HOW ON EARTH AM I EVER GOING TO FIND A CHRISTIAN WOMAN TO MARRY

  • Thread starter Thread starter selfdissolving
  • Start date Start date
  • Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.

    If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!

    To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.
selfdissolving said:
Why is it soooo difficult to find a Godly Christian female????

One who's: never been married, is celibate, and ACTUALLY puts Jesus first???? And isn't hella old???? And is biblically orthodox in her theology???? And can hold her ground in a spiritual discussion???

I get lonely and discouraged and melancholy.

And then I remember...."all things work together for good for those who love God and are called according to his purpose".

Even this loneliness, discouragement and melancholy. Thank you Lord!
Click to expand...
I know EXACTLY how you feel. What I had to do: wait. And wait. And reject the world. Wait some more. Waited over 10 years. Finally found a sweet kind true believer after diligent searching half way around the planet. It has been very very rough go of things believe me.
BTW...she was suffering through the exact same syndrome and had almost given up hope.
Both of us are pretty beat down and past our prime but what choice did we have?
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pipp, tourist and Deade
rimidalv said:
this litle girl keeps talking to me her name is

ashlynn_stlouis . do you know who she is. i think she is 13.
Click to expand...

She keeps talking to you? I've seen her around and she doesn't post at all and I am concerned about whom she does talk to...especially older guys...no offence... But she really should be careful.

Anyhow, I see you're new here...welcome to CC :)
 
  • Like
Reactions: Deade
Exactly, she saw this that i inquer about her and freaked out, cursed me out and took off. said she is 13, home alone, mom not even at the house. I don't believe any of it any way. who knows it was weird. my dauter is 12 i would of never let her talk to grown a. men. I actually thought she is police, then its good to catch pervs.
 
  • Like
Reactions: MultilingualMessenger, Pipp and Deade
rimidalv said:
Exactly, she saw this that i inquer about her and freaked out, cursed me out and took off. said she is 13, home alone, mom not even at the house. I don't believe any of it any way. who knows it was weird. my dauter is 12 i would of never let her talk to grown a. men. I actually thought she is police, then its good to catch pervs.
Click to expand...

Yeah...she's a scammer it seems. She talks to a lot of guys..I've tried to talk to her but she never replied. It was wise of you to stay away. We'll see what the Mods will do about that...
 
  • Like
Reactions: Deade
if thats police its good, coz the questions she asks and the way she talks is a lure to idiots. the more idiots get cut the better. i dont think she is reall 13 y.o.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Deade
rimidalv said:
if thats police its good, coz the questions she asks and the way she talks is a lure to idiots. the more idiots get cut the better. i dont think she is reall 13 y.o.
Click to expand...

I don't think either. It's sorta strange....but hey, people online are pretty deceptive....a profile picture doesn't mean it's the person you're seeing.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Deade
rimidalv said:
if thats police its good, coz the questions she asks and the way she talks is a lure to idiots. the more idiots get cut the better. i dont think she is reall 13 y.o.
Click to expand...
i told her to talk to her mom or get a therapist to talk to. and did not alow her to get conversation of the rail road. i have a dauter too.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 1ofthem and Deade
How on earth will i find a woman? well weird enough i was promissed that God will bring her to me (wife). So I have no clue what to do, sit and wait, stand and wait. I know she is coming, and there is nothing i can do to stop that.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Deade
I said i dont belive You are talking to me, I want proof. He said ask for anything to proove to you. After quick thinking i asked for money. 4 times i was given money, last was the true gift and then i was broke for years.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Deade
never made sense to me why 4 times. but what does make sense only once it was trully given as a gift, alot, came as suprize, i did not expect it. so thats how my woman will come into my life, when i will least expect it, and i will not be able to refuse her. I was at church too. so thats where my place is, be next to God, worry about Him, and He will keep His promise when i least expect it.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Deade
rimidalv said:
Exactly, she saw this that i inquer about her and freaked out, cursed me out and took off. said she is 13, home alone, mom not even at the house. I don't believe any of it any way. who knows it was weird. my dauter is 12 i would of never let her talk to grown a. men. I actually thought she is police, then its good to catch pervs.
Click to expand...
"I actually thought she is police"
Yep. Very strong possibility.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pipp and RodB65
I learned to stop seeking my ideal of perfect. Instead turning my attention on men close to my age where Christ is the top priority and a man who would put me second. We all have flaws. It's fine to have expectations that are reasonable...I could never see myself trying to fit into the life of a man that thinks he's the cat's meow. Who can compete with over blown egos in a marriage? One person should not always feel their way is right. Marriage takes work and compromise.
 
  • Like
Reactions: BrotherMike
I learned to stop seeking my ideal of perfect. Instead turning my attention onmen close to my age where Christ is the top priority and a man who would put me second. We all have flaws. It's fine to have expectations that are reasonable...I could never see myself trying to fit into the life of a man that thinks he's the cat's meow. Who can compete with over blown egos in a marriage? One person should not always feel their way is right. Marriage takes work and compromise it doesn't work if one person does all the compromising. That builds resentment over time.
Church functions of any sort are probably the best place to find a good Christ centered woman.
 
  • Like
Reactions: seoulsearch
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top Bottom
Back