I know that everyone is unique...
I said that, because is easier to find a fish in the sea, than to find a fish in the desert... Get what I am saying?
It is not that all US people (note: I am american too...) are individualistic, but the massive majority is, so searching there would give too much results of individualistic people, the same applies here, obviously there are non-individualistic people, but most are, thus searching a place where people commonly have the traits I am seeking, will get easier results...
That said, I am not ruling out anyone, if for some reason, a great US women catch my heart, I would consider, and maybe even move to her location if I find it reasonably suitable.
Sometimes, I think that I found no girl yet (I don't even kissed yet), because my standards are high, and they are high, because I learned how to be a godly an from my parents, and grandparents, and so on... There are no divorces in my ascendancy, and everyone had a ministry at least once (even myself). Yet, I decided to research more the bible, and found even more higher moral standards to follow, standards that I see few people willing to.
Yahweh says, that he did not came to bring "peace on earth", he came to divide, the good, and the bad, if needed, family against each other, because he want people that truly follow him, not people that attempt to use him (Mathew 10 for reference), and this is some that I don't found locally a women that understand, I see women praying for a godly men, yet when they see stuff like "submit to your husband", they say that "god will" is the best for them, and that today submitting is not best. They are not understanding that Yahweh will, is to us follow his lead.
Likewise, I DO agree, that there are also a lack of truly godly men, those that think that they should take the order to lead their wives, and use their wives as mere toys, leading to marriage problems, or they don't lead at all (that is actually, worse, and much more common today). But, Yahweh also said, that although women, are to submit to their husbands, they are to protect and love their women, like Christ lead, protect and love man (I men specifically human male here), sacrificing his own life if needed.
But in a individualistic society, we will never see that, we actually see the opposite, if a men leave his car first, and open the door for his beloved, he is "machist", few people understand that even those "gentlemen" behavior has a reason: Leaving the car first, he is vulnerable, and if paying attention, would only open the door after he is sure that it is safe.
I don't seek only a women that will submit to whatever I want, I seek someone that I will love, protect, teach, care, love, and that someone would help me, and as one, we would build a House, and leave a legacy, leave the world in our old age, knowing that we worked for Yahweh, and that those that will come after us, will have an example of how to be godly men and women, like my great-grandparents are to me.
