When you like someone (internet or real life), how do you let them know that you like them?

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When you like someone (internet or real life), how do you let them know that you like them?

I just thought this might be an interesting thread.
 

Lynx

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I've seen some guys trying to talk a girl up, but the way they go in for the kill you would think they are trying to shoot her down.
 

Jewel5712

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Single flower (not rose) with note saying youre thinking bout her...or..im reminded of the movie BECAUSE I SAID SO..he sees mandy moore having a lot of static cling..buys her ice cream..thier first date he came with can of static guard with bow on..something like an inside joke between the 2 of you..personal..
 

Jewel5712

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I like assertiveness in any form :) and not enough men seem to have it these days..sad to say...
 

tourist

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Single flower (not rose) with note saying youre thinking bout her...or..im reminded of the movie BECAUSE I SAID SO..he sees mandy moore having a lot of static cling..buys her ice cream..thier first date he came with can of static guard with bow on..something like an inside joke between the 2 of you..personal..
Personal jokes that are shared and understood can bring a couple together. I like that static cling idea too. You have to shake the can well before applying.
 

Jewel5712

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I posted a song on here? I don't remember that. :oops: I mean I posted one a long time ago but that was way before you were a member here. Is that what you saw?
....maybe? I didnt see the date on it..sorry..lol
 

tourist

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@tourist ..how did you let YOUR wife know your intentions were more than friendship?
I started off by sending her PM's with little subtle hints that I was interested. Soon, I would color certain portions of the letter with a color that would express the emotion about how I felt along with a color chart to explain what certain colors represented. After awhile, I would sing her certain love songs in the letters. I would write a passage of a song and then write what the words meant to me regarding her. She loved how the songs and the writing were intertwined.

Red = Romantic
Pink = Intimate
Blue = Playful
Black = Serious
Turquoise = Whisper

I believe that the writings in Turquoise did the trick. These words were spoken softly during the quiet of the night when we were alone with our thoughts.