What makes homosexuality so bad?

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Demi777

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Yes but it is our duty as believers to tell them anyway. The word of God doesnt come back empty.

If you are quoting the Bible to an unbeliever then in his mind you are just reading fiction. Because to an atheist the Bible is just a work of fiction. I believe this is called casting your pearls to swine
 
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If you are quoting the Bible to an unbeliever then in his mind you are just reading fiction. Because to an atheist the Bible is just a work of fiction. I believe this is called casting your pearls to swine
If they accept it or reject it we are suppose to warn the lost regardless. Otherwise their blood will be on your hands for not warning them. God will hold you responsible.
 
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Actually, the Bible never said that faith came from hearing the word of God. It said that faith comes from hearing, period. And since it is a truth that we humans will have faith in whatever it is that we hear, it is imperative that we make sure it is the word of God that we study and absorb.

Someone who has no intention of ever wanting to study or hear the word of God, is not suddenly and magically going to develop faith in God because we spout verses at them that they deny and don't want to hear. This belief that the "words" have some magical properties, just because someone's ear drums are vibrated by the modulation frequency of speaking them is the very basis of the Bibliolatry so many Christians get hung-up on.
...but it does though...

"So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God." - Romans 10:17. I've seen a translation say "and the message is heard through the word about Christ" or "and hearing through the word of Christ", but either way, it's hearing the Word of God (since Christ = the Word).

It doesn't have to happen suddenly. The point is that it happens. And the Word of God does have power that other words just don't have. "For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart." - Hebrews 4:12

What other words do that? Sounds like some "magical properties" to me--rather, spiritual power.
 
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Just came to think of something when I was flipping through this thread. Why this urge to be ganging up on people? Once some poster goes against the mainstream thread content people start bashing that person. Why is that?

Disagrements, yes, please, but unleashing all the dirt you've got stocked up where your brain is supposed to be when someone doesn't agree with your holy opinion, no, I don't understand why that is necessary.
 

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amen, but you start with the Gospel and the truth of who Christ is, and the nature of sin, then latter once a person believe you can move to correction.
Yes, and that’s what I was saying. We must tell them the truth in love. However, we can’t just pick out parts of the truth to talk about. We must speak the whole truth.

I don’t think we should just go out with guns blazing on folks, and start a conversation with any sinner by straight out calling them out on their sin no matter what it is. I think we should tell them of God’s love and how he wants to save everyone and give them a new life filled with hope, forgiveness, love, peace, and happiness.

Now that is the truth, but we can’t leave out the rest of the truth. We also must tell them that in order to receive salvation, we must humble ourselves down and repent of our wrong doings. We can’t go against the word of God and try to justify sin.
 

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And if they refuse to listen, then we are to shake the dust off our shoes and move on. Just because a seed is planted, doesn't mean it will grow..
 
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...but it does though...

"So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God." - Romans 10:17. I've seen a translation say "and the message is heard through the word about Christ" or "and hearing through the word of Christ", but either way, it's hearing the Word of God (since Christ = the Word).

It doesn't have to happen suddenly. The point is that it happens. And the Word of God does have power that other words just don't have. "For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart." - Hebrews 4:12

What other words do that? Sounds like some "magical properties" to me--rather, spiritual power.
You cant come to God unless He first draw you. The Bible says how can one hear unless someone is sent... You cannot just speak the word and it do any good.. If so look at how many people still go to hell and don't believe even tho they have heard the word.. Prerequisites must be in place... What Dude said is correct.. Everyone wants to argue just bc its the Bible mentioned but they leave out common sense
 
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If they accept it or reject it we are suppose to warn the lost regardless. Otherwise their blood will be on your hands for not warning them. God will hold you responsible.
Boy, the love and concern for others just oozes out from your post. So, you are "warning" people to protect yourself from retaliation from God?

I'm not sure we know the same God.
 

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If they accept it or reject it we are suppose to warn the lost regardless. Otherwise their blood will be on your hands for not warning them. God will hold you responsible.
we will also give account to every word that we say that drives a wedge between God and man, even if it is in good intentions.
 
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1 Corinthians 9:19-23English Standard Version (ESV)[SUP]19 [/SUP]For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them. [SUP]20 [/SUP]To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though not being myself under the law) that I might win those under the law. [SUP]21 [/SUP]To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (not being outside the law of God but under the law of Christ) that I might win those outside the law. [SUP]22 [/SUP]To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. [SUP]23 [/SUP]I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.
What do we suppose Paul meant when he said that? Did he mean that he stood there and quoted the words of the "Bible" at them?........ and, By God! they better get it or else it's then all ON THEM, and he was cleared of any responsibility or concern about them.... because he "did his duty?"

Or, did he mean that he was going to do his best to help them see Jesus... even if he had to talk about the value he saw in their worship and speak of how their own poets thought (both of which, he did)..... whatever he had to do.
 
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You cant come to God unless He first draw you. The Bible says how can one hear unless someone is sent... You cannot just speak the word and it do any good.. If so look at how many people still go to hell and don't believe even tho they have heard the word.. Prerequisites must be in place... What Dude said is correct.. Everyone wants to argue just bc its the Bible mentioned but they leave out common sense
Well yeah, some people will not believe right upon hearing, or ever. We might have been the one God sent; in fact, we are sent as disciples to spread the Good News to the nations. That's being sent. Some will deny the message until the day they die, but that doesn't mean we know who those people are up front; we just share the Word and have hope. But chances are they won't come to faith without ever hearing the message.

So before we speak God's Word, are we supposed to ask the person if God is drawing them first? Who is God not drawing? I don't get this "speaking the Word is useless because somebody might go to hell anyway" mentality. We know someone might go to hell, and we introduce them to the way to Heaven anyway. I'm glad somebody did that for me and didn't keep it to themselves because I might not have believed (or they didn't know if God was drawing me, or if they were sent, yada yada).

What Dude said is still not correct, because while to that person who doesn't believe, there may be no differentiation between the Bible and any other books in their carnal mind, there still is a spiritual difference in reality, and a huge one at that. Anyone who has ever denied God's Word at any point, came to their lowest point in life, and got on their knees and cried out to the God that someone had the heart to tell them about by sharing God's Word even to an unbeliever actively in denial, knows that. The battle is spiritual. So no, it's not true that you might as well be quoting Harry Potter (or anything else, for that matter), in the spirit realm, which we are supposed to be operating in.

I don't understand why this is even a debate.
 
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Just came to think of something when I was flipping through this thread. Why this urge to be ganging up on people? Once some poster goes against the mainstream thread content people start bashing that person. Why is that?

Disagrements, yes, please, but unleashing all the dirt you've got stocked up where your brain is supposed to be when someone doesn't agree with your holy opinion, no, I don't understand why that is necessary.
That's what happens with bullies who are insecure, instead of standing on their own, they run with the pack as they have their own unresolved issues. On their walk with Christ, they'd rather have approval from their peers in public than stand alone and live for Jesus in every breath they take. Nothing from that behaviour is going to inspire people to come to Christ much less comprehend the scriptures they're reciting off regarding homosexuality. JesusLives had a fantastic summary of this earlier in the thread.

All I am saying is homosexuality does not get a pass but Christians come flocking to condemn them quickly when there are so many other sins that are even in our own lives that we should be working on with the Holy Spirits help to get under control for our own selves than to beat down those with a different sexual preference.... You know kind of like to him who has never sinned cast the first stone or maybe light the match.....

God is against ALL forms of SIN and they un-repented will earn a ticket to the bonfire.
 
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Thanks for the rep, so glad the message reached you! Inspired by the Lord!
 

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Thanks for the rep, so glad the message reached you! Inspired by the Lord!
That's what happens with bullies who are insecure, instead of standing on their own, they run with the pack as they have their own unresolved issues. On their walk with Christ, they'd rather have approval from their peers in public than stand alone and live for Jesus in every breath they take. Nothing from that behaviour is going to inspire people to come to Christ much less comprehend the scriptures they're reciting off regarding homosexuality. JesusLives had a fantastic summary of this earlier in the thread.

Not trying to offend you, but I felt like I should hold your own words up as mirror for you here. By our own words we shall be justified and by our own words we shall be condemned.

Now this is just one instance where I have seen you do the same thing that you condemned others of in your post. We should all know that lip service will get us nowhere with God, and actions speak louder than words.

So let’s examine what you said and what you did here.
1. Instead of standing on their own they run with packs: Looks to me like throughout many of your posts you have called out names of people you agree with and tried to form an allegiance with certain posters while condemning others…..Would that be trying to form a pack of your own to run with?
2. They’d rather have approval from their peers in public than stand alone and live for Jesus... Who here is posting a screen shot of their own reps? Is that not trying to get approval from peers in public?

I find it hard to stomach that you condemn this type of behavior, when you seem to be engaging in the exact same behavior that you are condemning.
 

1ofthem

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You cant come to God unless He first draw you. The Bible says how can one hear unless someone is sent... You cannot just speak the word and it do any good.. If so look at how many people still go to hell and don't believe even tho they have heard the word.. Prerequisites must be in place... What Dude said is correct.. Everyone wants to argue just bc its the Bible mentioned but they leave out common sense
Reread the first couple sentences of your post:
You cant come to God unless He first draw you. The Bible says how can one hear unless someone is sent... You cannot just speak the word and it do any good..
How does God draw someone if not by his Word and how can one hear unless someone is sent? You have actually answered this for yourself. The word of God is the seed that we must sow. We only sow the word. We cannot make it take hold and grow. I'll agree with you in that it is not our place to argue with anyone about it.

But as MultilingualMessenger has already posted the word of God is powerful and sharper than a two edged sword. It is a discerner of the thoughts and is where the drawing and convicting of the Lord takes place. Without hearing the word of God, I would not have known that I needed him and would not have been convicted to repentance so that I could receive salvation.

Hebrews 4:12
For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.
 

blue_ladybug

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Don't mind Laura. Her constant holier-than-thou/can do no wrong attitude rubs us all the wrong way.

Not trying to offend you, but I felt like I should hold your own words up as mirror for you here. By our own words we shall be justified and by our own words we shall be condemned.

Now this is just one instance where I have seen you do the same thing that you condemned others of in your post. We should all know that lip service will get us nowhere with God, and actions speak louder than words.

So let’s examine what you said and what you did here.
1. Instead of standing on their own they run with packs: Looks to me like throughout many of your posts you have called out names of people you agree with and tried to form an allegiance with certain posters while condemning others…..Would that be trying to form a pack of your own to run with?
2. They’d rather have approval from their peers in public than stand alone and live for Jesus... Who here is posting a screen shot of their own reps? Is that not trying to get approval from peers in public?

I find it hard to stomach that you condemn this type of behavior, when you seem to be engaging in the exact same behavior that you are condemning.[/QUOTE]





1ofthem, read Tintin's post about Laura. It speaks for itself. She is always like that. And as far as her posting her reps for all to see, she is the ONLY one in ANY of the forums, that I have ever seen do that. :/ No one else here shows off their reps.. I and many others here have her on ignore.
 

1ofthem

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1ofthem, read Tintin's post about Laura. It speaks for itself. She is always like that. And as far as her posting her reps for all to see, she is the ONLY one in ANY of the forums, that I have ever seen do that. :/ No one else here shows off their reps.. I and many others here have her on ignore.[/QUOTE]


Yes, he was able to get straight to the point in his post. It's just so hard to watch someone accuse people of certain behaviors when they are committing the same things they are accusing others of engaging in and to an even higher degree. I guess that might be what the Bible is talking about where it says some will gag at a gnat but swallow a camel.
 
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Yes, he was able to get straight to the point in his post. It's just so hard to watch someone accuse people of certain behaviors when they are committing the same things they are accusing others of engaging in and to an even higher degree. I guess that might be what the Bible is talking about where it says some will gag at a gnat but swallow a camel.
Or the camel will even gag on a gnat!
 

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Just came to think of something when I was flipping through this thread. Why this urge to be ganging up on people? Once some poster goes against the mainstream thread content people start bashing that person. Why is that?

Disagrements, yes, please, but unleashing all the dirt you've got stocked up where your brain is supposed to be when someone doesn't agree with your holy opinion, no, I don't understand why that is necessary.
And what do you think you are doing? At least they have a principle to stand up for and not just post something to condemn people who stand up for their belief. Looks like someone here has clouded your judgement.
 
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And what do you think you are doing? At least they have a principle to stand up for and not just post something to condemn people who stand up for their belief. Looks like someone here has clouded your judgement.
I did an observation, and if ganging up on someone is standing up for their belief, that's some pretty rough faith.