That's one of the few things on my wall, the Footprints story. I'm meant it as when you are going through change, don't look back, because you might hit the pier on the beach. Let's just say, it's hard to go forward, when you are looking backwards. Is that more agreeable to you? If not, forget what I said, and just keep making footprints. You have a right to your view, just as I have a right to mine.
I remember this one time I was walking on the beach, and this seagull dropped some white paint all over my head. I'm pretty sure the seagull did it on purpose, because I wasn't looking back, while my life was going through change.
I also used to walk on the beach and close my eyes for two second intervals and say, walk by faith, and not by sight.