MattforJesus,
The worst part to me is not just that they do it, that they can't recognize that it is all about them gratifying their own personal desires, but they are mad that others won't do it. And they want to force others to agree and to participate. It is like Sodom, it is not enough to do it themselves, they will never feel comfortable unless they believe that they are inside of other's brains, forcing them to do as they want. No matter how much they want it, things are the way they are. The Bible is right, always has been always will be. Go against it and you are just dashing yourself against the rock. They will never be satisfied, they will never feel peace, and it is not because they are determined that the world follow God and do what's right, its because they can't make the world follow them and gratify their own personal desires. Base desires, like pride.
I go back to the beginning for me. I don't have the desire to speak in church. Why is that? If they said that the "rump" needs to be quiet in church, I don't mind. Who wants the responsibility of saying the right stuff all the time anyway? It is a dangerous burden. The Bible tells me to take my hat off. I don't mind. It feels respectful. I guess the feminists here will never get it. Maybe their minds cannot handle it, the curse is too strong for the weak vessels.