Your husband has a mind of his own,
He sounds like a pretty steady provider for you.
Be thankful for what you have.
You need to grow up.
With all due respect, chatter23, this was a very insensitive comment...(did you intend it to be encouraging, or did you intend to it to be an attack?)
Clearly, Raven1021 has been extremely devoted and committed to her marriage and to being a Godly wife despite having a husband who seems to have difficulty knowing how to love. Raven I'll pray for you, for true encouragement, for peace with however God calls you to respond to your husband.
I'll also pray for chatter23, that if you intended to encourage that Raven can forgive you and God can give you more wisdom with your words next time. If you intended it as an attack, then may the Lord soften your heart and heal whatever wound caused you to react that way.