Why im not a calvinist (but want to be)

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valiant

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Its true He isnt obigated to give anyone anything, but in His grace HE HAS given us a lot of things! Including a WHOSOEVER WILL come to me. Repent and believe! and the ability to do so. I think this is very clear, i just cant get away from the simplicity of such message, why over complicate things with theological terms i dont get it.
because we believe what the Scripture teaches in Eph 1; Rom 9; John 6; 1 Tim 1; Tit 3; 1 Peter 1; etc
 

DJ2

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Trofimus is giving what Issa asked for. Help about understanding Calvinism. You alone are doing the opposite -- making it all about what you want, not about what Issa wants. You don't want "the other side." I know this because you want "the other side" specifically from someone who does not exist.

I've got no problems you asking for that, (even though we both know you'll never get it.) I have problems with you hijacking someone else's thread. Start your own! You're taking the french fries off Issa's plate and pretending you deserve them more than he does and you own them. I'm telling you to get your own plate of fries, not to not ask. Yes, I'm judging you. You're RUDE!

If this was really a case of you taking his fries? By now I'd be stabbing your hand in the table to stop you from stealing his fries. There HIS fries. This is HIS thread!

And now? Now I have to stab my own hand into the table for dealing with this in such a way that I too am contributing to hijacking his thread.

My apologies, Issa.

AND, does anyone have a big band-aid or two?
Whoa....are you like this with everyone or just me? Are you the forum bully?

If trofimus can find and minister to them, how can you declare that they don't exist?
How do you know what Issachar92 wants?
Who are you to decide that my comment does not merit the thread?
My points are on subject and valid and even if not they are not excuses for what you have written.
You are surely the most judgmental person in this forum.

Please do not response on this thread, you have done enough damage already. If you want to blow off some steam you can continue mocking me with a private message.

Stabbing my hand into the table??
 

Johnny_B

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Membership is your participation in their ministry to the people of God and to the community around you, as well as putting you in the place for accountability and a voice in the church's business meetings and planned events. I would not have somone who does not identify with a church to teach, minister, etc. It shows an undisciplined believer.
I am sorry you feel that way, can you show my Scripture that say we need to take a class to be a member of a church to exercise our gifts?
 

DJ2

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Who were you the last time you were on this site?

And, the stupidity of your game is you're asking for a Calvinist that isn't also a Christian. Stupid to put in all the study time on the topic of Christ when you won't follow him. You think you're being so clever. Not even close!
You mean "can't follow him"
 

DJ2

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A Calvinist who was not one of the chosen would be such a fool he wouldn't be worth listening to
What would make him a fool? Because he believes the truth about his own doom? Many people will admit they are destined to hell, with or without John Calvin's writings.
 

Locutus

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Jhn 12:46 I am come a light into the world, that whosoever is elected in me should not abide in darkness.

Gospel according to Calvin.

Or is that Hobbes....



 

Bladerunner

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I have met several ones. They admit all this teaching but cannot somehow come to faith and obedience to Christ. I met some on the internet and tried to help them.
They are repeating they are not chosen. I hope they are. The best sign of not being chosen is that people do not care at all about such things.
Only Israel was chosen! not sure where you are going here????

It is totally up to you to accept Jesus Christ as your savior. And it is by Faith and Faith alone.

Because God can see the future HE knows who will make the right decision but it really is still up to you and your free will.

"No one knows the Day or the Hour" But GOD Does..... EVEN Jesus tells us that ONLY the FATHER knows when the fulfillment of the Church has come in. HOW does HE know.... SEE ABOVE!

So when the last TRUE Christian accepts Jesus Christ, I would assume that the Father will tell Jesus to come and get US. I cannot wait????Wow


 

Bladerunner

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I totally understand that the elect are saved, case closed. My question is about those who God did not pick out first. In other words, will God have any mercy on the day of judgment for those who were not tapped or are the un-chosen judged already and denied mercy.



as my last post, Yes GOD already Knows who will accept Jesus as their savior by Faith alone.

It is still up to that person to make the choice.

If you have not made the choice by now, time is running out...... The Rapture is Imminent which means in the next " twinkle of an eye" or beyond, it can happen. The big question is: ARE you going to BE READY when it does come. Of, course once the Rapture happens, there will many millions of people that will convert to Jesus. They will have to die in his name and will become tribulations Saints.

When the Great White Throne happens, I do not believe that His mercy will be present. In all actuality, "He gives us MERCY for what we DO NOT deserve" and "HE DOES NOT give us judgement for what WE DO deserve." Of course this is referring to the forgiving of your sins upon accepting Jesus Christ as your savior.

What about you????? Don't think on it too much,,,,it could be too long!??????
 
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When it comes right down to it, whether you are Calvinist or Arminian, God knows exactly who is going to be saved, and no one else other than this group will be saved. And, the number won't vary whatsoever.

God has perfect, exhaustive foreknowledge and knows the number and the names.

Only open theists would claim otherwise, and their position is plainly unbiblical (Isaiah 46:9-10).

So, in a sense, the fate of the individual who is born has already been decided, and nothing is going to change that. For some people, the minute they are born, they are hopeless because God knows they are not in the elect. For the rest, they are never going to be hopeless because they are one of the elect.

There is no escaping this, unless you claim God's knowledge is limited, and that he lives life in sequence like man does. This is a sub-Christian view. I used to have an open-theist view due to the sub-Christian cult I belonged to. I was told that God didn't even know I was going to exist until I was conceived and born. Their god was after their own imagination.

The difference is WHY the person is saved. Reformed theology believes salvation is totally by grace, and that God regenerates the person prior to salvation. This regeneration causes the spiritually dead person to be reborn, giving them a new spiritual nature that wants to obey and love God. He therefore places his faith in Jesus Christ and repents due to this change in nature. It is totally by grace, and God is the author and finisher of that person's salvation. And, regardless of who he elects, they WILL be saved despite whatever circumstances that person faces in regards to their environment..God WILL accomplish his purpose in this person.

Arminian or synergistic believers think that God brings the person to a state of "prevenient grace" (the Scotch tape of Arminian theology which has no biblical basis) so that the spiritually dead person is in a semi-comatose state where they are able to choose God or to reject him...neither fully alive nor fully dead. If the person decides to respond in faith, they are saved and regenerated (after salvation). If the person decides not to respond, God apparently continues to woo them like a jilted, helpless boyfriend until they eventually respond or he decides to give up (as if he didn't know the outcome anyways). There's no consensus on whether God provides an equal playing field for this person, or how long he tries until he gives up (as if he doesn't know it's hopeless when he starts).

Some will say, it's not fair if God chooses. The fair thing is that we all go to eternal punishment. The fact that he saves anyone is totally grace. Westerners think that everyone has a RIGHT to the same opportunity...I would contest that.

I also think that if God elects as Reformed theology teaches, it's actually MORE FAIR for some individuals. For instance, it's not fair if some guy in Saudi Arabia is born into a family who is Muslim and he was raised being a Christ-hater, if equal opportunity is an entitlement to all individuals, versus myself who was raised in a home with a Christian parent and exposed to some level of an understanding and bias toward Christianity. Through election, God ensures that the Muslim he elects comes to faith regardless of his circumstances..there is no doubt that this Muslim will be saved, no matter if it requires special dreams or extraordinary means, if God has ordained it.

To buy into the Arminian view, one has to believe that God, who knows the hearts of all men, cannot accomplish his will in that person's life if he chooses to do so. I simply reject that view based on God's omniscience and omnipotence. If he has to go to extraordinary means, he can accomplish salvation in anyone, therefore I must believe that he is passing over the ones which are not saved. Look at Nebuchadnezzar and Paul as examples. I don't think they would have been in the yearbook under "Most Likely to be Saved" yet both responded to God, praising Him ultimately. Nebuchadnezzar was reduced to the status of a grass-eating creature in order to do it, and Paul was knocked off his donkey and blinded to accomplish it.

Anyways, Reformed theology is the most coherent view exegetically. I wouldn't even consider returning back to Arminian theology.

I would also ask non-Reformed people..given their theology, how much effort does God expend in bringing someone to salvation before he gives up? Why does he expend any effort if he already knows the outcome? Do you seriously think the Midianite high priest had the same opportunity to know God as Moses?

Ultimately, I think the Arminian is faced with the issue of his salvation being attributed, at least in part, to his own personal merit. I don't think he can escape that ultimate conclusion. There was something superior to me that caused me to place my faith in Jesus, versus the guy who did not, so there is SOMETHING to boast about. I was wiser than the other guy who failed to do so. I don't think personal merit can be removed from the equation in an Arminian worldview.
 

Marano

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When it comes right down to it, whether you are Calvinist or Arminian, God knows exactly who is going to be saved, and no one else other than this group will be saved. And, the number won't vary whatsoever.

God has perfect, exhaustive foreknowledge and knows the number and the names.

Only open theists would claim otherwise, and their position is plainly unbiblical (Isaiah 46:9-10).

So, in a sense, the fate of the individual who is born has already been decided, and nothing is going to change that. For some people, the minute they are born, they are hopeless because God knows they are not in the elect. For the rest, they are never going to be hopeless because they are one of the elect.

There is no escaping this, unless you claim God's knowledge is limited, and that he lives life in sequence like man does. This is a sub-Christian view. I used to have an open-theist view due to the sub-Christian cult I belonged to. I was told that God didn't even know I was going to exist until I was conceived and born. Their god was after their own imagination.

The difference is WHY the person is saved. Reformed theology believes salvation is totally by grace, and that God regenerates the person prior to salvation. This regeneration causes the spiritually dead person to be reborn, giving them a new spiritual nature that wants to obey and love God. He therefore places his faith in Jesus Christ and repents due to this change in nature. It is totally by grace, and God is the author and finisher of that person's salvation. And, regardless of who he elects, they WILL be saved despite whatever circumstances that person faces in regards to their environment..God WILL accomplish his purpose in this person.

Arminian or synergistic believers think that God brings the person to a state of "prevenient grace" (the Scotch tape of Arminian theology which has no biblical basis) so that the spiritually dead person is in a semi-comatose state where they are able to choose God or to reject him...neither fully alive nor fully dead. If the person decides to respond in faith, they are saved and regenerated (after salvation). If the person decides not to respond, God apparently continues to woo them like a jilted, helpless boyfriend until they eventually respond or he decides to give up (as if he didn't know the outcome anyways). There's no consensus on whether God provides an equal playing field for this person, or how long he tries until he gives up (as if he doesn't know it's hopeless when he starts).

Some will say, it's not fair if God chooses. The fair thing is that we all go to eternal punishment. The fact that he saves anyone is totally grace. Westerners think that everyone has a RIGHT to the same opportunity...I would contest that.

I also think that if God elects as Reformed theology teaches, it's actually MORE FAIR for some individuals. For instance, it's not fair if some guy in Saudi Arabia is born into a family who is Muslim and he was raised being a Christ-hater, if equal opportunity is an entitlement to all individuals, versus myself who was raised in a home with a Christian parent and exposed to some level of an understanding and bias toward Christianity. Through election, God ensures that the Muslim he elects comes to faith regardless of his circumstances..there is no doubt that this Muslim will be saved, no matter if it requires special dreams or extraordinary means, if God has ordained it.

To buy into the Arminian view, one has to believe that God, who knows the hearts of all men, cannot accomplish his will in that person's life if he chooses to do so. I simply reject that view based on God's omniscience and omnipotence. If he has to go to extraordinary means, he can accomplish salvation in anyone, therefore I must believe that he is passing over the ones which are not saved. Look at Nebuchadnezzar and Paul as examples. I don't think they would have been in the yearbook under "Most Likely to be Saved" yet both responded to God, praising Him ultimately. Nebuchadnezzar was reduced to the status of a grass-eating creature in order to do it, and Paul was knocked off his donkey and blinded to accomplish it.

Anyways, Reformed theology is the most coherent view exegetically. I wouldn't even consider returning back to Arminian theology.

I would also ask non-Reformed people..given their theology, how much effort does God expend in bringing someone to salvation before he gives up? Why does he expend any effort if he already knows the outcome? Do you seriously think the Midianite high priest had the same opportunity to know God as Moses?

Ultimately, I think the Arminian is faced with the issue of his salvation being attributed, at least in part, to his own personal merit. I don't think he can escape that ultimate conclusion. There was something superior to me that caused me to place my faith in Jesus, versus the guy who did not, so there is SOMETHING to boast about. I was wiser than the other guy who failed to do so. I don't think personal merit can be removed from the equation in an Arminian worldview.
Very lucid post, salvation is indeed of the Lord, I hope and pray all His saints come to see it in time.
 

DJ2

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Very lucid post, salvation is indeed of the Lord, I hope and pray all His saints come to see it in time.
"come to see it in time" or what?
 
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Its true He isnt obigated to give anyone anything, but in His grace HE HAS given us a lot of things! Including a WHOSOEVER WILL come to me. Repent and believe! and the ability to do so. I think this is very clear, i just cant get away from the simplicity of such message, why over complicate things with theological terms i dont get it.
We are not over complicating things, I am just restated what Scripture clearly teaches. I believe in the God who has his hands in every part and function of my salvation. What you may call 'complicated theology,' is just giving credit to each Person of the Trinity in their work of redemption in us, and leaving no room for us to boast.

I think our pride wants us to believe we had a voice somewhere in the plan of God.
 
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psalm6819

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So its like the heavenly lotto
LOL!!!!

That's at the heart of this ridiculous false doctrine.
 
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We are not over complicating things, I am just restated what Scripture clearly teaches. I believe in the God who has his hands in every part and function of my salvation. What you may call 'complicated theology,' is just giving credit to each Person of the Trinity in their work of redemption in us, and leaving no room for us to boast.

I think our pride wants us to believe we had a voice somewhere in the plan of God.
NAILED!!!!
 

Marano

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"come to see it in time" or what?
Well one day all will see I do believe that whether in this life or in the ressurection, we will know as we are known.
 
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"come to see it in time" or what?
Read Ephesians 1, it reflects Paul's prayer for the church. It ain't over at salvation, there is more revelation to come to those whom he has graced with belief and salvation. :)
 

Marano

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We are not over complicating things, I am just restated what Scripture clearly teaches. I believe in the God who has his hands in every part and function of my salvation. What you may call 'complicated theology,' is just giving credit to each Person of the Trinity in their work of redemption in us, and leaving no room for us to boast.

I think our pride wants us to believe we had a voice somewhere in the plan of God.
Well said brother, God does all the work in saving us so no man should boast.
 
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John 3:16 in no way denies Reformed theology and those who think it does are amusing. The verse is basically talking about "the believing ones" which is the elect. The point is that regeneration precedes faith or belief. In fact the reason Nicodemus did not understand Christ in the preceding verses is that he hadn't been regenerated yet. Christ was talking to a spiritually dead man.

Due to tradition and probably Bible sales the "whosoever believes" phrase remains in John 3:16 but it could just as easily be translated "the believing ones" which describes the elect. No one believes until they are made alive again. See Ephesians 2. Arminians like to brandish the "whosoever believes" around as some kind of sword but in reality it's not even a toothpick lol.
 

DJ2

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John 3:16 in no way denies Reformed theology and those who think it does are amusing. The verse is basically talking about "the believing ones" which is the elect. The point is that regeneration precedes faith or belief. In fact the reason Nicodemus did not understand Christ in the preceding verses is that he hadn't been regenerated yet. Christ was talking to a spiritually dead man.

Due to tradition and probably Bible sales the "whosoever believes" phrase remains in John 3:16 but it could just as easily be translated "the believing ones" which describes the elect. No one believes until they are made alive again. See Ephesians 2. Arminians like to brandish the "whosoever believes" around as some kind of sword but in reality it's not even a toothpick lol.
Did election also apply during the Old Testament?
 
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Did election also apply during the Old Testament?
God elected the patriarchs in a salvific sense. He also had an elect remnant of true believers as Romans 11 indicates in a salvific sense. In a corporate nonsalvific sense, he elected ancient Israel. So we see both individual and corporate election.

Paul refers to both types of election in Romans 9-11. Romans 8 makes it clear though that individual salvific election was the overall context.

Interestingly the Day of Atonement only applied to the elect within Israel; it was not extended to the Gentile nations so in essence we have a prototype of limited atonement. I don't believe this atonement applied to the non-faithful within Israel either. Hebrews seems to indicate it was for "those who draw near" meaning the elect within the elect.

Limited Atonement is an interesting doctrine. Some Calvinists will accept all but this point but I don't see their reasoning. I think what they really find troubling is election in general. I am not concerned with limited atonement as Christs atonement is only effective for those who believe no matter whether you are Reformed or Arminian. I believe the aggression is misplaced and in reality the real concern is election.

The Calvinist believes the atonement is specific AND effective; it accomplishes the salvation for those it is intended for (the elect). Arminians believe it is general (for all) AND potentially ineffective; that it only accomplishes the salvation of some. It's a totally different mindset. In their theology potentially no one could have been saved through the atonement; in Reformed theology it accomplishes the salvation of EVERYONE it's intended for.

A study of the book of Hebrews and Leviticus in the light of the tabernacle and the atonement is enlightening in this regard. Most Christians don't understand the Mosaic Covenant well enough to understand the book of Hebrews. I've been focused on this recently.

James White has an 80 sermon series on Hebrews on SermonAudio that helps in this regard. I had already been studying it due to my Judaizers past.