Has anyone met the person they think they are going to marry?
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I have indeed met the girl I'm doing to marry, but I can't be with her right now.
I can't be with her because...
she has a concealed carry permit, and she keeps saying something about getting away from her, and how she'd like to toss me into the air like a clay pigeon.
It's so cute when girls play hard to get.
I can't be with her because...
she has a concealed carry permit, and she keeps saying something about getting away from her, and how she'd like to toss me into the air like a clay pigeon.
It's so cute when girls play hard to get.
YES! I know I've met the man! Right now we're very far apart but God wants us growing together in Him and preparing us for the marriage and the ministry He has planned for us. He's building our future on the solid foundation of His love. As Christians He brought our paths together and made us accountable to each other. We spend every minute we can talking on the phone. We pray together and have devotions every morning and pray every night before we hang up! We allow Him to lead our relationship because we both want to walk in His will. It's hard sometimes to be patient, but He continues to grow us so we will be strong together!
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joefizz
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Well I've met plenty of girls in my life but most I never dated simply because I wanted to get through school,or particularly I never could open my mouth to tell a girl I liked her,or waited too long to say something to a girl I thought I liked and they were already engaged or married,or dating,I may have found who I want to marry in the future but I can't be for sure,I've had many a crush on girls,but this time I feel "different" than with the other women in my life,like for example they aren't a friend I met in school,and I'm not interested in this female for good looks as with other crushes.
I haven't seen a sign from God that she might be the eventual wife to me,but I am rapidly losing the will to even look at other females or even think of them which has never happened before,and my mind is focused on more of talking to her truly liking what she has to say,we haven't met in person but,I just feel like staying from the other women in my life until I can possibly meet her,like I even am about to go to a church barbecue with girls around their teen years and even though I promised a pastor I'd go,I am dreading it,because I get the feeling a girl may ask me out there,and I don't want to hurt anyone's feeling but I can only see my answer as being "no" because of the female I enjoy talking with,I don't know why but I somehow am just dedicated to waiting to meet and date her even though I know that would be years later into the future,I just like her that much I guess,maybe I'm crazy,but for once in my life I can't see me even dating anyone else,that's just the question though isn't it!?
When do you truly "know" that you've found the person you love so much that you would consider marrying them?
Love is tough....
I haven't seen a sign from God that she might be the eventual wife to me,but I am rapidly losing the will to even look at other females or even think of them which has never happened before,and my mind is focused on more of talking to her truly liking what she has to say,we haven't met in person but,I just feel like staying from the other women in my life until I can possibly meet her,like I even am about to go to a church barbecue with girls around their teen years and even though I promised a pastor I'd go,I am dreading it,because I get the feeling a girl may ask me out there,and I don't want to hurt anyone's feeling but I can only see my answer as being "no" because of the female I enjoy talking with,I don't know why but I somehow am just dedicated to waiting to meet and date her even though I know that would be years later into the future,I just like her that much I guess,maybe I'm crazy,but for once in my life I can't see me even dating anyone else,that's just the question though isn't it!?
When do you truly "know" that you've found the person you love so much that you would consider marrying them?
Love is tough....
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YES! I know I've met the man! Right now we're very far apart but God wants us growing together in Him and preparing us for the marriage and the ministry He has planned for us. He's building our future on the solid foundation of His love. As Christians He brought our paths together and made us accountable to each other. We spend every minute we can talking on the phone. We pray together and have devotions every morning and pray every night before we hang up! We allow Him to lead our relationship because we both want to walk in His will. It's hard sometimes to be patient but will be well worth the wait.
"I got in town a month ago
I've seen a lot of girls since then
If I could meet 'em, I could get 'em
As yet I haven't met 'em
That's how I'm in the state I'm in"
- from "Another Saturday Night" by Sam Cooke
But no, I haven't met her yet. Probably because of my apathy, I just haven't been looking for her. Too many other things to do y'know.
I've seen a lot of girls since then
If I could meet 'em, I could get 'em
As yet I haven't met 'em
That's how I'm in the state I'm in"
- from "Another Saturday Night" by Sam Cooke
But no, I haven't met her yet. Probably because of my apathy, I just haven't been looking for her. Too many other things to do y'know.
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Hellooo
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Have I met the person I think I will marry?
Too early to say with absolute certainty. But. This feels very different to me and very real and we're both upfront on looking for marriage. I'm optimistic.
Too early to say with absolute certainty. But. This feels very different to me and very real and we're both upfront on looking for marriage. I'm optimistic.
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Tinuviel
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I haven't i dont think but the Trackstarz on YouTube they have a couple people like that and they talk about it i think the video is "finding the one" and another video is came up in "no kissing before marriage" so hopefully those can help you God bless.
You make me smile man. Take a deep breath. For me at least, because the voice in my head ran out of breath when reading that.
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