Singles???

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Auchin

Auchin

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Ok this 1 is just for single people, no marryed please.
I wud just like to see how many single people there actually are,
And how many of each sex, cause i allways fell its more male singles with the world and more female singles with christians, or other way round or somin, just that most females christian i know are in relationship and most females i know who are not christian are in relationship but same also for guys, but alot of christian guys single,
Anyway Im a Single Christian Male
So 1.M - 0.F
 
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X-ALT

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I've been looking for love and not sure if it's in all the wrong places, because these day's christian women don't realy want to go out with me but non christians would love to. I don't know why, but I am a christian man who is single and is looking for a soul mate. If there is any christian women who want's to know about me please contact me. Thank you.
 
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goth4god

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Auchin, this might be a bit easier if you made a poll in this thread. you can make a poll by going to the thread tools, up at the top right hand side of the screen and picking that option.

and X-ALT, maybe God hasnt shown you the right woman yet, don't get discouraged, cuz God will show you the right woman when its time!
 
Moviefan2k4

Moviefan2k4

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I too am currently among the ranks of single, male, Christian, and frustrated. Being single at 28 really sucks on a grand scale; I'm still hoping to be married before my 30th birthday.
 
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Gracegrl74

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why before 30th?
 
loveangel

loveangel

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I had a Guy But dont anymore so Im single again lol!!!!!!!
 
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goth4god

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I've been single most of my life, so count another female christian single! lol
 
Moviefan2k4

Moviefan2k4

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Gracegrl74 said:
why before 30th?
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Truth be told, I feel rather desperate. I never had a steady girlfriend of any kind growing up, and my only relationship was practically doomed from the beginning (sin will do that to you); it ended badly 3 years ago. I'm a single, somewhat lonely man who's wondering when his Earthly companion will come into his life. I know it often sounds weird for a guy to say this, but we feel the same desire for love that women do; we just go about it in different ways. Of course, I was raised predominantly around women, so my temperment isn't exactly what some may expect.
 
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X-ALT

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Christian men looking for love in all the wrong places?

I don't know about anyone else, but I'm tired of women who judge men and think that we are all dogs. If women don't think that there is good christian men out there that are single, nice to meet you cause I'm one.
 
Moviefan2k4

Moviefan2k4

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Re: Christian men looking for love in all the wrong places?

X-ALT said:
I don't know about anyone else, but I'm tired of women who judge men and think that we are all dogs. If women don't think that there is good christian men out there that are single, nice to meet you cause I'm one.
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Amen to that. Sadly, many women are still raised to believe that all men are only interested in sex, and that's it. While its certainly true that's a priority for us, I think it's wrong for us to be depicted as nothing but selfish, greedy, manipulative horndogs. I recognize there's guys out there who are like that, but that doesn't mean all of us fit the same description. It's a stereotype, and an unjust one in my opinion.
 
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goth4god

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Re: Christian men looking for love in all the wrong places?

Moviefan2k4 said:
Amen to that. Sadly, many women are still raised to believe that all men are only interested in sex, and that's it. While its certainly true that's a priority for us, I think it's wrong for us to be depicted as nothing but selfish, greedy, manipulative horndogs. I recognize there's guys out there who are like that, but that doesn't mean all of us fit the same description. It's a stereotype, and an unjust one in my opinion.
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its also an unjust stereotype to say that all women think of guys as "nothing but selfish, greedy, manipulative horndogs." cuz i dont think that about guys. so i mean stereotyping goes both ways. most of the guys i know are really nice Christians, so i don't think about guys like that.the way a paerson thinks really depends on a persons experiances.
 
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Narn

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Honestly I don't get the point of this thread.
Yeah there are singles out there, there will always be singles...
I have never really had a serious relationship in the proper sense of that understanding.
Being single is actually better than being in a relationship when you are not ready for a relationship and there are some like me who are not. Its all in Gods timing
 
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goth4god

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I think Auchin was just curious to see if there were more female christian singles or more male christian singles. *shrug* and now that he brought it up im kinda curious as well! lol
 
Moviefan2k4

Moviefan2k4

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Re: Christian men looking for love in all the wrong places?

goth4god said:
its also an unjust stereotype to say that all women think of guys as "nothing but selfish, greedy, manipulative horndogs." cuz i dont think that about guys. so i mean stereotyping goes both ways. most of the guys i know are really nice Christians, so i don't think about guys like that.the way a paerson thinks really depends on a persons experiances.
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Agreed; my point was that whether they believe it or not later in life, many women are taught as young girls that a man will only want her for her body, which is a lie from the pit of hell. This, combined with young boys often being taught to fear their own desires, messes up the whole ball of wax, and genuine change needs to take place, or things will only get worse.
 
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blvp2145

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I'm a Single 28 year old. I hate being single. But I try not too let it get too me.
 
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xAliveInJesusx

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im a single 19, nearly 20 year old, and i love life and i dont see any need for a man at this moment in time in my life. I love God and im following him and he is all that i need. Also stereotypes are bad for Christians too, just follow God and He will provide for you! :) dont worry too much about settling down yet!
you can count me as another single female Christian to the list!
 
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Andrea

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im single but im sorounded with love.. Thank you love... im single but im happy :)
 
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dog8food

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I'm frustrated too... I'm already 26 and while a love for God tops my list of things I'm attracted to in a woman, I also have a personal preference for sexual purity... someone who's roughed out out as long as I have. Is it really too much to ask?
 
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Krisisphotos

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I am 26 single and tierd of it. I feel like I struggle to find good Christian men because of my past. It's not awful or anything, but I wasn't always concerned with living a pure life and now I am. I've been living a pure lifestyle for over two years, but because of my past some Christian guys won't even look my way when it comes to dating. Others act like good Christian men, but then as soon as we get close they start to push the boundry sexually and don't seem to understand why I'm not ok with it. "you've done it beofe". I do believe there is someone out there for me, but I'm just not sure how to find them. I have two degrees, a great job and no man. Help! lol.
 
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