sex before marriage?

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PARADOX_1 said:
im not gnna burn..but i aint got the doe to get married.

nd she koo, i wouldnt mind if ther were a few adjustments..like her not being a christian..
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If it really bothers you that she is not a Christian then you should talk to
her about it and ask God to help you stop having sex so you can find out what she means to you on a differnt level. I'll be praying for you brother.
 
Kelseybear said:
If it really bothers you that she is not a Christian then you should talk to
her about it and ask God to help you stop having sex so you can find out what she means to you on a differnt level. I'll be praying for you brother.
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we talked today nd she agreed itd b best to stop..out of no wher her whole atitude is kinda changing..trippy..

thank u, im glad i joined this site, feels good to kno that im not alone in christ.
 
PARADOX_1 said:
we talked today nd she agreed itd b best to stop..out of no wher her whole atitude is kinda changing..trippy..

thank u, im glad i joined this site, feels good to kno that im not alone in christ.
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Glad you talked it over.I know how sex can be misleading on the feelings
God led you to this site for a reason.just keep talking to her and if you are worried
go on group dates and try to not be alone. God bless you my brother
 
And that includes cyber sex. Cause that is sin too. I can not believe how many people out there call themselves christians and take part in cyber sex,it shows a total lack of respest for the person you do it with as well as your self.Who here has sex on the first date? If any better get your lives right with God and now before it is too late.
 
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starshine1957 said:
And that includes cyber sex. Cause that is sin too. I can not believe how many people out there call themselves christians and take part in cyber sex,it shows a total lack of respest for the person you do it with as well as your self.Who here has sex on the first date? If any better get your lives right with God and now before it is too late.
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I agree cyber sex is a sin.I have had sex just not on the 1st date.
I am posting this because it's not just the ones whom have sex on the 1st date it's all who do
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Aww man I struggle with this... I wish so much that I could go back and not engage in any sexual activity b4 I accepted Christ.... I think maybe it would be easier if I never did anything. I completely understand that these desires to have sex are normal and placed in me by God, but its so hard to deny myself from that which my flesh if calling out for.... I accepted Christ when I was 21 and stopped everything cold turkey... smoking, drinking, @ sex... and didn't have any urges for those things for a very long time.. and some how in my own selfishness I slipped and fell... and I backslid for 10 months... and I went crazy and indulged in all types of sin... and since I struggle so much with this flesh of mine. :( Don't get me wrong I haven't had sex in quite a few years.. and I've been in situations where females have been aggressively pushing the issue and have really pushed me to my limits... and the thought "This is wrong Joe!" came to my head.. so I pushed them away... but these urges are such a tough thing to overcome.
 
Grizzly_Bare said:
Aww man I struggle with this... I wish so much that I could go back and not engage in any sexual activity b4 I accepted Christ.... I think maybe it would be easier if I never did anything. I completely understand that these desires to have sex are normal and placed in me by God, but its so hard to deny myself from that which my flesh if calling out for.... I accepted Christ when I was 21 and stopped everything cold turkey... smoking, drinking, @ sex... and didn't have any urges for those things for a very long time.. and some how in my own selfishness I slipped and fell... and I backslid for 10 months... and I went crazy and indulged in all types of sin... and since I struggle so much with this flesh of mine. :( Don't get me wrong I haven't had sex in quite a few years.. and I've been in situations where females have been aggressively pushing the issue and have really pushed me to my limits... and the thought "This is wrong Joe!" came to my head.. so I pushed them away... but these urges are such a tough thing to overcome.
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I'll pray that God holds you to your promise to Him.I know the feeling of being pushed
I am younger then you but I feel this goes for everyone try and keep your self out
of those siuations.
God bless with love your sister
 
You guys, Paris is a person too.

Why do you say she's nasty?

Based on her life choices? her friends? or how "she is"?

Please keep in mind that no one is perfect and not everyone is where they want to be in their life.
 
lightbliss said:
You guys, Paris is a person too.

Why do you say she's nasty?

Based on her life choices? her friends? or how "she is"?

Please keep in mind that no one is perfect and not everyone is where they want to be in their life.
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LoL was ur dog hit in the face with a frying pan?
 
Hey hey hey....just because shes defending Paris doesn't mean you should pick on the poor dog!

I have this great test to see if a girl's a real friend. When we're shopping I'll pick out an outfit that I know looks hot and one that is awful. If my friend says the bad one looks good, I know she's not a good friend. -Paris Hilton
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Originally the Paris Hilton picture was in response to Nod stating the "robe and wizard hat" picture was hot, because Paris is known for saying, "thats hot".


On another note, yes, Paris Hilton is not an example of purity, and should not be looked up to as a role model. This much is correct. Although, lightbliss is correct, in that she should be treated fairly. If you were not born in a Christian family, (I was born in a family, that was not Christian, and my mother dislikes religion, and says the bible was written by men, trying to control their women) and when you decided you would give it a try, and you were met with hatred and hostility, because of your past actions, you probably would not want to be a Christian. Keep that in mind.

Please keep in mind that no one is perfect and not everyone is where they want to be in their life.
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Thank you for pointing that out.
 
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How can you say hand holding is fine but "groping" isnt. that is very arrogant of you. I am knew to all of this but i havwe read the bible... alot and i can tell you that in the bible it says to commit the sin in your heart is the same as the act. that being said if you wish you could but just dont but think about it is the same as just having sex.
 
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