(#2) List of dating mistakes that should be avoided by the Christian woman

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pete13

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(#2) LACK OF BELIEF IN UNCONVENTIONAL WAYS OF MEETING POTENTIAL PARTNERS
It appears that most women still don’t know that the traditional way of meeting a potential partner which is “face to face” is out dated. Most women keep sitting and waiting in the hope of “Boaz” walking up to them. Christian women need to realize that this is the age of the internet and you should explore some unconventional but appropriate ways such as safe online dating, face book groups, twitter, Christian blogs, chat networks etc. The truth is that your true love can be in a different city or country therefore using the internet will enable you to reach people you may not have met otherwise. Some women, instead of seeing such unconventional ways as good, they wrongly see it as immodest, sinful, prostituted and degrading yet their true love is searching for them on those same networks.

.......................To be continued
 

tourist

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My wife and I used the nonconventional method and met on this site. It worked for us.
 
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(#2) LACK OF BELIEF IN UNCONVENTIONAL WAYS OF MEETING POTENTIAL PARTNERS
It appears that most women still don’t know that the traditional way of meeting a potential partner which is “face to face” is out dated. Most women keep sitting and waiting in the hope of “Boaz” walking up to them. Christian women need to realize that this is the age of the internet and you should explore some unconventional but appropriate ways such as safe online dating, face book groups, twitter, Christian blogs, chat networks etc. The truth is that your true love can be in a different city or country therefore using the internet will enable you to reach people you may not have met otherwise. Some women, instead of seeing such unconventional ways as good, they wrongly see it as immodest, sinful, prostituted and degrading yet their true love is searching for them on those same networks.

.......................To be continued
Translation? Look out ladies, ole Petey's going to come for you. But all you she-demon/shape shifters please identify yourself when he inevitably comes knocking at your cyberdoor. The rest of you, prepare yourself for his godseed.
 
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Tintin

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(#2) LACK OF BELIEF IN UNCONVENTIONAL WAYS OF MEETING POTENTIAL PARTNERS
It appears that most women still don’t know that the traditional way of meeting a potential partner which is “face to face” is out dated. Most women keep sitting and waiting in the hope of “Boaz” walking up to them. Christian women need to realize that this is the age of the internet and you should explore some unconventional but appropriate ways such as safe online dating, face book groups, twitter, Christian blogs, chat networks etc. The truth is that your true love can be in a different city or country therefore using the internet will enable you to reach people you may not have met otherwise. Some women, instead of seeing such unconventional ways as good, they wrongly see it as immodest, sinful, prostituted and degrading yet their true love is searching for them on those same networks.

.......................To be continued
But it's harder to tell if they're a demonic shape-shifter if it's a long-distance relationship. Or if they're even really of the opposite sex.
 

cinder

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The irony of posting this here where we have to continually remind people that it's not a dating site (multiple CC couples excepted since they didn't come here to date, it just kind of happened). If all the good people are really on the other side of the world, why don't you just move so you can get to know them. (And for women, this isn't really a great opportunity as in a lot of other countries women simply don't get the same rights and respect as they do in the west).
 
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The irony of posting this here where we have to continually remind people that it's not a dating site (multiple CC couples excepted since they didn't come here to date, it just kind of happened). If all the good people are really on the other side of the world, why don't you just move so you can get to know them. (And for women, this isn't really a great opportunity as in a lot of other countries women simply don't get the same rights and respect as they do in the west).
Wouldn't the deeper irony be that if all the good people are somewhere else, and you move to be there, then all the good people are where you left? Since all the great people are elsewhere. =D
 
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(#2) LACK OF BELIEF IN UNCONVENTIONAL WAYS OF MEETING POTENTIAL PARTNERS
It appears that most women still don’t know that the traditional way of meeting a potential partner which is “face to face” is out dated. Most women keep sitting and waiting in the hope of “Boaz” walking up to them. Christian women need to realize that this is the age of the internet and you should explore some unconventional but appropriate ways such as safe online dating, face book groups, twitter, Christian blogs, chat networks etc. The truth is that your true love can be in a different city or country therefore using the internet will enable you to reach people you may not have met otherwise. Some women, instead of seeing such unconventional ways as good, they wrongly see it as immodest, sinful, prostituted and degrading yet their true love is searching for them on those same networks.

.......................To be continued
Please do not continue. It just sounds like you're pleading with Christian women because you're desperately trying to find one...and it doesn't sound like your search is yielding anything. At least, that's the impression you give in the way you present yourself online.

Does face-to-face not work for you? Unless you start presenting yourself online differently, I think it would be better for you not to think face-to-face meeting is outdated.

And not to be mean, but this sounds like your mistake, not Christian women's... :/
 

maxwel

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Please do not continue. It just sounds like you're pleading with Christian women because you're desperately trying to find one...and it doesn't sound like your search is yielding anything. At least, that's the impression you give in the way you present yourself online.

Does face-to-face not work for you? Unless you start presenting yourself online differently, I think it would be better for you not to think face-to-face meeting is outdated.

And not to be mean, but this sounds like your mistake, not Christian women's... :/
I like to meet a woman eye to eye.


But sometimes she has 2 eyes...

and that really throws me.
 
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Please do not continue. It just sounds like you're pleading with Christian women because you're desperately trying to find one...and it doesn't sound like your search is yielding anything. At least, that's the impression you give in the way you present yourself online.

Does face-to-face not work for you? Unless you start presenting yourself online differently, I think it would be better for you not to think face-to-face meeting is outdated.

And not to be mean, but this sounds like your mistake, not Christian women's... :/
Given his other posts, i think his problems are deeper than finding a woman.
 
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I like to meet a woman eye to eye.


But sometimes she has 2 eyes...

and that really throws me.
If you both wear glasses would that be eye to eye to eye to eye? What about both wearing bifocals? eye to eye to eye to eye to eye to eye?
 

Fenner

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I'm learning so much.
 

maxwel

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If you both wear glasses would that be eye to eye to eye to eye? What about both wearing bifocals? eye to eye to eye to eye to eye to eye?
Was that some kinda crack?

You just suddenly decided to start teasing me with cruel, hurtful words?


This is just like grades school, when I got my first pair of glasses.
All the kids were teasing me, "Hey two eyes! Hey two eyes!"
 
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Tintin

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Given his other posts, i think his problems are deeper than finding a woman.
Right. It's not healthy to live your life looking for a shape-shifting woman in every church.
 
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Was that some kinda crack?

You just suddenly decided to start teasing me with cruel, hurtful words?


This is just like grades school, when I got my first pair of glasses.
All the kids were teasing me, "Hey two eyes! Hey two eyes!"
Lol! The better to see the demon shape-shifters with :rolleyes:
 

seoulsearch

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Pete,

Could you maybe write some posts that tell us about you, instead of just preaching at all of us?

I'd be very interested in what your culture is like, as well as what your experiences must be, to motivate you to write all of these threads that all say the same thing, but to different extremes.

Instead of trying to "teach" us, maybe you could try to teach us a little about you and what you've been through first.
 
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Was that some kinda crack?

You just suddenly decided to start teasing me with cruel, hurtful words?


This is just like grades school, when I got my first pair of glasses.
All the kids were teasing me, "Hey two eyes! Hey two eyes!"
No, this is some kind of crack~~> (_|_)
 
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Tintin

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Pete,

Could you maybe write some posts that tell us about you, instead of just preaching at all of us?

I'd be very interested in what your culture is like, as well as what your experiences must be, to motivate you to write all of these threads that all say the same thing, but to different extremes.

Instead of trying to "teach" us, maybe you could try to teach us a little about you and what you've been through first.
Please, Kim. You can't honestly believe that discussion forums are for discussions!
 

Lynx

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The irony of posting this here where we have to continually remind people that it's not a dating site (multiple CC couples excepted since they didn't come here to date, it just kind of happened). If all the good people are really on the other side of the world, why don't you just move so you can get to know them. (And for women, this isn't really a great opportunity as in a lot of other countries women simply don't get the same rights and respect as they do in the west).
Yeah. This. We don't have ANY problem with people being reticent about using technology in search of a date. Nope, nope, not at all, nope.


So anyway, Cinder, as I was saying... What are you doing Saturday night? :cool:
 

cinder

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Yeah. This. We don't have ANY problem with people being reticent about using technology in search of a date. Nope, nope, not at all, nope.


So anyway, Cinder, as I was saying... What are you doing Saturday night? :cool:
It's Christmas eve, I've got plans. :p Besides, I'd probably terrify you with my ambivalence toward music in general.
 

Lynx

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[h=2](#3) List of dating mistakes that should be avoided by the Christian woman[/h]
Ladies, the third mistake is to believe that there is some magic formula you have to follow in order to find a man, there is a magic list of rules to avoid and there is a lot of advice to be gathered on how to find a good man. All the tips, tricks, lists of qualities and attributes you need and lists of mistakes to avoid are pure hogwash. It makes it overcomplicated and will eventually give you an ulcer, but probably won't get you a good man.