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longtrekker

longtrekker

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Hi Roxxy

Glad ta see u back!

Some of us here at CC were gonna give it another week then send a search party for ya.

Sorry for the tough times you’ve been going thru.
 
roxxyroller

roxxyroller

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longtrekker said:
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Hi Roxxy

Glad ta see u back!

Some of us here at CC were gonna give it another week then send a search party for ya.

Sorry for the tough times you’ve been going thru.
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Hahaha! Thanks bunches for the chuckle, trekker! Thank you also for your kind words and compassion! They mean a lot!!
:)
 
JesusLives

JesusLives

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Ugly said:
Sounds to me like you are in a path of rebellion and self destruction.
You're still married, technically, yet already dating. Non-Christian men at that. Which, what purpose could that serve you? Divorce requires healing. Even if the divorce is for your benefit it still requires healing. And healing doesn't happen before the divorce is finalized. It can take a few years.
If I had to Guess I'd say you're angry, possibly resentful towards God, and engaging in behavior to piss Him off. At the same time keeping so busy you don't have time to sit down and deal with things, but hide from them.
Your life, by the choices you're making, strikes me as a chaotic whirlwind that you keep going.
Advice? Stop running. Stop rebelling. Stop the chaos. Settle down, focus, deal, confront and that will bring healing and peace and resolve the resentment.
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She has had a rough year so please go a little easy. Chasing off someone who is coming home and trying to get her feet on solid ground again is not the way to go this time ugly. God is wooing her back.
 
JesusLives

JesusLives

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preacher4truth said:
No one is trying to make you feel like a heel, and by your initial post you haven't exactly helped your cause to defend yourself from scrutiny.

This is a Christian site, which means some of us have a Biblical stance, some of us walk with God, some of us believe in Scripture and its stance and expectations that those who are saved are sanctified, Hebrews 12:14 which without this it would mean the person has a false profession. Some of us then react biblically to your situation.

You should have expected a biblical response on a biblical forum. This type of response is not judging, as you have misused Matthew 7 as a cloak for your behavior, as if no one can say anything about it, or "they're judging!!" That is not the point of the text and doesn't fit into the balance of Scripture on this issue, 2 Timothy 2:15.

My prayer is you get your walk right with God. What you're doing is not virtuous and isn't representing Christ at all. Your need is Him above all else. You've come to the right place if you'd have ears to hear. Or, you can seek to have your ears scratched.
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Have you ever made a mistake? Did it feel good to have the Bible thrown at you for your wrongs the minute you stepped in front of them? Did you feel like you should change your ways as soon as they informed you?

How about you give my friend a little time to catch her breath after loosing a close family member to death and then experiencing another sort of death going through a divorce. I have made mistakes God forgave mine and God will forgive hers as God forgave your mistakes including this one.
 
JesusLives

JesusLives

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roxxyroller said:
It mostly was in regards to "help! I'm an idiot" .. but as usual .. ppl choose to make u look like a complete ass to try and play themselves as being perfect.
Ya know what? The past few months I have cried endlessly .. and talked myself out of my many suicidal thoughts. The best place I should be I thought, was here on CC. Wow was I stupid for even thinking such a thing! If I had known that by coming back here I would be put down by so many other "so called Christians" .. this is the last place I would have came. But why not? I was just abused by my husband for the last 11 years .. so whats are few more by you perfect men?
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Roxy put them on ignore and continue to listen to God. There are plenty of us who know your heart is in the right place and continue to allow God to bring you back. Haters gonna hate so put them on ignore.
 
roxxyroller

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JesusLives said:
Roxy put them on ignore and continue to listen to God. There are plenty of us who know your heart is in the right place and continue to allow God to bring you back. Haters gonna hate so put them on ignore.
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That is why I love you so much. Your heart is so overflowing with love and kindness for others, the way Jesus wants us all to be. XoxoxoxoXo
 
blue_ladybug

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This thread saddens me. It was a fun, lighthearted welcome back thread until 2 specific people ruined it by attacking Roxy and making her feel like a fool for wanting to return here.. :/

Roxy, I am sorry, truly sorry that you returned to the same turmoil here, that you experienced last time. I remember THAT very well..

Your only mistake in coming back here was choosing THIS forum to make your welcome back thread in. It was THIS forum, that condemned and chased you off last time. :/ My advice is, avoid THIS forum AND the BDF entirely. Those two forums are notorious for scaring people off this site. :mad:

The ignore button works wonders. Stick Ugly and Preacher on ignore and be done with them.
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Hey I'm on this forum, so there has to be SOME good in it...

(No I'm not saying my presence makes it good - just that I wouldn't stick around if there wasn't some good to be found.) :cool:

Come to think of it, yeah. I like the sound of the first one better. Yes this forum is still good because I'M here. :D
 
mailmandan

mailmandan

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Welcome back Roxxy! :)

 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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I always thought this forum was pretty ok.. and I'm here a heck of a lot more than the Blue_Lady :rolleyes: The debbie downers usually don't pick on welcome threads, but since u mentioned dating and divorce together in the same post, the fangs came out. :(

I think you'll find this forum is still friendly and maybe even a bit boring... but its still the nicest subforum on CC. :)
 
blue_ladybug

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For the most part, I avoid this forum like the plague..

zeroturbulence said:
I always thought this forum was pretty ok.. and I'm here a heck of a lot more than the Blue_Lady :rolleyes: The debbie downers usually don't pick on welcome threads, but since u mentioned dating and divorce together in the same post, the fangs came out. :(

I think you'll find this forum is still friendly and maybe even a bit boring... but its still the nicest subforum on CC. :)
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zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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By the way, Roxxy...I'm not saying it was in any way your fault.. :rolleyes: Just realized that it might be interpreted that way.
 
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Hi I am new here :)............need to figure out how to put up my pic..........anyway, my name is Sigrid and wishing you all a blessed day.
 
tourist

tourist

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siggy said:
Hi I am new here :)............need to figure out how to put up my pic..........anyway, my name is Sigrid and wishing you all a blessed day.
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Always good to have a new member. Glad to have you join us. Welcome to CC.
 
MichaelOwen

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God is the ultimate judge, don't take man's word, for it is fallible. You are a young beautiful woman and you're going through a tough storm right now, but remember, God got Noah and his family through the flood, Lot and his family out of Sodom and Gommorah, and Daniel out of the lions den, he will definitely do the same for you if you hold to his unchanging hand. Much love your way
 
roxxyroller

roxxyroller

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blue_ladybug said:
This thread saddens me. It was a fun, lighthearted welcome back thread until 2 specific people ruined it by attacking Roxy and making her feel like a fool for wanting to return here.. :/

Roxy, I am sorry, truly sorry that you returned to the same turmoil here, that you experienced last time. I remember THAT very well..

Your only mistake in coming back here was choosing THIS forum to make your welcome back thread in. It was THIS forum, that condemned and chased you off last time. :/ My advice is, avoid THIS forum AND the BDF entirely. Those two forums are notorious for scaring people off this site. :mad:

The ignore button works wonders. Stick Ugly and Preacher on ignore and be done with them.
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I've always loved you so much, too, blue_ladybug. And you're always so kind and loving, too! Thank you soooooo much! It's ppl like you, Blondie, Ellie, and so many more that make me wanna stay! xoxoxoxooxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
 
NotmebutHim

NotmebutHim

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It is ALWAYS good (and commanded of us) to stand for Biblical truth, but sometimes it's better to PM a person who is in error rather than calling him or her out on a public forum. Of course, it depends on how that person introduces his/her situation.

In the OP's case, I think she should have been "taken aside" so to speak, and advised on how she should seek the Lord's direction and correction.

It is the same Jesus who told the adulterous woman to "neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more" and who drove the moneychangers out of the temple with a whip of cords. He knew exactly how to respond to each situation He placed Himself in.

In any case, welcome back Roxy! Not sure if you were here when I first joined 2 1/2 years ago.....:D
 
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