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phil36

phil36

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Hi I'm in a video mood tonight. this is my thrid video post in the singles forum, but they are good videos.

Anyhow ladies what is your opinion on this.. I believe it to be right, whats your opinions?

[video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hluo9nyHBSs[/video]


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hluo9nyHBSs
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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How this was great. I dont agree with the first part about women shouldn't have to pursue a guy- because fact is if I want something I'm going to pursue it theres nothing wrong with that. I've asked out my past boyfriends because they were shy guys.

Christian boys are cowards. I've never dated a Christian in my whole life.
 
Sharp

Sharp

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Dread_Zeppelin said:
Christian boys are cowards.
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That is so true.

Thing is, many Christian boys are used to being treated like pedophiles and sex offenders for showing interest in and pursuing Christian girls.



Nice video, I like young marky.
 
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penguingal

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Well the guys should watch this video. lol.
 
Pheonix

Pheonix

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Would watch it if I could afford high speed.
 
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Vidy

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"Christian boys are cowards. I've never dated a Christian in my whole life."

COWARDS!?!? How-so? I'm a relatively shy guy myself, but I'm definitely not a coward. If something needs to be done, I'll do it. In relationships, I take initiative where I need to- including being the one to ask the girl out, IN PERSON (not over the phone or internet). I stand up for what's right and don't back down to people who attack moral values aggressively.

Anything I left out? =P
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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Vidy said:
"Christian boys are cowards. I've never dated a Christian in my whole life."

COWARDS!?!? How-so? I'm a relatively shy guy myself, but I'm definitely not a coward. If something needs to be done, I'll do it. In relationships, I take initiative where I need to- including being the one to ask the girl out, IN PERSON (not over the phone or internet). I stand up for what's right and don't back down to people who attack moral values aggressively.

Anything I left out? =P
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Honestly I'd love to meet a man like you. But I can't, because a man like you has never entered my Christian life.

I can't tell you how many services, youth groups, and retreats I've been to where I felt like a complete oger. No guy ever wanted to ask me out.

I'm funny, attractive, nice, Godly, opinionated, smart, i have a career, hobbies...I mean...I'm a total catch and I mean this in the most humblest of ways.

Still...completely ignored. It's not like I dress like a harlot or a nun so my apparence isn't holding them back. I'm really at a total loss why Christian men show no interest in me.

Now SECULAR men is where it's at. Because I could give you fingers and toes of how many of those has/do ask me out...and we're talking weekly basis.

So really the only thing that's keeping me from a relationship is my Christian walk. Kind of backward, right?
 
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stlstang

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Dread_Zeppelin said:
Honestly I'd love to meet a man like you. But I can't, because a man like you has never entered my Christian life.

I can't tell you how many services, youth groups, and retreats I've been to where I felt like a complete oger. No guy ever wanted to ask me out.

I'm funny, attractive, nice, Godly, opinionated, smart, i have a career, hobbies...I mean...I'm a total catch and I mean this in the most humblest of ways.

Still...completely ignored. It's not like I dress like a harlot or a nun so my apparence isn't holding them back. I'm really at a total loss why Christian men show no interest in me.

Now SECULAR men is where it's at. Because I could give you fingers and toes of how many of those has/do ask me out...and we're talking weekly basis.
So really the only thing that's keeping me from a relationship is my Christian walk. Kind of backward, right?
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From the Christian coward's perspective, I honestly don't think I know a Godly woman over 20 that's single. The biggest obstacle is knowing which ladies are available.
 
Sharp

Sharp

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stlstang said:
From the Christian coward's perspective, I honestly don't think I know a Godly woman over 20 that's single. The biggest obstacle is knowing which ladies are available.
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That's also a huge problem.

It seems like every girl in the world has a boyfriend.

Nobody likes getting beaten up.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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... I don't have a boyfriend :p (but then again, I'm always the exception confirming the rule)
 
Sharp

Sharp

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ok every girl except the ones in this thread!
 
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Ellie

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I can't watch the footage. But from what you guys are saying, and the fact that I think I recognise the guy, I think maybe I've seen it before. Is this the guy from Marshill church doing the peasant princess series? If it is, it needs to be acknowledged that he is speciffically referring to people who are married to eachother, in a sexual sense, as the scripture he is using comes from Song of Solomon. That's if the footage is what I think it is.
 
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lil-rush

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Dread_Zeppelin said:
Christian boys are cowards. I've never dated a Christian in my whole life.
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You've never met my older brother.

Find yourself some different Christian men... move to a military community. It's young Christian men from all over the country with different backgrounds smashed together into one tiny little Chapel. Dude! I need to go to Chapel and stop going to this Baptist church full of old men. lol
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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lil-rush said:
You've never met my older brother.

Find yourself some different Christian men... move to a military community. It's young Christian men from all over the country with different backgrounds smashed together into one tiny little Chapel. Dude! I need to go to Chapel and stop going to this Baptist church full of old men. lol
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LOL Looking them up online as we speak ;)
 
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supersuper

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Dread_Zeppelin said:
How this was great. I dont agree with the first part about women shouldn't have to pursue a guy- because fact is if I want something I'm going to pursue it theres nothing wrong with that. I've asked out my past boyfriends because they were shy guys.

Christian boys are cowards. I've never dated a Christian in my whole life.
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I'm not a coward, not shy, but personally if a girl doesn't show me some interest i probably won't do nothing, in most of my relationships the girl has come to me first, the problem with christian girls is that in the christian environment everybody is paying attention to what you are doing, second people treat u like a sinner if u are after a girl, third in some churches the pastors have to approve the thing or deal with religious parents, fourth you just are trying to get to know girl better and they want u to marry her, i had a christian girlfriend but she wasn't so christian at all, so i guess i never been with a "100%" christian girl, even tho i had many oportunities
 
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Trilogic

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*sighs* just another video post or post where the man is demonized. simple as that.
 
QuestionTime

QuestionTime

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If people can't watch the video - if you have Firefox - you can search for add-ons related to downloading video. The video will download and when it's done you can watch it in full. It may just take a long time to download the video on a slow connection.

Quest
 
QuestionTime

QuestionTime

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supersuper said:
I'm not a coward, not shy, but personally if a girl doesn't show me some interest i probably won't do nothing, in most of my relationships the girl has come to me first, the problem with christian girls is that in the christian environment everybody is paying attention to what you are doing, second people treat u like a sinner if u are after a girl, third in some churches the pastors have to approve the thing or deal with religious parents, fourth you just are trying to get to know girl better and they want u to marry her, i had a christian girlfriend but she wasn't so christian at all, so i guess i never been with a "100%" christian girl, even tho i had many oportunities
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My experience is that the women find me first, typically. Usually for guys to pursue women is a waste of time. I think that the ladies have got to do something to show interest first. Either play with their hair or blink their eyelids rapidly or whatever else they do.

Quest
 
QuestionTime

QuestionTime

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Whoa, now I just watched the video...

Hmm...

Well...

This is tough.

I agree that men should do the asking. I mean personally, I'm not in a place where I can ask a woman for a relationship right now. Because I don't have the worldly things required to be a husband (good job, good money). I don't have those things and may never have them again, because I couldn't care less about them anymore. But the women seem to require those things.

But as for the men who do have a good job and good income, I don't know why they don't ask women out. Perhaps it's because women are a lot different than they were back in the 1950s. Now they are independent and ego driven, compared to back then. I might get in trouble for saying that, but women are definitely different now-a-days than they were back then. Even the Bible says that in the last days that women would rule over men.

Heathen guys are "players" and they learn how to manipulate women in order to get them into the sack. I don't know if that is a fair comparison to make between Christian men and heathen men, because Christian men aren't approaching women for the same reason.

Quest
 
Sharp

Sharp

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Its supply and demand people!

Men are the demand, women are the supply.

The demand for women by men will always be constant, but women can withhold themselves and pick and choose. Women choose men, even if men have to make the first move.
 
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