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I have it in my head what I think BDF is all about. I just heard from a couple of friends on what they wish this forum was about. And, I just read someone else's opinion about what this forum is all about. Everyone's idea of what it is about doesn't match anyone else's concept.
So, I'm really asking, why do you come here? What service does this forum provide? What service do you wish it supplied. What service do you think you supply on here? And what do you -- personally -- get out of it?
Warning: This is not a thread to attack "them." This is not a nostalgia thread. ("I remember when BDF was about...") This is not an "I'm right and your wrong" thread. And, I'm very bored with the "If y'all would just realize how to behave," particularly from people, like me, not known for behaving. (I hope no one was drinking something when reading that, or it probably went out your nose.)
I honestly would like to know why you come, what you hope to give, and what you hope to get. Because it is so diverse, maybe if we start understanding each of us have different wants and different needs, then maybe we can start realizing, what "I want" isn't the end all/be all of what BDF offers anyway. Maybe not, but I really am curious what you are up for when you come on to this particular forum the first time on any given day.
So what do you want from coming here, what do you want to give, and what keeps you coming back? Basically, why do you come to BDF?
So, I'm really asking, why do you come here? What service does this forum provide? What service do you wish it supplied. What service do you think you supply on here? And what do you -- personally -- get out of it?
Warning: This is not a thread to attack "them." This is not a nostalgia thread. ("I remember when BDF was about...") This is not an "I'm right and your wrong" thread. And, I'm very bored with the "If y'all would just realize how to behave," particularly from people, like me, not known for behaving. (I hope no one was drinking something when reading that, or it probably went out your nose.)
I honestly would like to know why you come, what you hope to give, and what you hope to get. Because it is so diverse, maybe if we start understanding each of us have different wants and different needs, then maybe we can start realizing, what "I want" isn't the end all/be all of what BDF offers anyway. Maybe not, but I really am curious what you are up for when you come on to this particular forum the first time on any given day.
So what do you want from coming here, what do you want to give, and what keeps you coming back? Basically, why do you come to BDF?