What makes homosexuality so bad?

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Interesting. Does your stomach turn when someone takes two lolipops instead of one like they were told? Now, Im not really Christian though a friend specifically asked me to at least listen to believers, I don't try to convince anyone to be pro gay, I'm not complaining because I could only pick male or female and I'm Non-Binary because I respect your beliefs and understand you dont want a 'worldly" person talking about what's right or wrong according to the bible. No, I don't like your beliefs in this erea. No, I don't like most of people here. Too many Christians are to black and white and never grey, but hey I guess they're supposed to be black or white.I hate a lot of your views, but not you or your religion. On another platform I'd more inclined to fight you, even so you have a life, as do I, so a pointless debate isn't worth, you won't make mee see homosexuality as bad, I won't make you accept it.
I know you are mixed-up, but do you suppose you could at least try to begin to make up your mind on some of these basics? LOL
 

Demi777

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Deuteronomy 22:28-29 “If a man meets a virgin who is not betrothed, and seizes her and lies with her, and they are found, then the man who lay with her shall give to the father of the young woman fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife, because he has violated her. He may not divorce her all his days." Now I get that after Jesus died for humanity's sins rules like these were lifted but I still think it's disgusting for people at all before or after Christ.You're doing nothing. Your ganging up on the little nonbeliever because it makes you feel good, I was Christian once, devote too, I did it, I know what you're doing.
Nice try lady cherrypicking and taking out the context. The woman in your part didnt even cream for help. Thats why. She has no justification to deny the man. The woman who screams and tried to get help, is free and doesnt have to marry him. You dont know your bible at all.
Deut. 22:25-29
[FONT=&quot]5 “But if a man finds a betrothed young woman in the countryside, and the man forces her and lies with her, then only the man who lay with her shall die. 26 But you shall do nothing to the young woman; there is in the young woman no sin deserving of death, for just as when a man rises against his neighbor and kills him, even so is this matter. 27 For he found her in the countryside, and the betrothed young woman cried out, but there was no one to save her.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]28 “If a man finds a young woman who is a virgin, who is not betrothed, and he seizes her and lies with her, and they are found out, 29 then the man who lay with her shall give to the young woman’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife because he has humbled her; he shall not be permitted to divorce her all his days.[/FONT]
 

blue_ladybug

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How does a devoted christian become a non-believer? If you're here trying to convert us, good luck cuz it ain't gonna happen. Go on living in your delusional world where being gay is okay and God accepts it. You will eventually be sorely introduced to the reality that it is NOT okay and does NOT accept it.


Deuteronomy 22:28-29 “If a man meets a virgin who is not betrothed, and seizes her and lies with her, and they are found, then the man who lay with her shall give to the father of the young woman fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife, because he has violated her. He may not divorce her all his days." Now I get that after Jesus died for humanity's sins rules like these were lifted but I still think it's disgusting for people at all before or after Christ.You're doing nothing. Your ganging up on the little nonbeliever because it makes you feel good, I was Christian once, devote too, I did it, I know what you're doing.
 

Yeraza_Bats

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I never called it hate, you jumped in. I said it's only harmful according to God. Thusly, apart from what your book says it's not harmful. I never wanted to fight, I'm here because of a friend, and I made a little comment and now tons of people are freaking out. I don't want to debate you! I don't care!
Again, harmful does not equal right, so thats a moot point. We are arguing about whether or not its wrong, not whether or not its causing someone pain. It is entirely possible to prove that homosexuality is wrong. This is why those who defend it ALWAYS jump to the "well its not hurting anyone" argument.

The struggle is real, just as it is for those who deal with any other sexual urge. But its in no way impossible to deny and ignore. Only stressful on occasion.
 
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I heard it and I dont believe it. You're making things up. I'm losing no fight against you, because you don't even understand or care about what i say. Oh you're so happy you and your church friends are ganging up on the little nonbeliever! That'll do some good for God!
 
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Again, harmful does not equal right, so thats a moot point. We are arguing about whether or not its wrong, not whether or not its causing someone pain. It is entirely possible to prove that homosexuality is wrong. This is why those who defend it ALWAYS jump to the "well its not hurting anyone" argument.

The struggle is real, just as it is for those who deal with any other sexual urge. But its in no way impossible to deny and ignore. Only stressful on occasion.
Right, okay but it's not right according to the bible. We agree. So please just being all angry and get a life.
 

blue_ladybug

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If you don't care whether homosexuality is a sin or not, that's on you. I assure you God cares very much and is surely aggreived at your lackadaisical viewpoint on it.
 
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It hurts no one, right or wrong. So you can live your life and be unaffected, unless you choose to be affected. Because its not harmful doesn't make it right, however I don't believe myself that it's wrong but who knows really. Please let me live my life and you live yours.
 

Demi777

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now your falling into selfpity mode because you have nothing to back up your claims too playing the blame game. You claim things that are false and when you get corrected you act up. nice try, we dont fall for pharisees and manipulative people who want to bring division.
If you reject the truth its not on us. your responsible for your actions and you will be held accountable for it. And yes we are doing good for God because we are not letting you deceive us into evil. We tried to show u the truth, you reject it and with that, we have nothing more to do for you
 

Yeraza_Bats

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I heard it and I dont believe it. You're making things up. I'm losing no fight against you, because you don't even understand or care about what i say. Oh you're so happy you and your church friends are ganging up on the little nonbeliever! That'll do some good for God!
Uh, yeah kinda. You are here to create division among the Christian community over absolutely nothing. And yeah, anyone who follows the Lord should not be taking your side.

If your argument is its right because it doesnt hurt anyone, then you are wrong, as right and wrong are not dependent on whether or not they cause people pain.

And if your argument is we are supposed to love them, then you are wrong, because no one here actually hates those who deal with these urges, only the act and the push to make it acceptable in society.

You are here merely to make a ruckus.And now you are playing the victim because you dont like the reaction it got.
 

blue_ladybug

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We aren't making anything up. We are giving you hard truth, truth you don't want to hear because you're so rebellious and think you know it all where homosexuality is concerned. We understand that you don't think being gay is harmful. We are telling you that it is, not only to the person's body but to their soul and salvation as well. God is rather happy that we are giving you truth. :) If you don't want to accept it, that's on you and not us.

I heard it and I dont believe it. You're making things up. I'm losing no fight against you, because you don't even understand or care about what i say. Oh you're so happy you and your church friends are ganging up on the little nonbeliever! That'll do some good for God!
 
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You've given me no proof, I'm not worried. You're being pathetic. I don't care, really Im only replying because I want the emails to stop!
 
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If you really believe you cannot change any minds here, and you are dead-set against us dissuading you of your beliefs........ Why are you even here?
 

Yeraza_Bats

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Right, okay but it's not right according to the bible. We agree. So please just being all angry and get a life.
Nah, its wrong because its two bodies that arent meant to be together doing things they arent made to do, which does not lead to the entire reason sex and gender exist, to create families and continue the existence of the human race. Not because a "book says so".

And haha, get a life? You are the one who came here to get all emotional and start arguments, not me : p
 

Demi777

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if u want to get the emails to stop u gotta go into your settings. there should somewhere be a box where you can uncheck it
 
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We aren't making anything up. We are giving you hard truth, truth you don't want to hear because you're so rebellious and think you know it all where homosexuality is concerned. We understand that you don't think being gay is harmful. We are telling you that it is, not only to the person's body but to their soul and salvation as well. God is rather happy that we are giving you truth. :) If you don't want to accept it, that's on you and not us.
Well you are making things up but that's besides the point. Okay, so it's on me, good job. I hope you realize you're of reasoning is draining what respect I have left for Christians.
 

blue_ladybug

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When you contract AIDS or some other STD, because you're with another woman, come back here and tell us being gay isn't harmful. But when you end up in Hades, it'll be too late. Like I said before, you're waging a losing battle here and God WILL judge you accordingly. YOU are the only one getting upset here, because we are exposing and refuting your delusional, deceived beliefs.

It hurts no one, right or wrong. So you can live your life and be unaffected, unless you choose to be affected. Because its not harmful doesn't make it right, however I don't believe myself that it's wrong but who knows really. Please let me live my life and you live yours.
 
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The issue is I want to know when my friend wants me to talk to her and her friends, so if I block it them too.
 
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I'm actually not upset, you just want to believe I'm a whiny child.
 

blue_ladybug

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So you think a gay person's body, soul and salvation are not affected by that lifestyle? Lady you are nuts..

Well you are making things up but that's besides the point. Okay, so it's on me, good job. I hope you realize you're of reasoning is draining what respect I have left for Christians.