Infidelity

[Beebecky]

Thanks everyone for your advice, please dont be offended by any comments here, I am sure everyone is trying to help. Relationship is a very strong and broad area of discussion and so everyone with different opinion but I can tell you guys that I have picked one or two things from here which will definitely help me through this difficult time. And reading all your comments alone gives me some sort of joy knowing that there are people out there who cares at least to some extent... so thank you all so much and please do not be offended by any comments here, thanks and God bless

 

[Beebecky]

Maybe it's me, but I would record what he says about her (nanny cam or just push record on your phone) and then send it to the older woman.

Then separate/ fill for divorce. Maybe hire a private investigator to document infidelity and get all rights to the kids and the house.

Trust is very important for marriage to work and you know he is lying and just stringing both you and the older woman along.

Why would a man trash talk his wife to his mistress, yet still stay with her?

Anyway I would leave not because of emotion, but because you deserve respect and love as a child of God.

Adultery is grounds for divorce according to the Bible.

I dont understand why he does that, everyone around him believes Im a bad woman... he is very good at talking and he can tell you how u can live ur life appropriately so people tend to believe him but he def not d person he portrays himself to be and only a few people know that fact about him...

 

[Steveforhelp]

My wife has passed away and I don't know what to do. Is it ok for me to masturbate with other straight guys if I don't touch his erection or sperm for relief I want to stay good with my marriage commitment so when we meet again I can say I didn't cheat on her. How about just hanging nude but no masturbating. A little confused.

 

[wwjd_kilden]

Tbat's not confusion, that's trolling.

Even a non- Christian would consider watching someone play with themselves very close to sex itself.

 

[Steveforhelp]

Trying to get a biblical point of view not be called names so what do I do date and have sex with women or just masturbate in the shower alone

 

[Susanna]

Trying to get a biblical point of view not be called names so what do I do date and have sex with women or just masturbate in the shower alone

It's rather, shall we say, out of line, to register on a forum, raising a question like this instantly, don't you think, Sir?

 

[tourist]

My wife has passed away and I don't know what to do. Is it ok for me to masturbate with other straight guys if I don't touch his erection or sperm for relief I want to stay good with my marriage commitment so when we meet again I can say I didn't cheat on her. How about just hanging nude but no masturbating. A little confused.

For starters this is someone else's thread that you are posting on and you should create your own. When your wife died the marriage commitment ended. What you are contemplating is not appropriate for discussion on a Christian site. You're not confused but are suffering from a sick mind. Perhaps you can pose your question on another site and stop trolling this site.

 

[Steveforhelp]

Very close but not sex?

 

[tourist]

Trying to get a biblical point of view not be called names so what do I do date and have sex with women or just masturbate in the shower alone

Better yet, just take a cold shower period. Seriously, you're not interested in biblical points of view. You need to get right with God.

 

[Steveforhelp]

Your quite the understanding Christian I will do my own just went on here today

 

[BillG]

My wife has passed away and I don't know what to do. Is it ok for me to masturbate with other straight guys if I don't touch his erection or sperm for relief I want to stay good with my marriage commitment so when we meet again I can say I didn't cheat on her. How about just hanging nude but no masturbating. A little confused.

If you truly knew Jesus you wouldn't be asking this question.

if as you say your wife has died then say is it ok to masturbate with other straight guys so I want to stay good with my marriage commitment so when we meet again I didn't cheat on her.

If you don't believe Jesus you won't meet her again, assuming she exists, even if she exists she will not be your wife anyway if you are both in heaven.

I will be honest with you and ask the following.

Have you ever been married?
Are you homosexual?
Do you suffer with mental health issues?
Are you here to trip us up?
Do you really want help and to be like Jesus?

If you can answer the last question as yes, then maybe people here will trust you and give Godly advice.

 

[Lynn68]

Steveforhelp, I pray that your heart and mind are opened to what Jesus wants for you.

 

[oldethennew]

steve,

you've SO EXPOSED' yourself,..