Yeah, it's pretty clear that God doesn't love everyone...
And not only that, but this too: Rebecca conceived [two sons under exactly the same circumstances] by our forefather Isaac, and the children were yet unborn and had so far done nothing either good or evil. Even so, in order further to carry out God’s purpose of selection (election, choice), which depends not on works or what men can do, but on Him Who calls [them], it was said to her that the elder [son] should serve the younger [son]. As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated (held in relative disregard in comparison with My feeling for Jacob)." --Romans 9:10-13 (Amplified Bible, emphasis mine)
It didn't even depend on anything they had done or didn't do--God just did not love Esau from his conception.
Context is always key: Love, Hate, Culture & Timeframes
Luke 14:26 If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
(NOTE: Jesus teaching here is symbolic & not literal hate. Hate here is in the context of Jewish culture expressions of His day.)
Jesus uses the word hate: To show how a mother or father will perceive the actions of a child who chooses the Lord above them. Will be seen as hateful or disloyal.
1st & most important commandment - Love God!
Other examples Matt 15:26 & Mk 7:27:
Jesus calls the Greek woman from Canaan a dog. She didn't have 4 legs & a long tail. This was a Jewish culture expression often used & applied to Gentiles. Seen by the Jew of that timeframe as godless dogs.
Luke 16:13:
No servant can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other.
(NOTE: These extremes would be atypical & are not meant to be taken literally)
Genesis 29:30
And he went in also unto Rachel, and he loved also Rachel more than Leah, and served with him yet seven other years. And when the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb: but Rachel was barren.
NOTE: Here, "hated" is clearly used synonymously with one who is loved less. Simply stated, Jacob loved Rachel more! If Jacob literally hated Leah why consent to take her as his wife at all. (Find additional context: Judges 14:16 & Deut. 21:15-17.)
Onto Malachi & Romans 9:
1st thought: 1 John 4:8 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
Isaac & Rebekah have 2 sons. Esau & Jacob. Esau offspring become what the Bible refers to as Edomites. Gen chapter 36 tells of Esau's GREAT WEALTH. Esau was by no means, the preverbal red headed step child (pun intended)
Jacobs offspring later become God's chosen people Israel. Point: God loved Jacob, who loved God/MORE!
Those claiming Jesus, Matt, Mal 1:1-2 & Paul in Rom 9:10-13 are preaching literal hate are taking a translated word from a different timeframe & culture. And claiming what it meant then, also applies today. I saw this same type of misapplication used in the global warming post. Jesus, Malachi & Paul's statements are in line with the context of Jewish culture during their timeframes. And should be taken metaphorically, not literally. MOO!