What could he be thinking?

[Tinkerbell725]

Here are some questions women ask about men and male behaviors. (Michael Gurian)

Gentlemen please feel free to answer or ask women what they could be thinking or start another thread about female behavior from your own experience.

Ladies you can ask your own questions about this great mystery.


1. Why does he just leave his laundry lying around?

2. Why does it seem like men are on some kind of quest?

3. Why do men seem to leave their kids behind and start a new family more easily than women after divorce?

4. How can men remember all the pitchers' names and World Series scores, but they can't remember yesterday's conversation?

5. Why is romance such a primal thing for women but not as much so for men?

6. When men get angry, it's difficult to get them to talk about it. Why?

7. Why do men put so much into work?

8. What does honor mean to them?

9. Can men actually be more fragile than women, at least in a lot of ways?

10. Why are men obsessed with getting control of the TV remote?

 

[LaVieEnRose]

Why are men able to love more than one woman at a time, and do they think that makes their love cheap (as it is diminished because it is spread out amongst many women)?

 

[Delightfulsoul]

Why are men able to love more than one woman at a time, and do they think that makes their love cheap (as it is diminished because it is spread out amongst many women)?

Ungodly men u mean

 

[LaVieEnRose]

Ungodly men u mean

Oh, I don’t know. It seems many men are unable to be faithful. Christians and nonChristians, alike. I would like to know why men think it is alright to love more than one woman at one time. They may even think it is fine and dandy if they are not having sex with the women, but emotional affairs without sex can be every bit as divisive as physical affairs (if not more so, in some ways).

 

[Delightfulsoul]

Oh, I don’t know. It seems many men are unable to be faithful. Christians and nonChristians, alike.

People can make mistakes as Christians but a guy who’s serious about Christ won’t feel fine about loving two women simultaneously

 

[toinena]

Why are men able to love more than one woman at a time, and do they think that makes their love cheap (as it is diminished because it is spread out amongst many women)?

I think you are talking about lust here. Not love. Men are lustful creatures if they are not made new in Christ. Some that are made new in Christ seem to have lost the lust all together.

 

[Lynx]

Here are some questions women ask about men and male behaviors. (Michael Gurian)

Gentlemen please feel free to answer or ask women what they could be thinking or start another thread about female behavior from your own experience.

Ladies you can ask your own questions about this great mystery.


1. Why does he just leave his laundry lying around?
I don't. And you'd better not try to wash it. I wash my laundry myself because I know how I want it done.

2. Why does it seem like men are on some kind of quest?
I'm not. Most men I know are not. We are just trying to get through life, just like you.

3. Why do men seem to leave their kids behind and start a new family more easily than women after divorce?
Beats me. I have known many women who walk away from their families. What is odd is that in America we tend to applaud women for their courage in breaking away from traditional molds, but men are roundly excoriated for neglecting their responsibility.

4. How can men remember all the pitchers' names and World Series scores, but they can't remember yesterday's conversation?
I can probably remember yesterday's conversation better than you can, and I don't care about sports.

5. Why is romance such a primal thing for women but not as much so for men?
Try me.

6. When men get angry, it's difficult to get them to talk about it. Why?
Usually that means we are trying to avoid further conflict. We want to talk about it but we think it will not do any good, so we just don't say anything else. This of course can change if the man feels he can talk about the thing that is making him angry and get something done about the problem. It usually comes down to how much a man feels he can trust the person he is talking to about the problem.

7. Why do men put so much into work?
For many men their job is their identity. Men are providers and a job is how they provide. For some men it has more to do with a good work ethic.

8. What does honor mean to them?
An honorable man does what he said he would do and does what is right. Yes it is that simple.

9. Can men actually be more fragile than women, at least in a lot of ways?
In a lot of ways, no. In a few ways, yes. Steal from me or lie to me and it will hurt me a lot. I can't say whether it will hurt me more than it would hurt a woman, but it will hurt me a lot.

10. Why are men obsessed with getting control of the TV remote?
Beats me. You can have the remote. There hasn't been a single show on TV worth watching since Home Improvement started doing reruns.

 

[Delightfulsoul]

Here are some questions women ask about men and male behaviors. (Michael Gurian)

Gentlemen please feel free to answer or ask women what they could be thinking or start another thread about female behavior from your own experience.

Ladies you can ask your own questions about this great mystery.


1. Why does he just leave his laundry lying around?
I don't. And you'd better not try to wash it. I wash my laundry myself because I know how I want it done.

2. Why does it seem like men are on some kind of quest?
I'm not. Most men I know are not. We are just trying to get through life, just like you.

3. Why do men seem to leave their kids behind and start a new family more easily than women after divorce?
Beats me. I have known many women who walk away from their families. What is odd is that in America we tend to applaud women for their courage in breaking away from traditional molds, but men are roundly excoriated for neglecting their responsibility.

4. How can men remember all the pitchers' names and World Series scores, but they can't remember yesterday's conversation?
I can probably remember yesterday's conversation better than you can, and I don't care about sports.

5. Why is romance such a primal thing for women but not as much so for men?
Try me.

6. When men get angry, it's difficult to get them to talk about it. Why?
Usually that means we are trying to avoid further conflict. We want to talk about it but we think it will not do any good, so we just don't say anything else. This of course can change if the man feels he can talk about the thing that is making him angry and get something done about the problem. It usually comes down to how much a man feels he can trust the person he is talking to about the problem.

7. Why do men put so much into work?
For many men their job is their identity. Men are providers and a job is how they provide. For some men it has more to do with a good work ethic.

8. What does honor mean to them?
An honorable man does what he said he would do and does what is right. Yes it is that simple.

9. Can men actually be more fragile than women, at least in a lot of ways?
In a lot of ways, no. In a few ways, yes. Steal from me or lie to me and it will hurt me a lot. I can't say whether it will hurt me more than it would hurt a woman, but it will hurt me a lot.

10. Why are men obsessed with getting control of the TV remote?
Beats me. You can have the remote. There hasn't been a single show on TV worth watching since Home Improvement started doing reruns.

You’re responses were lovely