Female pastors, ok or not?

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Im going to re-post what I posted on the new thread on this subject. It will take a few posts to do so.


Interesting read...Since few will read it and just argue back I'll post some of the points.

Can you imagine the person under water looking at the line and saying something like, “Man, I can’t have that black guy save me!” or “I can’t have a woman save me!”?
Absurd, right? And can you imagine if someone on the shore refused to link arms with people because they weren’t the right age, color, shape, religious belief or gender? Again, absurd. Because then there’d be a gap in the line, and that gap may very well be where the person lay under water—dying.
Figuratively speaking, a whole lot of people have sunk under the water, dying little deaths and big deaths all over the place. There are people outside and inside our churches drowning. Those people can’t afford for us Christians to stand on the shore fighting or dredging the lake with gaps in the line because we’re too busy arguing over who gets to do what.


Woman was created to be man’s warrior partner against evil. Pointing again to Genesis 2:18, our Creator said, “It is not good for man to be alone. I will make him a suitable helper (ezer kenego).”
The common, patriarchal, interpretation is that man leads and woman supports his leadership in an assistant role. A more complex story emerges, however, when we consider, rather than the modern interpretation of “helper,” the word ezer as it is used in the Old Testament. Ezer is used 20 times in the Old Testament, most often to reference God, and frequently to reference warriors and battle. Some prime examples of this can be found in:
Deuteronomy 33:29 (shield, helper, glorious sword)
Psalm 70:5 (provider, deliverer)
Psalm 89:19 (strength of a warrior)
Psalm 121:1 (protection)

These images challenge the common caricature of the ideal biblical woman as sweet, pure and receptive. For, words such as protect, provide, warrior, and strength are military terms.


In a culture where women were forbidden to study the Torah, Jesus invited them to “sit at His feet.” (Luke 10:38-42). In a culture where women’s work was entirely confined to the home, Jesus invited women to travel as ministers (Luke 8:1-3). In a culture where women were considered unreliable, Jesus invited them to witness (to men) the epic event of the resurrection.
Theologians. Ministers. Preachers. Culture might limit women leaders, but Jesus’ Kingdom is not of this world—in Jesus’ world, women lead. Jesus’ very purpose was to redeem, restore and renew what was lost in the fall.


Paul’s apparently restrictive passages regarding women must be considered within the meta-narrative of the Garden and Gospel narratives highlighted above, as well as Paul’s own life example.
Paul frequently worked alongside women serving in leadership roles. There were Euodia and Syntyche, Lydia, Phoebe (who likely was the courier of the Roman epistle and the first to interpret it to her listeners), Priscilla, Chloe and Junia, to mention a few. These women were leaders, preachers, apostles and deacons.
So why the current focus on a few restrictive texts, namely 1 Timothy 2:12, which says, “Women should learn quietly and submissively. I do not let women teach men or have authority over them” and 1 Corinthians 14:34, which says, “Women should be silent during the church meetings. It is not proper for them to speak.”
In the words of Sesame Street, “one of these things just doesn’t belong” with the others. In light of the example he lived, I think we should view Paul’s prohibitive texts as contextual, rather than continual, a chapter in the book, not the whole story.

3 Things Christians Get Wrong About Women Leaders | RELEVANT Magazine


 
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....But there is also major bias against women being pastors. I dont argue this with people in my real life. People can decide what they believe. I do not believe Paul was saying women could not speak,nor preach,but thats me. What we do have to be careful of,men,is that we dont treat women in the same way that Islam does. A women is to be silent,a woman has to submit to anything her husband desires,a woman is only good for birthing and cleaning the house. Women have been in ministry down through the years and have been mightily used of God. Catherine Booth is one example. Jesus said to go into all the world and share the Gospel.

We have people lost and looking for God,are we to wait for a man to share the Gospel with them? Because I see a whole lot of people talking,but not a lot of action. I traveled for 20yrs in all denominations,want to know what I noticed,particularly in Baptist churches? Women attending services,bringing their children on their own. Where are the husbands?! I saw this trend in many many churches. So I hear a lot of talk about how men should be the only leaders,but I dont see the men in churches. Who is to lead if they refuse to attend?! I saw so many of these women faithfully attending every week and husbands sitting at home with their feet up. My father is still in ministry and a few months ago at one of his services a friend of his managed to bring her husband to his concert where he was saved and now,finally after years,he is attending church with his wife. So lets be real about this situation folks.When you have to bring in tvs to get men to attend church so they wont miss the Superbowl,we've got a big problem with male leadership and it isn't the women/female preachers at fault. The church is dead and dying while we argue about who is entitled to reach the lost. We are told to go,but we dont,most dont even attend a weekly service let alone go into ministry. So here's my take and folk wont like it but thats never stopped me before. If you dont attend a weekly church service,just like not voting in an election,you dont get to say what happens in the church. And if you're not willing to get your hands dirty and be in ministry you dont get to forbid women from stepping up and doing the job you aren't doing. A lot of talk but no action. And in these last days it ought to be more action and less talk.
 
Think on this men:

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The typical U.S. Congregation draws an adult crowd that’s 61% female, 39% male. This gender gap shows up in all age categories

. On any given Sunday there are 13 million more adult women than men in America’s churches.

.This Sunday almost 25 percent of married, churchgoing women will worship without their husbands.

.Midweek activities often draw 70 to 80 percent female participants

.The majority of church employees are women (except for ordained clergy, who are overwhelmingly male).

.Over 70 percent of the boys who are being raised in church will abandon it during their teens and twenties. Many of these boys will never return.

.More than 90 percent of American men believe in God, and five out of six call themselves Christians. But only one out of six attend church on a given Sunday. The average man accepts the reality of Jesus Christ, but fails to see any value in going to church.

.Churches overseas report gender gaps of up to 9 women for every adult man in attendance.

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Fewer than 10% of U.S. churches are able to establish or maintain a vibrant men’s ministry.


http://churchformen.com/men-and-church/where-are-the-men/

What say you men!!? Women are standing in the gap,where are you!? We want to limit who preaches the Gospel,we want to wait for a man to do it,we need God to send the right man?! Can we say "excuses"!! Can we say "cop out"?! Come on men,some direct talk here. Men are the only ones that can pastor but all other employees are female?! We're talking out of two sides of our mouths here guys! What have you to say??!!
 
Your weighing apples to oranges, to preach the word is to speak the word, to tell the word,

No man can telepath the word, man has to speak, tell, preach it.

I disagree.... in the context of this discussion, preaching is being before the assembled church, expounding on scripture... teaching.


Trying to broaden the definition of "preaching" to cover your opinion is flawed.

If you want to get into semantics about what the word "preach" means, then we can do that.... but we ALL know what we are talking about in this discussion about women "pastors".
 
I disagree.... in the context of this discussion, preaching is being before the assembled church, expounding on scripture... teaching.


Trying to broaden the definition of "preaching" to cover your opinion is flawed.

If you want to get into semantics about what the word "preach" means, then we can do that.... but we ALL know what we are talking about in this discussion about women "pastors".

It's quite ok, I understand you feel my opinion is flawed, though that is your opinion. not to be rude but I disagree.
 
Trying to broaden the definition of "preaching" to cover your opinion is flawed.

Exactly. There's a big difference between someone being called to ministry and a member of the Body having an opinion 'bout something.
 
Think on this men:

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The typical U.S. Congregation draws an adult crowd that’s 61% female, 39% male. This gender gap shows up in all age categories

. On any given Sunday there are 13 million more adult women than men in America’s churches.

.This Sunday almost 25 percent of married, churchgoing women will worship without their husbands.

.Midweek activities often draw 70 to 80 percent female participants

.The majority of church employees are women (except for ordained clergy, who are overwhelmingly male).

.Over 70 percent of the boys who are being raised in church will abandon it during their teens and twenties. Many of these boys will never return.

.More than 90 percent of American men believe in God, and five out of six call themselves Christians. But only one out of six attend church on a given Sunday. The average man accepts the reality of Jesus Christ, but fails to see any value in going to church.

.Churches overseas report gender gaps of up to 9 women for every adult man in attendance.

.
Fewer than 10% of U.S. churches are able to establish or maintain a vibrant men’s ministry.


http://churchformen.com/men-and-church/where-are-the-men/

What say you men!!? Women are standing in the gap,where are you!? We want to limit who preaches the Gospel,we want to wait for a man to do it,we need God to send the right man?! Can we say "excuses"!! Can we say "cop out"?! Come on men,some direct talk here. Men are the only ones that can pastor but all other employees are female?! We're talking out of two sides of our mouths here guys! What have you to say??!!


Exactly!!!! I mentioned this same lopsided problem of way more women than men in church and it got the typical ridicule responses. "Church is for sissies, for women, for old women and for kids. Going to church isn't manly". It is a huge problem in the church that much is for certain. The peer pressure for men is that you have to be "a tough guy" and going to church isn't "tough". But really it is "tough" in a sense because to do so would be to stand against the tide of sissified men who won't bow to Christ and serve Him in a local assembly. There are of course a few around here that won't go because, you know, all of them are wrong, and they are "right". That is a cop out, un-manly and sissified position. Of course, I say this in love. ;) :)
 
Exactly!!!! I mentioned this same lopsided problem of way more women than men in church and it got the typical ridicule responses. "Church is for sissies, for women, for old women and for kids. Going to church isn't manly". It is a huge problem in the church that much is for certain. The peer pressure for men is that you have to be "a tough guy" and going to church isn't "tough". But really it is "tough" in a sense because to do so would be to stand against the tide of sissified men who won't bow to Christ and serve Him in a local assembly. There are of course a few around here that won't go because, you know, all of them are wrong, and they are "right". That is a cop out, un-manly and sissified position. Of course, I say this in love. ;) :)


Well said brother. I saw it many times in the different denominations I traveled in. Women in the majority,attending and running the church. Only time I saw the men was for potluck time,belly up to the table. Sorry folk,I call em as I see em.
 
Paul said, 'I do not allow a woman to preach (authoritatively) , or to usurp authority over a man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, and then Eve, and ADAM WAS NOT DECEIVED, BUT THE WOMAN BEING DECEIVED was in the transgression.

Now we can argue that Paul was wrong, or we may just accept that he spoke the word of God. And in the latter case we do well to pay heed.

There is clearly a warning here that women can tend to being deceived, and that Paul is warning against it.

That being so it would seem to me that he gives precedence to men when speaking authoritatively, especially at time when the New Testament was not yet written. The woman is to be a help, but not an authority. Otherwise the Bible means nothing.

(It is interesting how many apostasies were started by women, eg. Ellen White, Mary Baker Eddy, and so on.)
 
Well said brother. I saw it many times in the different denominations I traveled in. Women in the majority,attending and running the church. Only time I saw the men was for potluck time,belly up to the table. Sorry folk,I call em as I see em.

Thanks sister! I love your candor and honesty - in my gift of discernment and being polemic and uncompromising (sometimes to a fault) I really appreciate that!

But what you said causes an idea (so I'll blame the results on you - LOL!) Here it is: Have a huge barbecue and preach the truth to those who believe they're saved because some preacher told them they are for saying a prayer back when. And yet they don't serve God, don't want God or anything to do with God other than have their ticket punched "to heaven when they die".

Actually I will fess up - I've already done this. Brisket, pulled pork, all the fixins after a message on the wineskins and why the person needs to be made new or all their "religion" will leak out and both they and the wine perish. Went great for those who know Christ, and like a led balloon for the goats wearing a sheepskin for a few hours. :)
 
Thanks sister! I love your candor and honesty - in my gift of discernment and being polemic and uncompromising (sometimes to a fault) I really appreciate that!

But what you said causes an idea (so I'll blame the results on you - LOL!) Here it is: Have a huge barbecue and preach the truth to those who believe they're saved because some preacher told them they are for saying a prayer back when. And yet they don't serve God, don't want God or anything to do with God other than have their ticket punched "to heaven when they die".

Actually I will fess up - I've already done this. Brisket, pulled pork, all the fixins after a message on the wineskins and why the person needs to be made new or all their "religion" will leak out and both they and the wine perish. Went great for those who know Christ, and like a led balloon for the goats wearing a sheepskin for a few hours. :)




Ahhh the old "my name is on the roll" so s'all good. Yep,saw a lot of that.Here in the south they have homecoming services. I dont know if you are familiar. Folks come back to the church they attended when they were young,or if they moved away etc.I sang in a church in Georgia on a Sunday morning "homecoming" service. Only a handful of the old faithful,mainly women {had to have someone put on the meal} attended. As soon as the service was over and we stepped into the dining hall it was elbow to elbow with people there for the free meal. The pastor was righteously indignant. I told him if I were the pastor,the next time they put on a meal,I wouldn't show up to preach. I'd let them all sit for an hour and wonder where I was then come and eat like a stuck pig for the meal. Perhaps they might get the subtle hint!
 
Ahhh the old "my name is on the roll" so s'all good. Yep,saw a lot of that.Here in the south they have homecoming services. I dont know if you are familiar. Folks come back to the church they attended when they were young,or if they moved away etc.I sang in a church in Georgia on a Sunday morning "homecoming" service. Only a handful of the old faithful,mainly women {had to have someone put on the meal} attended. As soon as the service was over and we stepped into the dining hall it was elbow to elbow with people there for the free meal. The pastor was righteously indignant. I told him if I were the pastor,the next time they put on a meal,I wouldn't show up to preach. I'd let them all sit for an hour and wonder where I was then come and eat like a stuck pig for the meal. Perhaps they might get the subtle hint!

That is so sad, so typical. Those people have no shame at all. Conscience seared? I don't know. Thank God He is longsuffering. If one of them heard the truth and got converted, I would be happy, but the problem is they've been (usually is the case) "preached into heaven." Now just "try to get them lost."
 
I haven't mentioned the weather once to you so I'm guessing you can figure that one out for yourself.

And I see what I said you don't comprehend that analogy, it's about what you can twist.