God hating you before you're born?

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Why are you stirring up trouble? The "fight" already ended, get over it and move on.
Really? Did it? Because I bypassed most of the fight, and next thing I saw was you getting your gloves on for me. You took it to three different people so far. And, once again, playing the victim.
 

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People are not fighting against the fact that there is a place for those that reject Christ. What they are fighting against is the notion that God chooses those people on purpose to be rejecting Him.

It is anti-the gospel and really violates the whole "why" of the gospel in the first place and violates the nature and character of God.

God doesn't arbitrarily choose some for hell and some for heaven - they chose that themselves. Salvation is open for all. God so loved the world - that He gave.

The gospel is simple. He loved, He gave, we believed, we live.

People are free to believe whatever they want but this false doctrine of God sends you to hell on purpose because He didn't choose you beforehand is not the gospel.
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And, up to this point, there is only one person on here who thinks, "God chooses those people on purpose to be rejecting Him." Me!

Despite that fact, every single Calvinist on this thread is being blamed for that. So, are you sure about that? Seems to me, I could start blaming every single Armenian for also being a works-salvationist too, however, that wouldn't be fair either. Nor truthful!

And, NONE of us believe God's decisions are arbitrary, and yet you say we all do.

Got to ask you -- as often as you get annoyed at Stephen for misrepresenting your POV, why would you misrepresent other people's POV? It really is most annoying!
 
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If Jesus had died for everyone, everyone would be saved, scripture can't be taken out of context for it to mean that Jesus died for someone who spent their whole lives in sin and wanted nothing to do with Jesus or salvation, so that in hell they would claim Jesus died for them and paid the penalty for their sins, no sinner in hell can claim that.
Christ died for all of mankind if you believe in something otherwise you are not following the biblical scriptures.
 
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If Jesus had died for everyone, everyone would be saved, scripture can't be taken out of context for it to mean that Jesus died for someone who spent their whole lives in sin and wanted nothing to do with Jesus or salvation, so that in hell they would claim Jesus died for them and paid the penalty for their sins, no sinner in hell can claim that.
Actually, the Bible DOES say that, and it also says "EVERY knee will bow, and EVERYONE will confess Jesus is Lord."
 
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If Jesus had died for everyone, everyone would be saved, scripture can't be taken out of context for it to mean that Jesus died for someone who spent their whole lives in sin and wanted nothing to do with Jesus or salvation, so that in hell they would claim Jesus died for them and paid the penalty for their sins, no sinner in hell can claim that.
Jesus absolutely died for everyone. The Bible says so. It also says he that BELIEVES will be saved.Whosoever will may come. Otherwise the Bible lies when it says He died for all and loves all.It means God made disposable people. And He went through a whole lot of who shot John for no reason. If He chose people for heaven why create earth? Why have all this war,death sin and heartache. Just take the righteous and keep them up there in heaven. Ridiculous.Christ died for all,giving all the opportunity to accept or reject Him. If we have no choice then how can we say we love God? If I forced you to love me,is that God like? No,that is not Gods character.He is not Allah,forcing you to choose Him.It is a free gift you can accept or reject.


 

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Actually, the Bible DOES say that, and it also says "EVERY knee will bow, and EVERYONE will confess Jesus is Lord."
I am afraid that they will because they will be forced to in the end of the world...
 
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I do not "answer" your verses because I do not need to, I accept them all :) I am not sure what you mean by "you dismiss them".

But my context/picture of the whole grand scheme of things is probably very different from yours.


Yes,Im sure you ideas are very different from mine,but what matters is what does the Word say?
 

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Christ died for all of mankind if you believe in something otherwise you are not following the biblical scriptures.
Then why do a lot of people die without salvation? If Christ had died for them they surely would be saved, Christ's death wasn't to make salvation posssible for all of mankind as you'd have us believe, it was to effectively save those the Father before the foundation of the world had elected to be His people, and I think you'll find this is the biblical perspective.
 
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Absolutely! To believe that God elects certain people to be saved means He also elected some to hell. So God created throw away,disposable people,He created a certain number of people He doesn'tcare about. Not only that but the drug addict,the prostitute,the alcoholic that cries out to Him for help,God just tunes them out,He doesn't care,their cries go unheard,they are disposable. How can anyone know if they will be saved? How can I know if Im one of the elected or one of the doomed?! No,I dont believe that God works that way. Why send missionaries overseas? The right people will come,why preach? No. I dont believe this at all and the Bible doesn't teach it.It makes God to be a liar. "For God so loved" is a lie. No one can convince me of this God,with this nature. All who call,whosoever will,that is the God I serve.

So, with your "logic," we're supposed to throw out "elect" from the Bible, we're supposed to introduce new characters into the Bible, ("throwaway disposable people"), oh, and apparently add in some drug addicts, and prostitutes, (granted already got prostitutes in it, but you personally want what you deem as the filthiest people for God to reject, and somehow that's the addicts and prostitutes), suddenly you can't find a single verse in there that can possibly tell you if God did save you, and you're STILL out and out lying about what we are saying to fill in your fantasy, but, hey! You're doing great, right? Because you have a personal god who only loves, doesn't ever, ever, hate, and hey, let's just cut the Bible down to one single verse in the middle of a long speech by Jesus!

Your arrogance and deafness is overwhelming today!

YOU HEAR US! YOU LIE ABOUT WHAT WE'RE SAYING!
 

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Actually, the Bible DOES say that, and it also says "EVERY knee will bow, and EVERYONE will confess Jesus is Lord."
By then it will have been too late, they should've confessed Christ while on earth, if they're forced to do it what kind of confession is it by then?
 

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Jesus absolutely died for everyone. The Bible says so. It also says he that BELIEVES will be saved.Whosoever will may come. Otherwise the Bible lies when it says He died for all and loves all.It means God made disposable people. And He went through a whole lot of who shot John for no reason. If He chose people for heaven why create earth? Why have all this war,death sin and heartache. Just take the righteous and keep them up there in heaven. Ridiculous.Christ died for all,giving all the opportunity to accept or reject Him. If we have no choice then how can we say we love God? If I forced you to love me,is that God like? No,that is not Gods character.He is not Allah,forcing you to choose Him.It is a free gift you can accept or reject.


God electing people to salvation doesn't mean he's unjust, everyone is born a sinner and dead already, they're all already condemmned, God out of those people mercifully saves some of them, grace isn't justice, if we were all to get justice we would all go to hell, it's only by God's grace that some of us are saved.
 

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Yes,Im sure you ideas are very different from mine,but what matters is what does the Word say?
"What does the Word say" is in the Bible.

"What does it all mean" is in our heads and no two people on the earth will get it in the same way.
 
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But you just said that Esau was not chosen before he was born.... sounds like predestination to me.

Poor Esau had no chance of making it in your books.
Amazing how that works, huh? Right after the part about God predestines comes the part where God loves Jacob and hates Esau, even before they were born.

Good news. No such thing as chance. God IS sovereign and knows what he is doing! Good deal for us, because we deserve separation from God, death, and hell for what we've done, (which also wasn't chance. We intentionally sinned), and yet the merciful God saved us without reneging on his righteousness.
 
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By then it will have been too late, they should've confessed Christ while on earth, if they're forced to do it what kind of confession is it by then?
That sounds like you believe accepting Christ was your saving confession.
 

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That sounds like you believe accepting Christ was your saving confession.
People sin because it's their nature to sin, people confess Christ by the spirit of God abiding in them, I do believe that my confession is the holy spirit working in me so that I believe.
 

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Even in the OT, God gave people a chance or a choice to turn and live...He said he didn't have any pleasure in the death of the wicked. He even sent his only begotten Son to die for us that whomsoever will believe shall not perish.

[h=1]Ezekiel 33:11-12King James Version (KJV)[/h][FONT=&quot]11 Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?[/FONT]
 
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OK understood. I won't lie some of these things I find confusing. I don't know either what is theism and what is so wrong about it (never heard of it before). Thank you for your answer many blessings and Love
Theo = God.
ism = belief system.

Theism is belief in God.

The problems develop when people start creating a God much easier to take. (Honestly? I'd find God much easier to take, if he didn't go off and harden Pharaoh's heart. I'd find him much easier to take if he didn't kill all those Egyptians, and then Israelites, and then enemies of Israelites. BUT that is not the real God if I wipe out what he really did in my mind, so I have to accept that is the one and only God, and ask for him to give me the ability to accept that about him, until he gives me the understanding he has, that I don't. So, I'm not entirely unaware of why people create their own images of God. I just can't accept trying to change God to fit us.)
 
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Bye. I'm sure you know what this means as undoubtedly it happens to you all the time. You made history though, first time you've ever been on my ignore list. Not to mention I think its the first ever on my list. Cheers! Whatever is causing you to act out I hope it improves for the better, and you stop lashing out. Again, bye.
Yet, again. Victimhood.