For the love of Introverts

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Serious look - default facial expression. Lol!

Sometimes I was already smiling in my mind but realized my default expression has'nt changed yet. No wonder the other person did not smile back.
Something similar has happened to me before haha! I had some friends that would think I was in a bad mood because of my facial expression, when, in reality I wasn't in a bad mood at all! I had to tell them that and from then on, they finally realized it!
 
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Tinuviel

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Something similar has happened to me before haha! I had some friends that would think I was in a bad mood because of my facial expression, when, in reality I wasn't in a bad mood at all! I had to tell them that and from then on, they finally realized it!
At least you get them to realize it :D I finally got this girl to stop by telling her "No, nothing is wrong, and no, you did nothing wrong. I enjoy being around you. But just because I am enjoying myself doesn't mean that I have to enjoy your company all the time or that I talk when I'm having fun. It is an introvert thing, which is ok not to understand."

I guess I kind of offended her, because I figured out she considered herself an introvert as well! (It is the fashionable thing to be these days); I would not have classified her as such, but I love her anyway :D
 
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makes me wanna tell a joke but I cant think of any appropriate in here..oooooh well :p haha
No jokes. We introverts do not laugh, incapable of laughter. Jokes are banned from the introvert thread. If you make joke, you be banned too.
 

Demi777

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Thats what my boyfriend said too when he met me.. but then he ended up on the floor laughing in the bakery.

No jokes. We introverts do not laugh, incapable of laughter. Jokes are banned from the introvert thread. If you make joke, you be banned too.
 
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Thats what my boyfriend said too when he met me.. but then he ended up on the floor laughing in the bakery.
It is an unfortunate and untrue stereotype. In fact, I laugh more than many extroverts I know.
 

Demi777

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naw he was all serious.. he didnt even smile.. until I started talking XD
I noticed that most introverts if you come at em they open up and are funner than most extroverts

It is an unfortunate and untrue stereotype. In fact, I laugh more than many extroverts I know.
 
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naw he was all serious.. he didnt even smile.. until I started talking XD
I noticed that most introverts if you come at em they open up and are funner than most extroverts
I don't know about "funner" but "as fun" at least. Yes, indeed. I sometimes laugh for no reason, which disturbs my siblings! :D
 

Demi777

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most introverts are more intelligent than most extroverts. Unless your like me.. the Golden Retriever liek Desdichardo said XD

I don't know about "funner" but "as fun" at least. Yes, indeed. I sometimes laugh for no reason, which disturbs my siblings! :D
 
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naw he was all serious.. he didnt even smile.. until I started talking XD
I noticed that most introverts if you come at em they open up and are funner than most extroverts
preach it that's bible truth right there.
 
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most introverts are more intelligent than most extroverts. Unless your like me.. the Golden Retriever liek Desdichardo said XD
I liked that analogy :D Me, I'm a German Shepherd type. Kinda aloof until you get to know me when I'm fun and fiercely loyal.
 
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At least you get them to realize it :D I finally got this girl to stop by telling her "No, nothing is wrong, and no, you did nothing wrong. I enjoy being around you. But just because I am enjoying myself doesn't mean that I have to enjoy your company all the time or that I talk when I'm having fun. It is an introvert thing, which is ok not to understand."

I guess I kind of offended her, because I figured out she considered herself an introvert as well! (It is the fashionable thing to be these days); I would not have classified her as such, but I love her anyway :D
Are you still friends with her?

My niece brought her boyfriend down this past year and he asked me multiple times if I was mad at him or if I liked him. I told him over and over again yes! He said that he was wondering because at certain times I would go silent and not talk for a while. Somehow, I guess he got the idea I didn't like him because of being quiet.

I guess I gave him the idea because at certain times we would make each other laugh. Then, at other times I would go completely silent haha!

I think I'm kind half and half... half introvert and half extrovert! :D
 

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Are you still friends with her?

My niece brought her boyfriend down this past year and he asked me multiple times if I was mad at him or if I liked him. I told him over and over again yes! He said that he was wondering because at certain times I would go silent and not talk for a while. Somehow, I guess he got the idea I didn't like him because of being quiet.

I guess I gave him the idea because at certain times we would make each other laugh. Then, at other times I would go completely silent haha!

I think I'm kind half and half... half introvert and half extrovert! :D
Hooray for ambiverts!
 
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Tinuviel

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Are you still friends with her?

My niece brought her boyfriend down this past year and he asked me multiple times if I was mad at him or if I liked him. I told him over and over again yes! He said that he was wondering because at certain times I would go silent and not talk for a while. Somehow, I guess he got the idea I didn't like him because of being quiet.

I guess I gave him the idea because at certain times we would make each other laugh. Then, at other times I would go completely silent haha!

I think I'm kind half and half... half introvert and half extrovert! :D
We were never exceedingly close friends, but yes, I am still friends with her :) (As I see it, I don't have a lot of choice since she is my brother's girlfriend!)
 
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missy2014

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naw he was all serious.. he didnt even smile.. until I started talking XD
I noticed that most introverts if you come at em they open up and are funner than most extroverts
That is president endorsed all the governments in the world endorse this 100%
 
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missy2014

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Thats what my boyfriend said too when he met me.. but then he ended up on the floor laughing in the bakery.
Yeh I bet he was with me and you and you with other introverts laughing and fun gets wildly funny you light the fuse and the introverts just add to it
 

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Ha ha, yes, I am that way too. People usually see me as emotional as a wall of steel at first, but my friends and family can describe me as the most giggly girl they have ever come across...