This is confusing to me.
In the parable of the man who was forgiven his debt, it was AFTERWARDS that he ran into trouble.
It seems to me like you're saying...all that Jesus said before He died and rose again can be disregarded...
In the parable, his debt was forgiven. No mention is made of him having to forgive anyone first in order for his debt to be forgiven. The problem came for him AFTERWARDS, when he refused to forgive as he had been forgiven.
Mat 6:9 After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.
Mat 6:10 Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.
Mat 6:11 Give us this day our daily bread.
Mat 6:12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
Mat 6:13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.
Mat 6:14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
Mat 6:15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Jesus came to preach the kingdom of God,the New Testament,and this prayer applies to the manner they should pray in the New Testament,and if we do not forgive people of their trespasses against us,then we will not receive forgiveness,which God said,be ye holy,as I am holy,and Jesus said,be ye perfect,as your heavenly Father is perfect,and He forgives sins,so we forgive sins,and if we do not then we do not show the character of the Father.
Judge not lest you be not judged,is another example,for if you judge in a condemning manner,when you are a sinner yourself,and it is God that saved you,then that judgment will come back on you,and you will not be forgiven of your sin.
If you judge someone in a codemning manner for stealing,and you stole,then you will not be forgiven for stealing.
Mat 18:21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
Mat 18:22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
Mat 18:29 And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
Mat 18:30 And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt.
Mat 18:31 So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done.
Mat 18:32 Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me:
Mat 18:33 Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee?
Mat 18:34 And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him.
Mat 18:35 So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.
That is true,he was forgiven,but he did not forgive,and paid the price,so we must forgive if we have a grudge towards anybody,before we can be forgiven.
Mat 4:23 And Jesus went about all Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, and preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing all manner of sickness and all manner of disease among the people.
Jesus was preaching the ways of the kingdom of God that applies to the New Testament,but they want to say He is talking Old Testament to hang on to their beliefs,which is wrong.
Mar 11:22 And Jesus answering saith unto them, Have faith in God.
Mar 11:23 For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.
Mar 11:24 Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.
Mar 11:25 And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.
Mar 11:26 But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.
Talking what applies to the New Testament.That is silly that Jesus would address them according to the Old Testament,when He came to preach the New Testament,and the kingdom of God.It does not matter if the New Covenant did not go in effect yet,Jesus was preaching the Gospel,and the kingdom of God,and things that apply to the New Testament.
Luk 6:35 But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
Luk 6:36 Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.
Luk 6:37 Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:
Luk 6:38 Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.
Again Jesus is speaking what applies to the New Testament.
If you do not forgive then you will not be forgiven,and that is a New Testament principle.