Steveforhelp, if you are serious, you are letting your flesh lead you astray. To help your spirit win the battle, as soon as you start thinking of sex, go to your bible and start reading. I suggest you read Isaiah 52:13-14 and Psalms 22:12-17 now, and see what Christ knew he was getting into to save our otherwise worthless souls. If He could suffer that. then you need to be willing to suffer the lack of sex to tell Him that you care about Him and what he went through for us. Nothing worthwhile comes easy, except for God's love, and even that requires a little effort.