Though it may be understandable, it's not permitted to stay in that state. I can share that by personal experience. If anyone has a right to be "jaded," I'm certainly a candidate. God has forbidden me from it and it's taken me a couple years y to let the stuff of my marriage go.
The things that my ex put my children and myself through and then all crap I had to overcome with the state and the things I've learned about the immoral things to watch out for with women in the legal world, I became very jaded. But the Lord delivered me from that. Looking at others is a lie against the truth and yourself.
I don't know where you got your info on men, but you either need to find some different women to keep with or stop dating bad boys. Learn to tell between legitimately hurt women and bitter self inflicted ones. Your survey of men is ridiculous, unless you are attracted to the bad boys. Which is a testimony to your own self image and naivete. Honestly, learn how to listen to people when they talk. People reveal themselves in normal conversation more than you realize. If you surrender your life to the Lord, He will give you discernment and if you listen you will save yourself a lot of grief and turmoil.
I could tell story after story of unshakeable Christians, not to mention all the stories in God's word of person after person. If that's not enough go research Fox's Book of Martyrs or the book Jesus Freaks. The unshakeable testimonials are everywhere locally and in the past. You need to find a new crowd.
“No one, when he has lit a lamp, puts it in a secret place or under a basket, but on a lampstand, that those who come in may see the light. The lamp of the body is the eye. Therefore, when your eye is good, your whole body also is full of light. But when your eye is bad, your body also is full of darkness. Therefore take heed that the light which is in you is not darkness. If then your whole body is full of light, having no part dark, the whole body will be full of light, as when the bright shining of a lamp gives you light.”
Lu 11:33*-36 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/luk.11.33-36.NKJV
Do not be deceived: “Evil company corrupts good habits.” Awake to righteousness, and do not sin; for some do not have the knowledge of God. I speak this to your shame.
1Co 15:33*-34 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/1co.15.33-34.NKJV
But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. For each one shall bear his own load.
Ga 6:4*-5 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/gal.6.4-5.NKJ