sex before marriage?

[Lyndies]

You should definitely wait 4 marriage! Not only because its what the Lord wants 4 us, but having premarital sex, knowing its wrong, eats you up with guilt! I, unfortunately made that mistake when I was 18 yrs. old. Even though I know that God forgave me, I still have 2 live with that guilt!

You don't have to feel guilty, though! God has forgiven you and in Him their is no condemnation, shame, or guilt. :]

 

[Miss_Dodge08]

It says in the bible to Flee for sexual immorality.. It is clearly againg premarital sex

 

[henrita]

sex before marriage is not biblical....sex after mariage is wonderful and is accepted well in the sight of GOD...

 

[Arial619]

I say No...this is something I have struggled with in my relationship because the man I am with is also the father of my child and we got together when I had backslided and began going after worldly ways again...but when I rededicated my life to the LORD it really got hard for me because I didn't want to continue sining against God and I wanted to do what was right, I've been having faith that we will get married, but it is hard because he dosnet understand and I know the truth of God Word.


it is better to wait until marriage....

 

[imoss]

Bless your heart Arial!!! The Lord strengthen your flesh that you can withstand the pressure. You have a family together, he needs to step up & make that a true family if he wants the bonus' associated with marriage. I think this is so important although this is coming from someone who lived in sin as a Christian for 5 years before we got married. In doing that I ripped myself off. Now people ask how long we've been married... well 15 years but we have 20 years together which is an accomplishment in this day & age. I justified living in sin by saying we were absolutely dedicated to one another. all that was was justifying but what we were doing was not pleasing the Lord.

I will pray for you & your baby. I pray for you to have wisdom & discernment and to listen to the Holy Spirit when you feel convicted about something. Bless your heart & grow in grace!

 

[Peacefulcrusader]

Sex before marriage? No! The idea of biblical marriage is that physical/sexual union sements the marriage. This in turn is a clear message to Christians that they should honor the commandments of God enough to wait with sex until the marriage has been witnessed by others. If you were the only two persons around - maybe stranded on a desolate island - you could have God as your witness (like Adam and Eve), but if it's possible, we should adhere to the simple custom of having witnesses to a marriage wov.
In Christ, Magnus

 

[yahweh_is4me]

I agree sex before marriage is nothing but a curse. You can hold up your blessing for such sin.

I could not agree with more ... It ruins the relationship...

 

[Stand_Up_4_God]

You know, I just ended a relationship, engagement really, because the guy kept on about pre-marital sex. He lied to me, treated me bad, etc. all of a sudden as well. Then I found out he cheated on me. The worst lie he told me, was that he's dieing from something, that can't kill you. that crushed me. I'm over it though, his loss. He couldn't be honest, and real, or wait then go on. Honestly, I'm not sure he was saved cause he didn't live like he was. At first, I was sure he was, but people change, and the real side of them comes out. Sad but true. It's way more than worth the wait, remain strong in the Lord. God bless.

 

[NodMyHeadLikeYeah]

Sex before marriage is wrong, and i personally believe even looking at your future mate before marriage is wrong.

 

[NightOwl]

Sex before marriage is wrong, and i personally believe even looking at your future mate before marriage is wrong.

Which is why it's probably a good idea to give your mate a heads up on what to expect since they're gonna be stuck with you 'til one of you dies.

 

[imoss]

A beautiful excuse I've heard many many times to justify sin. Not that i'm without my own history in this... shamefully so.

 

[NodMyHeadLikeYeah]

Which is why it's probably a good idea to give your mate a heads up on what to expect since they're gonna be stuck with you 'til one of you dies.

He would die before i would. Men always are the first ones to go

 

[HamishNZ]

I said NO, even though I have had sex and I am not married. It is one of the biggest mistakes of my life even though I had been going out with the girl for over 2 and a half years and was sure we would marry. God has forgiven me but I have been single for 3 years since and had a lot of time to think about it and grow in maturity both mentally and spiritually. It will be a huge hurdle in my next relationship, not the subject of sex, but the fact that I have been intermit and had sex with another woman.

I am thankful that I have been able to help some of my Christian friends with the issue because I have the experience. My experience has also made me far stronger and the ability to see where I stumbled and the situations I need to avoid in the future is invaluable.

 

[Chris79]

Is it okay for 2 Saints male and female who love each other to engage in Sex before marriage??

Lets look at the dont's , please turn your Bibles to Leviticus chapter 18
18:6 "'None of you shall approach anyone who are his close relatives, to uncover their nakedness: I am Yahweh.
18:7 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father, nor the nakedness of your mother: she is your mother. You shall not uncover her nakedness.
18:8 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's wife: it is your father's nakedness
18:9 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of your sister, the daughter of your father, or the daughter of your mother, whether born at home, or born abroad.
18:10 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of your son's daughter, or of your daughter's daughter, even their nakedness: for theirs is your own nakedness.
18:11 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's wife's daughter, conceived by your father, since she is your sister. "'
18:12 You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's sister: she is your father's near kinswoman.
18:13 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of your mother's sister: for she is your mother's near kinswoman.
18:14 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's brother, you shall not approach his wife: she is your aunt.
18:15 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of your daughter-in-law: she is your son's wife. You shall not uncover her nakedness.
18:16 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of your brother's wife: it is your brother's nakedness.
18:17 "'You shall not uncover the nakedness of a woman and her daughter. You shall not take her son's daughter, or her daughter's daughter, to uncover her nakedness; they are near kinswomen: it is wickedness.
18:18 "'You shall not take a wife to her sister, to be a rival, to uncover her nakedness, while her sister is yet alive.
18:19 "'You shall not approach a woman to uncover her nakedness, as long as she is impure by her uncleanness
18:20 "'You shall not lie carnally with your neighbor's wife, and defile yourself with her.
18:21 "'You shall not give any of your children to sacrifice to Molech; neither shall you profane the name of your God: I am Yahweh.
18:22 "'You shall not lie with a man, as with a woman. That is detestible.
18:23 "'You shall not lie with any animal to defile yourself with it; neither shall any woman give herself to an animal, to lie down with it: it is a perversion.

The punishments for the above offenses are found in chapter 20 of Leviticus

So what about 2 saints who love God and love each other?? Surely The Lord of Hosts Mighty Yahweh would not leave that out...............and he didnt, he clearly stated in the Torah what he wants to see happen if 2 saints have sex ..forget people's opinions about outside of marriage sex is wrong ....HOw about we go straight to the source and read

Exodus 22:16 If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife. 17 If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he must still pay the bride-price for virgins.

Almighty Yahweh says if your going to have pre marital sex then you need to get married ,

then look at the very next verse......Almighty Yahweh says...look how quickly he gets serious after giving some sex and marriage advice

Exodus 22:18 "Do not allow a sorceress to live.

Some of you probably believe Fornication is pre marital sex ...NOPE.....it everything in Leviticus 18 and prostitution (Sex for money) ..when prostituting you do not love the person for their mind and soul but only for their body....I would strongly advise people to do an in depth research on what Fornication really is ......Jesus did not come to abolish the law but to fulfill it ....Fornication = illicit sex stated above.....pre marital sex between 2 saints is NOT FORNICATION nor is it ILLICIT SEX......

Here is another 1 , absolutely nowhere in the Bible will you find that masterbation is a sin, once again read Exodus and Leviticus....when Yahshua (Jesus) talks about Lust, what does that really mean??? you cant fantasize about another Single of the opposite sex?? Of course not ......Once again Please and i say Please do a in depth study on Lust. I have no idea why people feel that Yahshua came and put new laws in place when he himself ssaid that he did not come to abolish the law but to fulfill it ....the Hebrew Bible was written with 11,900 words ..translated to english only uses 6000, do you realize how many words and phrases loose their true meaning??

I close it off with this, the 1st 5 books of the Bible the Torah is considered the Law and Final....and this Law Jesus came to fulfill , nowhwere in the Torah does it say that pre marital sex or masterbation is a Sin, Yahweh commands to 2 saints having sex to get married Exodus 22:16...now I personally challenge you to do your own research and find out what Fornication really is and ill give you a hint , it is not pre marital sex as stated in dictionary.com but just about everything else is if not between man and woman . Good bye and God Bless everyone who reads and believes the exact scriptures I posted in this messsage

 

[Chris79]

Also, you will not find ANYWHERE in the Bible that states Oral sex is a sin whether for 2 saints in pre marital sex that are going to get married or a man and woman who are married .........on the contrary the New Testament encourages married couples to please each other in every way and not to hold back.

 

[redeemed7]

Sex before marriage is wrong, and i personally believe even looking at your future mate before marriage is wrong.

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[GlorifyGod]

Why don't we step back a minute and think about this in another way. Define "marriage"! What does the Bible say that marriage is? Something to think about.

 

[NightOwl]

Is it okay for 2 Saints male and female who love each other to engage in Sex before marriage??...

...Some of you probably believe Fornication is pre marital sex ...NOPE.....it everything in Leviticus 18 and prostitution (Sex for money) ..when prostituting you do not love the person for their mind and soul but only for their body....I would strongly advise people to do an in depth research on what Fornication really is ......Jesus did not come to abolish the law but to fulfill it ....Fornication = illicit sex stated above.....pre marital sex between 2 saints is NOT FORNICATION nor is it ILLICIT SEX......

1 Corinthians 6:9-10;
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate (homosexuals), nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

Definition of the word fornication can be found here.
Fornication | Define Fornication at Dictionary.com

 

[Chattingovercoffee43wv]

This polls quite vague...
all it says is" sex b4 marriage"
Whats the question?
Is the question:
- Have you had sex before marriage?
- Will you have sex before marriage?
- Do you agree with sex before marriage?
Oviously any God fearing christian will say No to sex before marraige.

 

[NodMyHeadLikeYeah]

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HAHAHAHA YES!!!!! that is awesome!