhile. But most the time people will always hold sick feeling about the other person. She has poisoned the vow you and her made. Biblical you can divorce but if you still love her and can find forgiveness then it's just a matter of choice. I know if my wife cheated on me I would forgive her but I could not stay with her. My marriage would feel defiled and sick. Do not blame God my friend God is the answer. Instead of turning away from God, turn around and run towards God. He has all the answers. Listen to your feelings and except them. God loves you and you have a family in Christ right hear with us. Be strong brother
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I know this will not be easy but y'all possibly could seek professional marriage counseling to help overcome this. It will atleast help you see if y'all can stay together.
I know this will not be easy but y'all possibly could seek professional marriage counseling to help overcome this. It will atleast help you see if y'all can stay together.
Good question. Where is God. God is every where and is always trying to have a relationship with you. God does not make us do anything since we have free will. We make good choices or bad choices. If we sin then there is consequences to sin. Obviously I do not know you and your wife's relationship with God. But a marriage built on the covenant placed by God must put God in the center or it will be unhealthy. Sometimes when we sin, others have to also hurt because of the consequences of the sin. God values our freewill or else we would be just puppets. That being said, our world is filled with the consequences of not knowing God and life filled with sin. I am sorry you are on the hurting end. But believe me open your heart to God and expect to hear from God. He will answer in many different ways. If you are not connected to a church then I would find one. God many times uses the hands and feet of his believers to do his will.
Am I old enough to respond? I have gone through divorce and in the early months years was angry with God as well. It is painful and I understand the anger and despair. I always knew God was there in it and I voiced my anger with Him and at Him. This went on for longer than I care to admit but He never left me and I know wept with me. All of us go through seasons of doubt and despair with our faith as we are human and worldly horrors rock us from time to time. Lay your anger at His feet and continue to pray through it. His grace will cover you and you will get through this season.
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