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I figured i would add in my 2 cents on the topics of dating and relationships. Needless to say, i have had quite a few relationships, only 3 serious ones but the one thing that i have noticed that all of them have in common is that i am always the one left with the wound in my chest. Not an exaggeration either. I used to be and still kind of am a cutter and i would always take it out on myself when things went wrong. All of my relationships ave always ended with me being the one in pain and the other person going on like nothing had happened. I got to watch ex's and at the time girlfriends sleeping with other people and think to myself "what did i do wrong?", it was a bonding experience i think (yes that was sarcasm). So anyways, my opinion is this. The idea that everyone has to have someone to be there for them and to have a relationship with them is ridiculous. The only thing i have learned in my experiences is that i am better off alone, i don't need anyone. It's not that i am scared of what might happen or how bad i will be hurt because to tell the truth the pain only fuels me. The reason why i choose to be alone is just that i am done with the whole thing. I might be alone for the rest of my life and i am perfectly okay with that. Don't get me wrong, i'm not saying that i will pass up every opportunity that comes my way but it will take a whole lot of time for me to want to get into something.
Besides, i have plenty of things to keep my mind off of other people. Like video games. I can start one up and lose myself for hours, same goes for reading. And when i get lonely i have my imaginary friend Vince to keep me company. Right Vince? (silence) See he has my back.
You can take what you want from this or flag it as innapropriate but it is just my views and the way things are for me.
Besides, i have plenty of things to keep my mind off of other people. Like video games. I can start one up and lose myself for hours, same goes for reading. And when i get lonely i have my imaginary friend Vince to keep me company. Right Vince? (silence) See he has my back.
You can take what you want from this or flag it as innapropriate but it is just my views and the way things are for me.