Tinkerbell,
Lets consider some alternatives.
Scenarios
1. Yes, it's possible that a deceiving man is manipulating the girl.
2. It's just as possible the girl is manipulating the man.
3. It's also possible that neither is being manipulated by the other.
Conclusions:
A. Anyone might, or might not, be manipulating anyone.
B. Even if someone is being "manipulated", that person still has freedom of choice, and a conscience... and the ability to stop their actions.