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Subhumanoidal

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Have you watched the news today , Someone tried to murder President Obama Form, Sen of state Hillary Clinton, and Former vice president Biden. They are in my prayers...
I don't watch the news on purpose. But I did overhear a variety of people receiving suspicious packages.
 

maxwel

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Have you watched the news today , Someone tried to murder President Obama Form, Sen of state Hillary Clinton, and Former vice president Biden. They are in my prayers...
I'm sure the media will say Trump did it.

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I'm sure the media will say Trump did it.

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I'm sure the media will say Trump did it.

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I know you said that what is going on in the world is'nt important to you. But do live in a cave??? there is a lot of things that have changed in the world since you've been out...Or are you one of those that think all news is fake with the exception of fox news. CNN and MSNBC have been making up stories about President Obama Form. Sen. Hillary Clinton were victims of a murderer. No, no one is stupid . we know the russians or the arabs were involved. they are going to investigate if Trump had knowledge...
 

maxwel

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I know you said that what is going on in the world is'nt important to you. But do live in a cave??? there is a lot of things that have changed in the world since you've been out...Or are you one of those that think all news is fake with the exception of fox news. CNN and MSNBC have been making up stories about President Obama Form. Sen. Hillary Clinton were victims of a murderer. No, no one is stupid . we know the russians or the arabs were involved. they are going to investigate if Trump had knowledge...

I didn't say any of those things.

Did you try to multi-quote and get some kind of error?


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Dino246

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You, Subhumanoidal said women who wear makeup are clowns, stupid, or insecure. Or, in your words, "Women wear makeup for a variety of reasons, so I can't give a single answer. Some may wear it because it's fun [they're clowns] for them, others may wear it because they believe its required to attract a man (which is false)[they're stupid] others may wear it out of insecurity in themselves [they're insecure]."

Don't be so pathetic as to deny what you said, just because I put it clear terms. Bottom line, you harshly judge women for wearing makeup. You hate women.

Is there a club for crass people you're trying to get into?
Keep up with that attitude and you'll be banned soon. You remind me of a teenager with too few boundaries and too much sugar.

If you want to make this time worthwhile, then listen carefully to the criticism you're receiving, take it to the Lord, and ask Him to show you how to treat thers in a way that glorifies Him. IF you're a Christian, that is.

If my doubt of your salvation irritates you, read Galatians 5:16-24 carefully... several times.
 

melita916

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As I mentioned before. It’s ok to have preferences. But it’s not ok to make them a requirement for everybody.
 
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I didn't say any of those things.

Did you try to multi-quote and get some kind of error?


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You said that you make a choice not to watch the news. They have literally been our only source, for us, (Americans.) for the last 70 years. to Inform us of what is going on in the world. In Trumps speech today did'nt feel the to mention there names. You do know who the last president is, right?
 
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As I mentioned before. It’s ok to have preferences. But it’s not ok to make them a requirement for everybody.
melita, Everyone has a "type". you just have to narrow this type down...
 
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You know, I've heard this kind of stuff many times before, both from christians and non-christian men, and every women who has been said this kind of stuff (wear some make up, dress more nicely, be more feminine) has felt really repulsed by the statement.

Women don't choose a guy only by their looks, they choose them by how they are. A kind, sweet, caring guy is WAY more appealing than a pretty macho man who looks taken out of a fashion magazine. Is true that physical appearance attracts, but if it doesn't come with a good personality then it doesn't matter how attractive the guy is, it's just unlikable. Appearance is not everything. Same goes for girls, what's the point of wearing make up if they're gonna be terrible people?

I understand that what you wrote is YOUR opinion and YOUR taste in women, but if it is, then look for someone just like that, others don't need to meet your standards.

The women I have related to want someone who respects them, respects their opinion and their need to be heard, care for them, make them laugh and are sweet and comprehensive with them. Someone who accepts them just as they are, and find them attractive even during their worst days. As for the economical part, how they spend their money or what they do with their time is their own problem, everyone has to manage their own business, and no one but the Lord has any saying on it. People can give advice, true, but if they take said advice or not is their own problem.

I know I can't talk for everyone, but I'm pretty sure that it's the same for both girls and guys, to just be accepted for who they are, not just for how the look :giggle:.
 

maxwel

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You said that you make a choice not to watch the news. They have literally been our only source, for us, (Americans.) for the last 70 years. to Inform us of what is going on in the world. In Trumps speech today did'nt feel the to mention there names. You do know who the last president is, right?
Did I say that?
Can you find the quote please?

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maxwel

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I was paraphrasing maxwel...
Please don't paraphrase things I never said.

If I say something, quote me, and I'll stand behind what I said.

If you don't have a quote, please don't make one up.
You wouldn't like it if I made up quotes for you, and claimed you said things you didn't.

I honestly think you just confused my post with someone else... because I don't think I said anything remotely like what you claimed.
It happens.
We all get in a hurry.... mistakes happen.
I'm not upset.
But, if you want to quote me, for good or bad, go ahead and get the actual quote, and then do you what you gotta do.
I'm cool with that.
:)

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Please don't paraphrase things I never said.

If I say something, quote me, and I'll stand behind what I said.

If you don't have a quote, please don't make one up.
You wouldn't like it if I made up quotes for you, and claimed you said things you didn't.

I honestly think you just confused my post with someone else... because I don't think I said anything remotely like what you claimed.
It happens.
We all get in a hurry.... mistakes happen.
I'm not upset.
But, if you want to quote me, for good or bad, go ahead and get the actual quote, and then do you what you gotta do.
I'm cool with that.
:)

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Can you at least defend one thing that you said in response to my post... I did'nt direct this at you . you were the one that responded...
 

maxwel

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Can you at least defend one thing that you said in response to my post... I did'nt direct this at you . you were the one that responded...
Quote anything specific that I say, anytime, and confront me with it, and ask your questions... and I'll be happy to give you answers.

No problem.
:)

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TabinRivCA

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Davenport

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Women don't choose a guy only by their looks, they choose them by how they are. A kind, sweet, caring guy is WAY more appealing than a pretty macho man who looks taken out of a fashion magazine.
I almost never see a girl with a guy much less attractive than herself. Appearance is very high on the list for women, along with his money. I don't even know if real kindness makes the short list for what most women want in a guy. It's very true that nice guys finish last.

I understand that what you wrote is YOUR opinion and YOUR taste in women, but if it is, then look for someone just like that, others don't need to meet your standards.
Of course, what I posted is my opinion. And, it's a very good opinion. If it were a poor opinion, those twits and trolls who have been hating on my for posting what I said could do better than claim women who wear makeup love to spend money on worthless things, are ugly hogs, are clowns, are stupid, and are insecure. (Of course, that's my wording of what those haters posted when they were pathetically insisting women use makeup for reasons other than to enhance their appearance. )

I know I can't talk for everyone, but I'm pretty sure that it's the same for both girls and guys, to just be accepted for who they are, not just for how the look :giggle:.
Even those twits and trolls hating on me are concerned with how they look. That's why they don't just throw on a potato sack and be done with it.