But if you want something from the bible there is Prov 25:2 "It is the glory of God to conceal a matter,
But the glory of kings is to search out a matter." and I Cor7:32-34 "But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife,
34and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
(which I know some people would argue that this verse is just a SUGGESTION from Paul but it still helps me).