i just want a boyfreind

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angelalwt0616

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I m 24,female.i ever fell in love for 3 times. I m still virgin.

I don’t understand why every time I fall in love, I m serious, every time I start a realatinship , I will think about he could be my marriage partner,but end up not good.
Except the 1st time was true love,we didn’t handle argument well,so ended up separated.

I m nice,caring,good listening,cute,peole would regard me as fun and interesting.i m a nurse.People say I m attractive and cute,they always think I m nice and good to talk with.

I want just a simple guy,honest,good-hearted,caring.better beliving in God and still a virgin.

Maybe I m just too easy to read,guys can read me easily,,I m just too simple-minded,they know how to make me laugh or make me feel that they are in love with me,but actually not.

I feel so insecure and disappointed about relationship,I just wonder why always good people got cheated ?why good people always left behind?i just don’t understand why good people can’t meet someone good?
 
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jonnoboy

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Hello there

Chin up and just enjoy life...i too am single 21 and have had 1 relationship but ended it because she wanted sex on 1st date...I told her no way!! ahaahaa...sex s a gift from god!
 
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Mtbrama

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Hey, i can symphasize with ya coz im like 20, neva dated, and actually neva dated at all. I am usually tempted to rush into relationships coz can be lonely at times but hey, from what i have seen most pips dnt last in relationships coz they rush into them. So just take it easy, i know u may feel age is not on your side but you can have more fun all alone until you find that special someone who wont toy with ya.........
 
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jonnoboy

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so true mtbrama
 
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giuseppe

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I m 24,female.i ever fell in love for 3 times. I m still virgin.

I don’t understand why every time I fall in love, I m serious, every time I start a realatinship , I will think about he could be my marriage partner,but end up not good.
If every time you meet an interesting man, you think you guys will get married, you are most likely to be hurt in the end, don't you think?
 
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sportygirl

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I've started to realize alot about relationships. Finding a good guy is harder than it looks, even the Christian ones arent always what you think. My ex, who pushed me to go farther is living with his current gf, and sees nothing wrong wtih what tehy are doing. But I know t here are ones out there and I know finding one is all in God's timing...It takes patience, but I truely believe its worth that.
 
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i got a sweet handsome loving boyfriend im 16 hes 14 lol his name on here is ryans but his real name is Tony i have know clue why he put ryans for
 
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harron

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Can i pls chat with u now.......Im a really troubled teen right now.....i wanna accept christ
 
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Daedalus

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I'm a single man but I've realized that you have to give complete trust to the Lord in your relationships. Meaning if you allow God to write your love story he will. If you allow him to change you to the woman he wants you to be and allow HIM to bring that person into your life. Then and only then will you have the fulfilling relationship you want deep in your heart. God is interested in our lives. Every detail...why not give the relationship side of your life to him and let him form your marriage relationship? If you want a true man of God only God will bring you to this man. A true man of God is seeking God with his whole heart so much so that he won't be seeking a relationship with you. It'll only be God who brings the relationship together. Not by your works (you trying to make it work) but by his spirit. It'll be like a magnet pulling you an the other person together. If you're seeking God's will for your life in every area you won't be able to stop God from bringing that amazing man of God into your life.

I hope these words bring you encouragement and clarity.

This is an amazing blog someone posted describing the purpose behind God making woman out of a man's rib. I think you would enjoy it.
*Why God Created Woman from Man’s Rib* « In Him, Hope Abounds

I hope these words bring you encouragement

God bless you

- Caleb
 
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prayerman777

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DON,T RUSH LITTLE SISTER YOU STILL HAVE A LONG LIFE AHEAD OF YOU, JESUS KNOWS YOUR LONELY I TOO WENT THROUGH LONELYNESS AND IT IS NEVER EASY BUT I LATCHED ON TO A PROMISE FROM GOD HE TOLD ME ME TO SEEK HIS KINGDOM WITH MY WHOLE HEART AND HE WOULD GIVE THE DESIRE OF MY HEART AND BABY SISTER IN SOME AREAS THAT HAS COME TO PASS AND IN OTHERS NOT YET BUT I AM MUCH CLOSER TO GOD SOOOOOOOOOOOOO TO BE HONEST IT WAS WORTH GOING THROUGH THE LONELYNESS
 
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darknessintruth

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i understand EXACTLY how you feel im in the same situation except im looking for a gf
 
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DreaMtz123

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WAIT IN THE LORD!! HE IS PREPARING THE PERSON YU NEED AND HE IS PREPARING YU FOR HIM!! <3 TRUE LOVE DOES EXIST!!
DONT RUSH IT USE YUR SINGLENESS AS A BLESSING! GIVE IT TO GOD AS A GIFT!USE YUR OWN TIME WISELY! AND YOU WILL SEE TRUE LOVE WILL COME WHEN LESS EXPECTED :D
 

robbieal1

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hey what up want to i am 31worj atwalmart redroy yahoomesager if you would like a chat
 
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beta7

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hi,
dont be frustrated. you are not the only person with those concerns. God cares about your situation and i know that if you wait upon Him, He will provide you with someone truly wonderful. if you choose to step outside of His will for you, you will be miserable. hope God gives you the desire of your heart soon. take care and God bless
 
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hi,
dont be frustrated. you are not the only person with those concerns. God cares about your situation and i know that if you wait upon Him, He will provide you with someone truly wonderful. if you choose to step outside of His will for you, you will be miserable. hope God gives you the desire of your heart soon. take care and God bless
I second that :)
 
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KingdomHeart

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Many suffer this issue angela so just know you are not alone. I have read the bible and noticed that there weren't many functional marriages in the bible. Even the song of solomon though it is poetic and full of romance King Solomon had i think 300 wives and 400 concubines. Look at the life of Samson where he shared his heart with the wrong woman and he lost everything over it even his connection to God and had a tragic ending. Look at King David who had several wives and still committed adultry and murder. Look at Jacob and his two wives there was always on going conflict in his life in his marriages. Look at Abraham and Sarah...and in the new testiment even Jesus explained about marriage and divorce. We live in a fallen world and when men and women depart from righteousness tragic things happen. You have to understand as well what cultures teach people from a young age. Also what pain and disfunction were they exposed to growing up and had a neggative impact on their way of thinking. Then all it takes even if they had a good upbringing is one painful experiance in dating and it could scar them for a long time and many dont take the time to detox their mind and heal from it. Some dont want to heal while others dont know that they need to heal while some want to heal but dont know how. The best thing I can suggest to you is get close to God and lean on him for he will direct your path and claim favor on your life. Clean out your heart and mind and fill it with God's way of thinking and surround yourself with people who arent afraid to be honest with you and up lift you and ask God to bring the right person in your life. That is the best I can offer you. I hope that helps. Don't forget to forgive because bitterness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person who hurt you to die.... When you forgive you gain control of your life again and the ones who hurt you loses control. You will be able to make healthier choices for a better future!
 
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ChristianNerd

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AH! I know how you feel this is something I struggle with a lot. Don't worry about it! God has a wonderful plan for your life and it may not envolve a boyfriend it just might not be ment to be for you. The happiest place that you will be in your life is in GOD'S will. Just fallow, serve, and love HIM with all of your heart. He will lead you to places you've never dreamed of. Don't worry about earthly men they just fade away if they are not who God has chosen for you.

Here's a cool exercise for you to do. : )

OK. First you make a list of all of the qualities that you want in a guy.
Pray about your list to God and just give it all up to Him.
Pray for your list guy's future wife. She may be you.
Pray that you are his future wife. : )
Now, LET. IT. GO. God's got your back. He knows what you want and like I said before has a FABULOUS plan for you. : ) He will take care of this if you just do one simple thing and TRUST HIM!!!! : )

I will be praying for you girl!!!!
 
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Hello there

Chin up and just enjoy life...i too am single 21 and have had 1 relationship but ended it because she wanted sex on 1st date...I told her no way!! ahaahaa...sex s a gift from god!
Well done Jonnoboy..

Stay strong